Someone here

But you said before you're done with it all and just want to collapse and relax in some cave just like Someone here 😂? @James123 you mean YOLO?

@Princess Arabia disentangle yourself from this mess . You have nothing to prove to anybody . Just report the posts and move on .

Sorry but how do you know that for sure ?

@Kid A she is not her. Since when did preety talk about no-self and the absolute with such passion?

Is that unconditional? How long you gonna stay present? Can you stay present when you are forced to plan your future in life like a job meeting for example? Fear is what drives you in life . If you don't have any fear you will literally die.

That's not the point of this thread . Anyone can poke in his imagination and bring forth a thousands different horrific scenarios. Because the mind's capability of imagination is infinite . But the "link " is that infinite potential means infinite actual. If you can imagine you're being crossified then this abstract idea in your mind is inevitable part of reality. Otherwise you couldn't think it . Same applies to all the crazy shit I mentioned in OP. Pretty scary huh ? But What can be done to change this ?

But they are going to die .either you will die before them or they will die before you . Can't get around that. How are you dealing with this fear ?

Why should i say that ?am I a starving kitten dying in the freezing winter and you picked me up or something?

This is so easy to get once you get it you can't "unget" it lol.. And it sticks with you forever. Makes you peaceful sometimes when shit doesn't go your way. But I'm not sure why most people don't get this .then I think the whole point is that the "people " who don't grasp this are what's being called an illusion in the first place 😂..omg existence is such an absolutely absurd cosmic joke . I get upset that my family members don't get no-self but isn't no self the realization that there are no "family members " 😂?

PM me how you got the DMT please If its not against guidelines. Cool experience BTW.

This is something I'm trying to do as well. I'm your age .I would say first step is to stop being lazy and start taking action towards your goal .whatever actions which need to be done you gotta do. If you need to get financial independence and stable source of income..a house ..a well-shaped personality to take responsibility for yourself and your future family etc all of that needs to be done as quickly as possible. Then you go buy books and courses about dating and pick up. Then you apply that and get a girl and persuade her to marry you . Then the rest is heaven.

@samijiben dude you are so grumpy and almost 99.999% of your posts are hectic and disrespectful. I don't think you gonna last long in here . Thank you ? For what? For calling me a fool just the other day ? I'm at lost of why you get personal with people. Focus on the topic not the person who wrote it.

So is that something you have a say in or not ?

Are you a spy ?

Explain what you mean by that please . And..do you understand the "purpose" of this post or not?

@Carl-Richard so now it's about talking Hebrew German words which one needs to Google and you get off of your on farts instead of genuine help ? Do not make me lose all the respect I have to you . If you can't relate nor understand my problem then that's okay .I'm not forcing you to comment here .

😂 My point is very clear ..obviously some activities feel better than others and so forth and it's relative to people's taste. Some people do truly enjoy cigarettes more than sex like old people with Erectile Dysfunction and gray beard . And some do enjoy sex more than ciggies like teenagers without facial hair and explosion of hormones. The Second point is whether it be sex..ciggies..food..travelling..love..drugs..whisky..etc it's not ever going to make you truly happy because that's what ABC# spiritual work reveals that happiness can never come to you from the outside world.

True. Same goes for smoking ..sugar..drugs ..all kinds of exciting stuff. So sorry what's the point again that we are discussing? If you're saying same goes for ciggies and ice cream then shame on you 😂 because obviously I was exaggerating to highlight my point ..which I explained further in the post you just quoted .

@Carl-Richard you do not understand my problem enough.

yes i can . But my point is much deeper . So what is going to happen exactly after you have the best sex ever ? What are you expecting to happen ? Do you feel incomplete and think that sex is going to make you finally truly happy? What's the difficult thing about transcending sex other than just coming to peace with the fact that fucking the entire human race isn't gonna do shit to you ? @Princess Arabia what do you want?

@samijiben then why did you bother ?

I criticize him as much as I want . You never get a single conclusion from his word salad. You can't argue with him about anything or get anywhere because he uses no strict rules to his logic. he just uses anything he wants to justify anything he wants. @Breakingthewall I like you .

@Aether Phoenix if you go back and read where it all started it was Leo telling me what the fuck is wrong with this guy just because i asked why Ralston doesn't have any ebooks. So it's actually Leo who started all this nonsense. But I'm thrilled about the direction of this thread .

I mean man needs woman and woman needs man. We are social creatures . I'm not just talking about sex and fucking (although that's definitely an absolute ruin and shakes your entire nervous system with endorphins)...but intimacy..family ..children..a soulmate..love..Romance . This is more mighty than awakening to God.

@UnbornTao funny. But I mean what I say . Who the hell else besides me has the balls to post a thread like this one ?(although it has zero replies):