Someone here

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  1. @gettoefl minimalist mentality is the key ?
  2. Thanks.
  3. Would you expand on that a little bit please?
  4. That's true .I'm neglecting my body and indulging in bad habits like smoking ,masturbation, video games etc. But I hope to change that . Thank you ?
  5. The first step towards awakening or discovering truth is to admit that you don't know anything .period. What do you guess is the final step ?
  6. What do you mean exactly by that? Can you give examples ?
  7. Yes how did you know lol ? Thanks again. BTW your comment on my other thread in the dating section was also amazing.
  8. Thank you so much sir. This is such a high quality advice. Truly appreciated ?
  9. Very beautifully put . Thanks for sharing ?
  10. What is considered masculine in your mind?
  11. Interesting for those fascinated by the universe and it's infinite mystery. Enjoy ?
  12. What do you mean by surface stuff ? Stuff like looks and money don't matter to women ?
  13. I guess that's true .forgot to add it to the list .
  14. Which is what? Masculinity? They don't have that .I guess.
  15. Really? Are you being honest here ?
  16. So it varies from one woman to another and not all women alike ?
  17. Have you ever felt that everything you do and will do is meaningless? That no matter how great you are at something you will never be truly important, and that's when you are good at something, because most of the time you are just average. So why should we live if our existence has no importance, if it is not going to make any difference in the world? No big changes, you are just one more person like many others. Then again, while we rely on society to survive, our sense of self worth need have nothing whatsoever to do with our societal interactions or dynamics. Walk in nature - just be a living thing amongst other living things, drawing in the same air, absorbing the same solar radiation as part of this extraordinary edifice of life on Earth. Rather than feeling pointless, you can feel glad and privileged to part of these extraordinary things - the body of humanity, the biosphere, the Earth, the solar system. You are ultimately a tiny part of the expression of each of these entities. The nice aspect of this is that, since you (like me) are apparently not especially good at anything or capable of making much of a needed contribution to the world, we can sit back and enjoy watching it unfold without undue pressure of responsibility. Personal and local level assistance rendered to others is always an option and often happens naturally through the usual interactions of life anyway.
  18. Why do you think that is ? What's so special about detachment? Whats wrong with indulging in life's pleasures? Osho was one of the greatest enlightened people ever and he lived a very hot and luxurious life .
  19. Our worth . What is our worth as little humans in this vast infinite cosmos? We are like little ants . Life is temporary and relatively short. And I’ve come to ask “why” enough to realize for so long my reasoning wasn’t meaningful enough. I’m working on focusing on appreciation as well as well-directed hope.