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@ivankiss I could care less about the topic at hand (lol jk)...but I have a question.. How do you got those sharp jawbones?

Would you date a woman if she told you she was a prostitute in the past ? Because recently I'm chating up this girl from the US. and she had a super active sexual life. She basically was an escort . Tbh that doesn't matter to me. If she used to open her legs to people for money..I wanna understand.. If she did that.. What exactly is "wrong" with it? Is it wrong "morally"? Ain't no such thing as "morals".. we are just a bunch of evolved apes who figured out how to create illusions to organize our lives. Is it because she might be traumatized? Ok so she doesn't deserve love? She can't change? If she is my wife now then her prostitution career is something from the past. Why can't she open a new page with me and be become a sincere wife?. Is it because she might cheat on me? Any woman can cheat on You. If she did cheat on me that's a different subject..but imagine how crazy it is to divorce your wife because you think she "might" cheat on you!. I would say I'm not sure if I could date her beforehand.. Ladies..your opinions are welcome as well .

Mostly Because of financial issues. College..My whole family lives in there etc Lol no worries. Do you know anything about how to get green card and migrate to America? That's basically a dream of mine . I even have it o vision board but it seems so far from being actualized soon. Absolutely. I'm so sexually frustrated to the point I could get "it " up for a female cat (Don't take this seriously).

You are of course right .but I'm really in need for intimate partner. I've broken up with my last girlfriend two months ago .and since then I wasn't able to pull/attract any girl from cold approach. So I turned to dating apps . Actually I'm talking to her on Discord . She lives in America and I live in India. Its pretty difficult to think of her as a wife material..but based on her photos ..she is without exaggerating one of the most beautiful women I ever saw lol 😆 I'm in hesitation .can't think straight.

Which studies?

Once I get the green signal that this woman won't cheat and is ready to show sexual commitment as a partner..I will be more than happy to move past their Old sexual habits and behaviors. I will let it go and focus on the present.

No she is for real . But she really threw a wrench in works for me . Not sure if it's a Shit-test . My only concern is how can I trust her ? I wouldn't want such a woman. Because I won't be able to trust her. If she can be so callous about her sexual integrity then it's not a trustworthy person given that relationship involves sex and exclusive sex.

I was addressing this sentence specifically. How come I will keep dreaming even if I fully awaken? What's the point of awakening then ? Is it like being lucid in a dream ?

Well in my culture (Buddhism..advaita etc) they talk about something called MAHASAMADHI. Which means once you fully awaken you dissolve and you rest as nothingness forever. You only find yourself inside a body over and over again because you haven't fully awaken .Once you fully awaken you disappear forever. What do you think ?

What does that mean ? In a dream ..while the dream is happening ..People in the dream appear as other than you ..you only discover that they are you is when you wake up from the dream. Analogously ..People in real life appear as though they have independent existence on their own . But maybe when I die something fuckinh bizarre will be revealed and it was only covered by iving in the dream (and death is the waking up). it is absolutely true subjectively regardless of that. You are trapped inside your own subjective experience in any case.. So even though I am aware right now from my pov.. From your pov that doesn't matter and there is no such thing.. There is only your awareness.. There is no such thing as "my awareness" in your awareness.. There is only these words in front of you right now and that's the actualilty of what is.. Anything else is just assumptions you add on top of it .

@Leo Gura to put it shortly ..I know the Truth but I can't accept it .

Leo ..I know deep deep down that I'm God and that solipsism is true (even though I share mixed and confused and conflicted opinions on it here ). What should I do? I don't want to awaken. I want to keep dreaming forever. Actually before listening to your content..This idea started haunting me since I was a child.. I always had this feeling from my early childhood.. That I am actually the only "real" one out there and everyone else are just characters in my dream. Please share some thoughts on this 🙏.

Love is synonymous with God . Imo what makes people like Sam Harris and Richard Dawkins etc reject god is because they have a twisted view on what God is . That Abrahamic sadistic mofo who threatens us with eternal hell if we masturbate ...but that's not the actual God. So they (atheists ) are not denying God. They are denying the religious sadistic version of god .

My point was that when you face death or tough life situation/intense suffering to suicidal levels you stop being an atheist and you cry for God's help . Be atheist all you want ..but you shall repent sooner or later (mostly later ).

So ? Why do you believe Leo's words as gospel without you yourself deriving the answers for yourself? The point is nobody fucking knows .. You can only exist in direct experience to direct experience.. I'm not saying there cannot be anything outside of direct experience btw. All I'm saying for you to" verify " (prove 100%) something it must be in direct experience. If something isn't in your direct experience all you can do is give probabilities based on.. Well based on direct experience again lol. So I don't have access to other people's minds nor will I ever be able to access them (at least in this lifetime) so that means I can't actually be sure whether you are real or just an extension of my mind (just like the others in your dream).

That's not true .

The reality is no one knows. Even Leo himself is confused.

Then take a break from listening to Leo. And go enjoy your life . It's like you are eating garbage and it stinks..and im like dude just drop it away. Stop focusing on solipsism. Focus on well being .

@Actualizer777 I suggest you drop this whole inquiry and go grab some ice-cream

Dude ..look ..try to understand..I have no fucking clue.. That's a possibility. I have no experience of that tbh. But regardless.. you want a direct answer to the question...so does me. Is there any aware person in the universe besides me right now? .. Now I realize no matter what you say can't be enough evidence. Because I'm assuming that you are real and anything you say is valid when that's the very thing that I'm questioning lol

Sorry I can't help you . I myself am as confused as you .and often think along these lines . I will try to put it in a different way. All that exists right now in this field of awareness and this body that I conveniently call "me" and the stuff around me and... nothing else. "You"for example is just this profile image that's appearing inside this field of awareness. That's literally what "you " are at this moment of awareness. How can I know whether there is an actual person behind that? .. It's sort of like when you are dreaming other people appear as if they are real and independent from your awareness but when you wake up you discover they were just an extension of your mind. Is it the Same with "real life"? No fucking idea .

Could be helpful bonus

I realized life is a tough learning field . The more I grow up I discover how life is not meant to be easy or straightforward. All your childhood fairy tales dissolve as you get older . You must work hard if you want improvements in your life . And so for any guy here struggling with getting their life together..or simply lacks experience and maturity in life you should (and me as well ) take a break from distractions. Do a dopamine fast .. Put the phone down after you read this. Get off the couch. Take a sheet of paper and write down top 3 things you want to have in your life. Every morning ask yourself what are you going to do today to get closer to your dreams. Every evening..ask yourself if you've done what you promised yourself. That's it. If you do the above your life will change. The key to any change is action.

Solipsism. Org I was personally convinced by the Solipsism video but no longer. and I think leo is too. I can accept his Cartesian premise that only consciousness is certain.. but hey.. where do the contents of consciousness come from? That's the problem that idealism avoids.

You are still pretty young . You have all the time in the world ahead of you to change Internet addiction. I think one of the things that might help you is using an addiction journal (I use one for my smoking addiction). When you’re using the internet..take a moment to write down how you feel in the moment. When you’re not using it..but are craving the internet..write down how you feel in that moment. Do you feel smarter..wittier..and more confident online than you do in real life? Do you feel depressed.. isolated, and anxious when you’re not on the internet? Our brains naturally rewire themselves when we do dopamine fast . You will start to appreciate food and the sun and the birds more. So your baseline for enjoying things will shift from highly stimulating stuff like maybe porn or the internet in general to more mundane things . Good luck 👍 @Charlotte🙏