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The best way to respond to someone who is yelling at you disrespectfully , insulting you , talking with a harsh tone or talking down on you is to not respond at all and not even look at his face . This is not weakness . This is a huge power.

Why do you need to know ?

“Hell is other people” -Jean-Paul Sartre. being constantly judged and defined by others is a kind of psychological imprisonment. I don’t think I’m meant to live surrounded by people. I find a kind of peace in solitude that I don’t find anywhere else. Being alone doesn’t make me lonely it makes me feel calm, free, and more like myself. I don’t seek solitude because I dislike people. I seek it because, when I’m alone, my mind is quiet and I feel at peace. Peace is the most beautiful emotion in the world . And it’s not Merely an emotion, it’s literally God . I’m fully awake to that Peace = God. “Aloneness and silence are two aspects of one experience, two sides of the same coin. If one wants to experience silence one has to go into one´s total aloneness. It is there. We are born alone, we die alone. Between these two realities we create a thousand and one illusions of being together - all kinds of relationships, friends and enemies, loves and hates, nations, races, religions. We create all kinds of hallucinations just to avoid one fact: that we are alone. But whatsoever we do, the truth cannot be changed. It is so, and rather than trying to escape from it, the best way is to rejoice in it. Rejoicing in your own aloneness is what meditation is all about. The meditator is one who dives deep into one´s aloneness, knowing that we are born alone, we will be dying alone, and deep down we are living alone. So why not experience what this aloneness is? It is our very nature, our very being.” -Osho.

God= Peace . if you found inner peace you found God.

I do suffer from OCD and perfectionism. I have attachments and aversions. I cling to things, and I grieve when I lose something I love. The root of this, I believe, is that I believe my fulfillment and happiness depend on external things—experiences, possessions, objects, people, places, or things. It’s clear to me that the only way to achieve permanent peace is to accept reality as it is, as much as I can, and let go of my clingings and attachments, as well as the unrealistic expectations of perfectionism—the expectation that everything should always happen without conflicting with my wishes. But even though I know this mentally, it seems like subconsciously there is still the belief that I shouldn’t spill coffee on my suit, or say something mean to my coworker, or whatever. But these things happen and will never change, because life is chaotic and obviously the ego doesn’t get to have everything going its own way all the time. So what is the solution? Making peace with reality as it is. and how to do this ? There is literally nothing I can do . When I’m experiencing that discomfort I have to just suck it up and live with it and let the discomfort and suffering be fully there and allow myself to give up to it . “What can I do ?”

Everything will happen when the perfect conditions for it to happen are present. everything will happen exactly when it should . Stop fear and expectations and anxiety. Everything is inevitable. drop FOMO. swim with the current.

Be fully present and 100% committed to what you are doing right now . Don’t multitask. if you are eating , focus on tasting every bite . if you are playing a video game , focus on enjoying every minute of the play . If you are taking a shower , feel the warmth of the water on your skin and body . If you are waking , focus on your footsteps. Focus on the scenes you see, the people, the road , the sun , the trees. If you are tired or experiencing pain or at least a mild discomfort, experience it fully and slowly . Don’t rush it to end the experience too fast . live meditatively. by doing this your whole life will become meditation and you won’t need to meditate in the classical way .

The Superman of football.

To me one usually needs to become successful and then transcend it . Burn the karma first . Don’t pretend you are in a place in your journey where you are actually not . Succeed then transcend your addiction to it.

Definitely. Even in off-days lift dumbbells or gas tanks .

@VeganAwake of course nobody will become enlightened because enlightenment is the end of self illusion matrix . It’s constantly seeking a better experience in the future . And simultaneously recognizing the self illusion was never real from the start . Spiritual ego is thinking you are god . There isn’t a you period . When physical body dies it will be the end forever and therefore nothing matters in any way whatsoever. Finally a new message

@Joseph Maynor @Mellowmarsh the best solution for you guys is divorce 😂

Yes.

Humans are very intelligent. You have no idea how intelligent people are. Don’t assume yourself the most intelligent smart ass ever . That random guy on the street or that Pizza delivery teenager boy might understand reality way better than you . consider that you suppress your own authenticity from others for the sake to fit in and not be considered weird by others . Now consider that others do the same .

