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I like your enthusiasm.
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Someone here started following How to crush your limiting beliefs
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If you don’t like her then why open her in the first place? and it’s not difficult. Just compliment her in a cheeky manner . Or ask about what time it is or the directions and then gradually compliment her and change the topic .
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Someone here replied to Eskilon's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Then inform me why we consider them awake ? Because of their teachings about spirituality. And it’s even more tangible when it comes to Leo because you can watch his recordings and speak to him . Whereas Buddha and Ramana Maharishi are dead . And they didn’t even teach that much . And Leo got their version of spirituality covered in his old content as I mentioned anyways .So it’s nothing new . -
Someone here replied to Eskilon's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
it’s not easy to answer it like that . According to Leo himself , there are degrees and facets to Awakening. It’s not a single realization or an on-off switch . But you can assume that he has obviously some large degree of that knowledge because he’s consistent with all spiritual traditions like Hinduism , Buddhism , Taoism , regarding the nature of what consciousness is and and what the self is . And also certain Sects of Christo judaic religions, especially regarding the definition of “God “ and its characteristics. He claims to have arrived to these conclusions on his own work of meditation, contemplating, psychedelics and the research he’s done into these subjects. the only thing I personally disagree with him is Solipsism. Nobody says solipsism is the highest level of awakening expect for him . He deleted the video because I feel like he’s deep down unsure . -
Someone here replied to Eskilon's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
He’s not that bad but he’s definitely not a care bear either . And regardless, you should separate out spiritual realization itself from how he expresses himself . He’s not your stereotypical nice guru . I never heard Rupert Spira or Tolle say the word “fuck “ or “shit “ lol . But Leo speaks casually . He treats you as his bro . -
Someone here replied to PinkChalice's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
As far as I understand it, there is no “redoing “ this life again .Even in frameworks that involve reincarnation, such as Buddhism, the idea is not that the exact same life repeats itself. Reality is either moving in a straight line toward infinity or unfolding in some kind of cycle. But if it were truly cyclical …if this exact life were to recur under precisely the same initial conditions ..then it seems that everything would unfold exactly as it did before. You would make the same choices, take the same actions, and arrive at the same outcomes. That inevitably leads to one of my favorite philosophical topics about free will and choice . -
Someone here started following I hope I get a chance to redo this life after I die.
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These cute little openers can make her smile or giggle a bit . How are you gonna carry on the rest of the conversation after hook point? The opener can literally be anything . The rest of the conversation is much more important.
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Someone here started following give me your best opener
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You answered your own question in the first sentence. It’s wired into our biology .
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Someone here started following Dating is a distraction
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Someone here replied to Eskilon's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yes . There is partial truth to what VeganAwake is saying. But still , you must realize that there is no you . Some people don’t understand that they don’t exist . -
Someone here replied to Eskilon's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yes you can . You can have an experience called awakening . Otherwise all of spirituality and spiritual work is scam . Even if the awakening reveals that the separate self is illusory , then that is what the awakening reveals . This is like saying there is no difference between Buddha and Hitler and that they both had the same inner experience . -
Someone here started following will getting a girl friend solve my loneliness
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Yes it will.
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Someone here replied to Eskilon's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
He is currently delusional, and he actually considers himself the “wokest” person ever. The reason he gives for this is that he is God. But when he explains what he means by God,is a solipsistic mind that imagines everything. However, when you confront him directly and point out that he is claiming to be God, he will deny that this is actually his claim. He will tell you that he is not saying he is God. Instead, he says that you are God that you are the solipsistic mind and that everything exists within your consciousness. This creates a very strange consequence in his own reasoning. If you are the only conscious being in the universe, as he claims, then he himself is not conscious. In fact, he has explicitly said that he is not conscious and that you are the only conscious entity that exists. That is apparently what he means by solipsism. So his position seems to be that the person you perceive as “him” is not actually a conscious person at all. Only you are conscious, while everything else including him exists within your consciousness. I’m not sure whether he has since updated or changed this view, but that was what he explicitly said when describing his version of solipsism. -
Someone here started following Is Leo Gura awake or not?
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All of social life is fake. Every single person wears masks when they interact with other people. We all perform. We all adjust ourselves depending on who is standing in front of us. We change our tone, our expressions, our opinions, our behavior, even our body language. We become whatever version of ourselves is necessary for the situation. When you are completely alone, that’s your authentic self. And your authentic self is innocent, spontaneous, careless, peaceful, sad in a bitter-sweet way. There is something almost childlike about the self that exists when nobody is watching. You don’t have to impress anyone. You don’t have to prove anything. You don’t have to be attractive, successful, intelligent, interesting, confident, productive, or socially acceptable. You can simply exist.Our true nature is emptiness. Social life and life’s demands require for us to put on a fake mask in order to fit in. From the moment we enter society, we slowly learn which parts of ourselves are acceptable and which parts are not. We learn what gets approval, what gets rejected, what makes people uncomfortable, what makes people attracted to us, what makes people respect us, and what makes them ignore us. Begin to notice it when you interact with people.Notice how much of your personality changes depending on who you are talking to. Notice how carefully you choose your words. Notice how often you laugh when something isn’t really funny. Notice how often you pretend to care. Notice how often you pretend to be confident when you are uncertain. Notice how often you hide sadness, insecurity, jealousy, boredom, anger, loneliness, or desire because you know they might make you less socially acceptable.You are acting like the best actor in Hollywood. And what’s worse is that everyone knows that, but they are choice-less. What are you going to do? How are you gonna feed yourself without socializing? How are you gonna get sex? How are you gonna make money? How are you gonna build a career? How are you gonna have friends, relationships, status, security, comfort? You have to participate. You have to smile when you don’t feel like smiling. You have to make conversation when you have nothing to say. You have to sell yourself. You have to convince people that you are competent, desirable, interesting, trustworthy, successful. You have to learn how to present yourself in a way that society rewards. Successful people are people who are hyper aware that society is a rat race of who’s gonna act better to make the most money and pleasure they can squeeze out of this life.The person who understands the game learns how to play it.They learn how to talk. They learn how to dress. They learn how to network. They learn when to be agreeable and when to be aggressive. They learn how to sell an idea, sell a product, sell themselves. They learn what people want to hear.And eventually, some become extremely good at it. But beneath all of that is still the same empty, quiet person.The person who goes home alone.The person who takes off the mask.The person who sits in silence and suddenly doesn’t know what they are supposed to be doing anymore. And maybe that is why being alone can feel strangely peaceful and strangely sad at the same time.
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Thanks. what avenues of dating have you tried ? Do you go out on weekends and your off days from work to social gatherings and cold approach girls ? Are you actively looking for a wife through your social circle of relatives ?
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@Rishabh R I’d love to get to know you a little better and understand what you’re looking for at this stage of your life. What kind of relationship are you looking for ? something serious and leading toward marriage, a live-in relationship, or are you open to exploring a different kind of arrangement, such as multiple relationships? I’m also curious about your current life situation, if you’re comfortable sharing ofc. What do you do career wise, and what does your day to day life look like? And if you don’t mind me asking, how old are you? There’s no pressure to answer anything you’re not comfortable with. I just think it’s helpful to be open and honest about what we’re both looking for, our lifestyles, and where we are in life. That way, we can see whether we have similar expectations and genuinely connect with each other.
