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@Ramanujan Brother..you are not a retard at all . Unless there is something clinical you suffer from autism or perfectionist symptoms or abnormal self consciousness. I notice you have a thing for books. You are addicted to theory . I’m introverted too and I think most people who are active on this forum are also more likely introverted. However socializing with people is REALLY not that such a nightmare . Literally just dress nice and put on some perfume or something and go to a mall or Any place in your country where there is mixed genders having fun in a secular chill flirty way and just strike up a conversation with a person . How to do that ? Just do it . Talking is an action step ..you do the action by doing the action . It’s like asking how to drink water . You can sit there theorizing about how to drink water until you die or you can just drink . Go to a social gathering or a party or a mall and find the most attractive girl there and literally just walk straight towards her and tell her that you like her dress …guess what will happen? She will smile. She is not gonna kill you. What if any person (male or female or anything in between ) told you randomly that they find you attractive? Isn’t that gonna Make you smile? . The rest is case by case . The point isn’t to make her your girlfriend..the point is you talked to her. Even if eventually she rejected you . It’s not the end of the world . You don’t expect to get that much lucky anyways. you have set proper expectations..low ones. But you talked to her. That means you improved . Baby steps and you will gain much more experience in short time and eventually you will have a girlfriend. It is not impossible. It’s your right as a man to have a girlfriend just as it’s women’s right to have husbands or Boyfriends. There is nothing wrong or weird or cringe or anything about that. Do not say I’m a retard again .

lol hahaha the guy is probably using AI auto tune editing his voice . He looks Asian and has Asian accent . The comment section is adorable also .

I mean we had discussed this numerous times and every single angle or argument about this topic has been said and repeated and shat out . And everyone said everything there is to be said about this .Use the searching bar .

Yes what the other guy told you . Leo also says you can have the same insights that he had. Is the “leader”treated as unquestionable authority here? Big no . Is independent thinking encouraged or discouraged? Encouraged. then it is not a cult .

it’s not a cult at all . This is a healthy community and we disagree with each others and with Leo about “the basics” and he tolerates questioning and allow people to say counter things to his entire worldview and deep convictions. To call this community a cult The real question is whether the community suppresses critical thinking and asks absolute obedience to Leo or brainwashing people. None of that is happening here .

Make sure you’re not self medicating or trying to cope with failure of getting a romantic partner.

Nonduality means there is no separation between apparent "things " or objects in existence even though it does appear that the world consists of separate physical objects..things.. selves ..etc . But Nonduality is the position that there is not two or more separate forms in existence but rather existence is one unified soup of beingness with no borders or boundaries. That's all. The entirety of this is a dream story you are spinning on the fly .

You just said there is no you .

No such thing . It’s not a belief system. Non-duality comes from Sanskrit word Advaita which just means not-two.

No . I’m saying this :

what is “it” which is not a permanent state ? Sorry I don’t understand the context I just now saw the thread . And also did you understand what I just told you in the previous reply ?

You are conflating what is factual with what you consider escapism. These two should not be mixed. If there is a body here..then there is a body here. Likewise… if it is true that there is no separate self within the body.. no ego.. no free will..no inherent purpose to life..or no fixed action step such as ‘this is what you must do in life ‘ then those claims are either true or false on their own terms. Whether you personally deem them escapism is irrelevant to their truth value.

quantum mechanics says that everything is made of vibration. Your thoughts shape your reality because every thought carries a vibration or an electrical charge ...when you send it out to the world it's gonna attract similar charges.

There is no point to life at all . You can enjoy it fully .

Well I don’t know what you mean. What I mean is simple .. if you as god started off as omnipotent perfection then why and how you ended up right now limited and confined and restricted? There is no other authority above you/god to take your omnipotence from you..which means you have deliberately chosen to limit yourself in order to experience limitation . But why you ask ? Is God evil ? Of course not . Is God stupid? Of course not .is God not omnipotent ? Of course no. Is God toying with us ?of course not. So what's up with God? Well think about it .truly understand that YOU are God and you have created this existence. Put yourself in the shoes of God and try to imagine how would you construct reality. Imagine if you created reality in such a way that you get instantly everything you want out of thin air . Just by thinking about it. Imagine!! whatever you want in a second. You wish for wealth ?Boom 1 billion dollars deposited in your account. You wish for love? Boom you get a beautiful spouse. You wish for friends ?Boom you got a ton of really cool friends to go on a vacation with you. How would you feel if this happens for real? You would feel amazing right ? My question tho would be for how long would you feel the same level of happiness?You might feel great for a few days.. maybe weeks..maybe months but what next?Would you keep feeling so high and happy all the time? Heck no. Your happiness levels will come to the same level as you have now and eventually everything gets boring and plain. It’s like playing GTA with God mode where you have unlimited health and money . It’s fun for a bit but really it’s boring . What I want to say is that limitation is what makes life worth living .how paradoxical is that ? That you get to work and work your ass off for hours just to put bread on the table is what makes that piece of bread tastes so good . Try it . Try stealing money and eating food with it .you will not feel proud of yourself. Now Try working in a tiresome job and earn money and buy food and notice how literally the food will taste better . Getting everything you want all the time is both the ultimate pleasure and the ultimate hell. Food moves you . Sex drives you . If you eat and fuck all day you will feel no drive or zest for life .

Ok.

@Inliytened1 Again because god’s infinite love means literal death to the ego .

Yes it’s not rocket science. Why care why Ralston doesn’t understand it ? If you understood it then that’s enough .

You love ice cream but you don’t love pain . That’s finite love which is biased . A human love is limited because a human is a finite form. A finite form has finite love because all it cares about is the survival of itself . If you love unconditionally that means you have to love hunger. But if you love hunger you will die as a human . god has no desire to survive or fear of death because it’s infinite and immortal..so it’s love is infinite and unconditional.

It doesn’t differ that much . Otherwise we would have called it hate . God is in love with everything.

Love is a facet of the absolute. Just like infinity.

I’m not . You don’t want to clarify why Leo unbanned you then ok fine with me . No problem.i was just curious.

@Mellowmarsh I left Phil’s place cause he teaches escapism to depressed teenagers .

Isagi?

@Mellowmarsh you asked Leo to unban Joseph?