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Maybe because most girls are shy and insecure and they are stuck on their heads judging themselves about how they look

I think it's unethical.

With practice ..a lot of practice..we can evolve and be masters of attraction. It takes time and work. Probably you gonna suck at the beginning. But the key is to keep trying and forcing yourself to talk to girls. In my challenge here..the goal is very simple...you just have to go and talk to her .that's it .that's the whole challenge. Nothing else is required. Not getting her number or sleeping with her that night . Just the very act of going to an attractive girl and say that you find her attractive. And that's it for the day .and you do the same thing everyday. Until eventually you might find someone who there is chemistry between you and her and maybe you will get laid .

That's strange . I thought women like it when guys tell them they are beautiful!

I will try to keep an open mind to that possibility. But for now that's my understanding and where I am at in my existential journey. Thanks. Interesting perspective.

Why is that a turn off? I mean how else am I supposed to get laid ? Wait for the lady to come over to me and tell me "I think you're cute ,". Nope .most girls are shy and the guy should do the first step.

Yea .100 % agreed. I'm actually gonna do this with guys also . Since I don't have that much friends which explains why the fuck I spend most of my day hanging out in this forum . Thanks leo?

So does God love Hitler as much as he loves gandhi? That seems unfair . If a person is evil and killed millions of innocent souls ..how can there not be punishment for him? Call it bad karma or whatever but you get the point ..there must be a cosmic balance ..evil people should have evil karma ..Good people should have good karma . That's how I see it right now at this part of my spiritual path . I can't accept unconditional love. It's too radical. The idea that no matter what you do ..the universe will always be in your side.

Same question..how do you know that God doesn't judge? Did you meet him someday and asked them about it lol? Btw I'm talking about Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christinaty and islam,) tell us that God is judgemental and have reward (heaven ) and punishment (hell). In Eastern religions like Buddhism and Hinduism maybe they have more of a neutral all loving version of God.

Easier said than done .

Your definitely on the right track bro. Keep going ?

Thank you .that healed my heart a little bit. Yes.makes sense .thank you. Thanks. Interesting. Thanks for sharing. ? Hahaha ha ?

Thank you so much for the solid advice and the kind words .truly appreciate ?

How do you know that God doesn't judge you? Is a sinner person and a holy person equal to God? All religions and sacred books tell us that God will judge you. If not in this life..at least I the afterlife.

@Leo Gura Happy birthday my idol and favourite person in the world . May your day be filled with goodness and blessings. how is your health issues recently? Did you get better?

Thanks. I agree with you. You can't fake it until you make it ". That's why I said authenticity is key .you have to be authenticly confident and humorous and not just acting out a script.

Freud said that women become envious of penises at a young age, when they realize boys derive more sexual pleasure from their penises than girls do from their own sexual organs. Freud said this penis envy grows over time and manifests in a daughter's love for her father and the desire to give birth to a son, because those are as close as a woman can get to having a penis of her own. Is it true that women secretly wish to have penises as Freud said ? I mean the dude was obsessed with sex and came up with such crazy outllandish ideas ..but is this particular theory of him true ? Do girls secretly wish to have a penis ?

@Knowledge Hoarder why ?

Nipples?

So do you think that looks or money are all that matters to women ? Yeah sure that plays a role. But it's not the be all end all. Women care more about your personality than your looks . You have to humorous. Confident. Authentic. And all other good masculine traits that a man can have.

Yes its super attractive. but ..I'm gonna be honest with you..the first thing that guys care about in girls is her looks .then comes the personality traits .which is I guess the opposite for women Generally..men are more humorous than women in any case

@Knowledge Hoarder so are you implying that Leo doesn't have a life?

False.

No it is .jus because you didn't suffer suicidal thoughts before doesn't mean others aren't. When and if you experience it yourself you will have a better frame of reference .

I sympathise with you, my dear ! And I agree its not just about the suicidal thoughts .it manifest as a psychological shock and maybe even physical effects like when people experience panic attacks. I've been there myself before ..so I know what I'm talking about. No matter how much pain you’re experiencing right now, you’re not alone. Many of us have had suicidal thoughts at some point in our lives. Feeling suicidal is not a character defect, and it doesn’t mean that you are crazy, or weak, or flawed. It only means that you have more pain than you can cope with right now. But with time and support, you can overcome your problems and the pain and suicidal feelings will pass. Some of the finest, most admired, needed, and talented people have been where you are now. Many of us have thought about taking our own lives when we’ve felt overwhelmed by depression and devoid of all hope. But the pain of depression can be treated and hope can be renewed. No matter what your situation, there are people who need you, places where you can make a difference, and experiences that can remind you that life is worth living. It takes real courage to face death and step back from the brink. You can use that courage to face life, to learn coping skills for overcoming depression, and for finding the strength to keep going. Remember: Your emotions are not fixed—they are constantly changing. How you feel today may not be the same as how you felt yesterday or how you’ll feel tomorrow or next week. Your absence would create grief and anguish in the lives of friends and loved ones. There are many things you can still accomplish in your life. There are sights, sounds, and experiences in life that have the ability to delight and lift you—and that you would miss. Your ability to experience pleasurable emotions is equal to your ability to experience distressing emotions.