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Memories don't exist in heads. Makes no difference.. From the point of view of the NOW.. The past always doesn't exist anyways.. Except as a story that is being told in the now!!

@Johnny5 there is no content no structure no relative no absolute no nothing no everything Yada Yada Yada... NOTICE this.. This color that you are seeing right now is more "true" than anything your mind says about "perception" "qualia" "phenomenon" "veil" "relative" "absolute".

Words can't capture truth or be the truth because ALl words are happening within truth and are truth. a 5 yo child can understand this.. But mental masturbation feels good tho....

There can only be one infinite place

Marriage is against human nature. You can't eat the same lunch every day. I don't mean it's against human nature to have a partner.. But the idea of committing to one partner for the rest of your life doesn't seem like how it is ought to be.

It's just a daily reminder that "real life" is just one giant ass dream never mind that you won't get it anyways.

You will realize it only at the moment of death how stupid it was not recognizing the beauty and blessings that surrounded you.. You can enter "God mode" now if you want to but you are too afraid to do so because the beauty and miracle of the present moment will kill you if you recognize it "fully" for what it is.

I don't actually have a "problem". I'm just wondering why most porn is fake boring garbage when it can be done in a more artistic and real-like filled with intimacy way? That's all since.

@Danioover9000 it's so simple.. How sex is done in most of the content that you find online whether it's professional or amature is not how is it actually done in real life.. For example in real sex the majority of the focus between the two partners is actually on the face to face.. The upper body.. While ofcourse the penetration could be going down there.. But in most pornos the major focus is on the penetration sometimes the partners are completely ignoring each other intimately!!

Not sure that's just my guess. But since the majority of the content is directed towards men it's natural to conclude that the majority of the consumers are men! Also I think it's clear how different the female sexuality is from how the male sexuality works! Pretty rare. Given that the content is almost endless.. It's a shame that you have some time searching fot something that actually grabs your attention.. At least that's how it is for me.

I don't know about the producers but I think the majority of the consumers are young men or teenagers who are still discovering their sexuality or didn't get laid yet so they have no other option to deal with their lust.

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@Roy well also men want intimate sex. My point is what I see in let's say 70 % of porn has nothing to do with what real sex is about.. I mean ofcourse it's sex and all lol but I mean I don't want to just insert my peins in a vagina while staring at the wall and the woman is staring at the window or something.. wtf is that lol? I hope this topic is not too controversial lol

LOL I mean If they produce scenes that are actually closer to what the male mind really desires they will gather more money! Btw the site that I discovered is free

Full circle

Guys what's wrong with you can't understand the quote lol? It means filling the blank with something you don't love... And then the reasons why you don't love that thing are the price that you have to pay to stay awake.. Meaning you have to sacrifice these reasons that prevent you from loving to be awake in return. Get it?

Because you've got a crazy drunk monkey in your mind that won't shut up and let you realize this.

@Schahin look.. No one knows this stuff you are asking. The idea of hell came from religions and it's actually a metaphor to represent the state of being ignorant of your true nature. NOTICE hell is just an idea in your mind.. If you explore it there is no such thing as hell.. It was always an idea about hell. This infinity argument is bullshit. It's not mathematical infinity. Because I can say "yeah God will experience infinite heaven forever that won't end and is bigger than absolute infinity".. Go ahead now solve this with the coexistence of infinite hell as well.. Can't you see it has nothing to do with mathematics and probabilities?? It becomes a contradiction and logic collapses and nothing can be said with certainty. Stop thinking about it logically. Look at your hand. That's real. Think about "hell" "infinity"...that's NOT REAL.

This is the truth. The only reason you can't see it is because it's fucking everywhere. Same reason why people are searching for mystical experiences and can't realize the mystical experience that's happening right fucking now.

The problem is everything you think is "worth it" turns out to be not worth it at the end. So maybe try something that seems like not worth it. the whole idea of "worth it".. "what can I get out of this" is the opposite essence of meditation. It's completely pointless.. You basically sit down and do absolutely nothing...it's not worth it and that's exactly why you need to do it.. Stop trying to go somewhere or to get something.. There is nowhere to go and nothing to get.

I mean you're not wrong lol But then also...

Isn't that itself something that you are imagining? "the forest exists when I'm not aware of it" = imagination and concepts... "the forest does not exist if I'm not aware of it" =also concepts and imagination. In actuality there is no actuality to both statements.. Right? So both of them are relative.. Partial.. And don't contain the whole truth???.?

I agree with all that. Except maybe the last statement. I remain skeptical about death because I simply have no idea what happens after death.. The very idea that I'm gonna die someday is just a belief lol.... So to connect back to sleep and consciousness.. I'm consciousness.. That is my identity.. That is what I am.. Because I'm not any object of experience.. You could say I'm experience itself.. All that is fine.. Now this body gets tired.. It goes to bed.. Eyes closed.. Then something happens.. Phrase it however you want.. But what happens is all the content that I know of reality simply disappears.. All without exception.. Untill nothing is left.. these are not beliefs.. I'm describing sleep that we all experience for a period of time equals half of our lifetime!,!! Now that we agree I'm consciousness.. In deep sleep there is no consciousness. And there is no me as a carrier of consciousness or as consciousness itself.... If that's not true please explain to me how is that not true without using "deep sleep is a concept" or "you can't experience no experience"... I understand these two arguments and they are not quite convincing because what happens every night Is I simply disappear along with everything else. Thanks.

Name one thing that makes sense! Also try to make a very sharp distinction between what is actual and what is concepts from your mind... The raw data is actual.. "others are aware" is a concept... But notice.. "only me is aware and others are just my hallucination" is also a concept.. Actuality doesn't tell you anything about it. Stick with the raw data and get out of your head and the whole question will disappear.

Only proplem is you Can't possibly know that.