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It's religious nonsense? I don't think so. It is indeed a fantasy. In the present moment you wouldn't call your experience heavenly or hellish.. It's somewhere in the middle. Life has all kinds of opposites that compliment each other. One of them couldn't exist without the other. Up and down.. Good and bad.. Light and darkness.. Happiness and misery.. Pleasure and pain etc. The same creative power that created the beautiful stars and rainbows.. The sunset.. The birds the trees and the breeze.. The nature the sea.. This same creative Powe is able to create an infinitely beautiful reality that feels like an endless orgasm.. Yes it is. This same creative power that creeated the starving stomach ..the cancer.. The plague..the pain of being burned or bleeding to death.. The pain of being eaten alive.. Who made all this horrible stuff? The same creative power. The same creative power is able to create an infinitely painful reality that feels like being burned forever.. Hell. Nothing could prevent reality from manifesting hell or heaven .. And since the source is not separate.. You could manifest it. If you are not careful you might very well create hell.. If you follow the inner compass you are heading towards heaven. Metaphorical or not.. Happiness was Never a metaphor.. And pain was never and can never be an illusion. Because illusions do not exist. I laugh my ass off whenever I hear a faint of an argument about reality being illusory.. Here it is dummy.. If you have eyes to look.. Look. If you have ears to hear.. Hear. What else matters but happiness?? If you have tasted the beauty that this creative power is able to create.. . And you have tasted the pain that it is able to create as well.... You gotta figure out your way to heaven. Everyone is different. Your heaven is not my heaven.. Since its fantasy but it's real!. The only purpose of life if any is to actualize YOUR heaven.

I know most of you will go with sexual orgasm or maybe a Heroin high ..but what else feels incredibly good to you.

I agree. I'm really confused. But why is that ? Let's discuss it one thing at a time . Let's start with porn . Do you think porn is healthy ? I find it extremely difficult to say that. It completely rewire your brain and gives you toxic filthy expectations about sex and screw with your views of women. It's like it objectifies women. And it just doesn't resonate with my moral compass. About masturbation in itself without porn.yes it feels good .but I feel drained and regretful afterwards for some unknown reasons .so that also doesnt resonate with the lifestyle that I wish to have for myself. Which should be a healthy one.

Yup .excellent. exactly my experience. I'm also doing 90 days nofap .and will see how it goes . The problem is I can't make up my mind . Sometimes I feel like it's natural to do it since I don't have a wife or gf so what else am I supposed to do ?..but then I get easily addicted especially to porn and i end up doing it too often which zaps me of energy and motivation. So I decide that its not okay .and I stop .and the cycle repeats itself over and over again.

@Osaid but I feel the opposite. When I ejaculate too much I end up having temporary erectile dysfunction. Also loss of energy and brain fog and loss of motivation. But the more I abstain, shit just keeps getting magical, do you know what I mean?

What about this whole "life force " thing ? Is semen really that important and vital to your body and gives you huge benefits when you retain it ? Or is this some exaggeration from the nofap community?

It's something I never figured out .since my teenage years when I first discovered the pleasure that can be achieved through stroking my Penis ..I was always feeling down right after I ejaculate. I feel guilty. Lethargic and kinda depressed even. I don't understand why I feel like this after fapping. Anyone feels the same ? What could be the reason behind those emotions?

Real quick ..I think that after years of hardcore masturbation sessions I desensitised my penis. Its like I abused the nerve endings. I don't get as much pleasure. Only through orgasm when I get the buzz . How to resensitise my penis so that I get the normal pleasure that I was expecting in my teenage years ? I know its kinda controversial and somewhat embarrassing topic but just saying ?

I agree. Thanks for opening my eyes .? Like what? Any suggestions?

The problem is I am addicted to fapping. There is no middle way for me .if I do it once I end up doing 3 or 4 times a day .it's all or none situation for me .and I'm really intuiting that I should stop completely. That it's not the right thing for me to do and it's standing in the way of my success in life .at least that's how it is for me .

Lol. No I mean a mix of raw eggs and milk to drink.

What is the best food as a source of protein?

Most of you guys are telling me to lower the frequency of my masturbation sessions..when in fact I'm trying to stop altogether lol

I was fapping off like a monkey lol

I'm bisexual. Which means I like both guys and girls. But girls more .if I want to marry ..I will definitely marry a girl .

Shit needs to change .I need to quit a bunch of nasty stuff and cultivate other healthy habits. I need to quit smoking, porn,masturbation, junk food . I need to find a job ASAP. To find a girl to marry .this will not happen quickly but every day I get one step closer to my dream life . I have to work on my life purpose which I discovered for myself is to worship God, to obey God and form a strong relationship with him /it. And cultivating detachment and acceptance of the present moment and being grateful of what life gives me each moment. Wish me luck ?

It's a mindfuck. It's a miracle that we are here .it's a miracle that anything exists at all . How lucky we are ? Look at this amazing colorful universe. Look at the birds chirping. Look at the sunshine and the sunset .look at night sky and galaxies and the stars .listen to beautiful music that touches your soul .I'm on the brink of crying .it's so much beauty ?

@Carl-Richard ❤?

@Pudgey thank you sir ? As I mentioned the four things in OP. Cigarettes, porn, masturbation and junk food . I'm replacing it with exercises and becoming connected to god or to higher power that knows the way and can guide me and show me the way in life.

Like osho said " life is a very mysterious phenomenon..where laughter has its time ..and tears also have its time". Even sadness has its own beauty.

This is what happen when you die physically according to the quran Chapter 50:QAF 16. And We have created human beings and knows what is whispered in their hearts , and We are closer to him than his jugular veins. 17.When two angels records (their actions), one on their right,the other on their left. 18.Not a single word does he utter except that there are angels by his sides observing (always ready to record his deeds). 19.And the stupor of death will bring truth(before his eyes): This was the thing which you were trying to escape. 20.And the Trumpet shall be blown, that will be the Day that was warned. 21.And there will come forth every soul; with each will be an angel to (walk you) , and an angel to bear witness. 22."Indeed! You were heedless of this; now We have removed your veil, and your sight is sharp this Day." 23.And his Companion (the angel) will say; "Here is (his record) ready with me" 24.˹It will be said to both angels,˺ “Throw into Hell every stubborn disbeliever, 25.withholder of good, transgressor, and doubter. 26.who set up another god with Allah. So cast them into the severe punishment. 27.One’s ˹devilish˺ associate will say, “Our Lord! I did not make them transgress. Rather, they were far astray ˹on their own˺. 28.Allah will respond, “Do not dispute in My presence, since I had already given you a warning. 29.My Word cannot be changed, nor am I unjust to ˹My˺ creation. 30.˹Beware of˺ the Day We will ask Hell, “Are you full ˹yet˺?” And it will respond, “Are there any more?” 31.And Paradise will be brought near to the righteous, not far off. 32.˹And it will be said to them,˺ “This is what you were promised, for whoever ˹constantly˺ turned ˹to Allah˺ and kept up ˹His commandments˺— 33.who were in awe of the Most Compassionate without seeing ˹Him˺,1 and have come with a heart turning ˹only to Him˺ 34.Enter it in peace. This is the Day of eternal life!” 35.There they will have whatever they desire, and with Us is ˹even˺ more.

@Dodo suicide is the result of disconnection with god. That's the only reason. When and if you lose every hope you have in your life ..there is only one door that you can knock for help, and that door is gods mercy .

@Reciprocality oh do you have to make it complicated? You are stuck in your logical mind .drop your rationality and just enjoy the miracle of being alive. Indeed

Amen?