We say sleep is unconsciousness.But unconsciousness is defined as the absence of consciousness. Fine.Then what is consciousness? We can point to what we mean.This.Right now.The fact that there is something . Because when you go to sleep tonight, something extraordinary will happen.This present moment will apparently disappear. Dreams may appear.Then they may disappear. And eventually this will be here again. But from the inside, where did the night go?Did you experience the passage of time? Did you experience the hours between falling asleep and waking?Or did the next moment simply arrive? We have names for all of this: sleep. dreaming. wakefulness. consciousness. unconsciousness. But naming something isn’t the same as explaining it. When you fall asleep tonight, what exactly disappears and what exactly returns in the morning? Forms and names . And what doesn't disappear when you fall asleep ? NO it’s not Nonexistence ! Because non existence doesn’t exist . The very word explains itself tautologically. We stripped away all forms . Then what remains? Not form . Not non existence. Then what ? Absolute Existence. Aka God . Hence ,”God doesn’t sleep “.

Perfect. Notice the wording very carefully: I slept . I Woke up . sleeping comes and goes . The waking state comes and goes . What is the I which is present in both states ?!

There is a place where nothing is happening ,but it exists and it’s always peaceful . That’s what I mean by being and ground .

Being false turns me on.

Sounds interesting. But I wouldn’t think along those lines.

Why do people fight each other? Why do people insult each other or cause intentional harm against someone? It might sound like a little innocent question. But it is not at all. It would be rational and reasonable to hurt another person if he is trying to hurt you. Self-defense. Just like if a wild animal is attacking you, you must defend yourself. And no matter how loving and compassionate you are, you must kill the animal if that was the only way to prevent it from killing you, granted that you care about your own survival. So maybe survival is the reason people hurt others? Because why else would you purposely hurt another person and cause them pain? It doesn’t feel good even to you. Don’t you feel guilty for doing it? Don’t you feel something inside you telling you that what you have done is wrong? Why do we hurt each other? A simple question, perhaps. But one that opens a much darker door into the human mind. if you hurt another human being on purpose without any reason or benefit to your survival you are committing Pure Evil . And you will go to hell, which is called guilt .

Were you born a Christian ? I’m not sure if you’re trolling , but in case you’re not , religious brainwashing is the single most difficult type of brainwashing in all of human psychology. Because you get brainwashed with religious beliefs as soon as you become conscious. When you are something like 6 or 7 years old . During this phase the brain is completely empty like a brand new sponge . And it absorbs whatever is injected to it directly without filtering it through logic because logic has not yet been turned on in the brain . Religion targets the emotional brain , not the logical brain. This is why if you were born as a Muslim you will die as Muslim . If you were born as a Christian you will die as a Christian . Rarely do people change their religion. Religion should be allowed as a choice only after the person becomes a rational adult then he can choose whether he wants to be a Muslim or a Christian. But raping a child’s mind with religion with brainwashing is a crime against human rights . Again , not religion itself , not Christianity itself , but brainwashing children into any religion.

@Hyperion that’s a long read . Give me some time I’ll read and tell you what I think.

I want to express something which I comprehend . But I’m failing . Because it can’t be said. For if I say it I would spend all of eternity talking about it. Because as reality is endless and contains endless details and never-ending flow , I would need to catch up with every new moment within the ever changing world. To explain to you what reality is and how it works , I would need to keep talking forever , but to no avail . the notion of “Absolute Truth “ is very problematic in my mind. Reaching the Absolute Truth is usually imagined as discovering a piece of information ,or a sentence ,or an insight that would make everything finally snap into its place forever . But an insight is a kind of understanding. Understanding is a form of thoughts. Thoughts never stop changing. The Absolute Truth as a static thing which is imagined as a great profound clarity and understanding of everything, is impossible. Because, everything changes . The insight won’t stay glued into your possession forever . The statement “ Absolute Truth is X” is no longer true as soon as I finish uttering this statement. So where is the absolute truth? It’s gone . And then I read a scientific article and I’m thinking about how to improve my health . A different thought occupies my mind now . Do I have to keep repeating to myself “Absolute Truth is X” nonestop ? Every time I say it .. it’s gone . consider this statement “ human beings are evolving collectively towards holistic unification of every single disagreement regarding what is the correct political position that brings equality and heaven on earth to all people “ is this statement true ? No . Why ? Because maybe there are no such things as human beings . Because reality is a flow of never ending changing unfixed boundaries. There is no such thing as “ a human being “ which is always the same thing for two split seconds . To have complete understanding of reality and to tell it to others ,you need to spend endless time , as endless as reality itself talking without even making 0% progress. Because all of that talking disappeared. You have to start again . Obviously you will fail again . then there is this thing we all know but can never be said . please discuss. thanks . A Leo quote: “ When your understanding of Reality gets high enough, Reality becomes a never-ending mystical experience. That's the point.“