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Which is what? Masculinity? They don't have that .I guess.

Really? Are you being honest here ?

So it varies from one woman to another and not all women alike ?

Have you ever felt that everything you do and will do is meaningless? That no matter how great you are at something you will never be truly important, and that's when you are good at something, because most of the time you are just average. So why should we live if our existence has no importance, if it is not going to make any difference in the world? No big changes, you are just one more person like many others. Then again, while we rely on society to survive, our sense of self worth need have nothing whatsoever to do with our societal interactions or dynamics. Walk in nature - just be a living thing amongst other living things, drawing in the same air, absorbing the same solar radiation as part of this extraordinary edifice of life on Earth. Rather than feeling pointless, you can feel glad and privileged to part of these extraordinary things - the body of humanity, the biosphere, the Earth, the solar system. You are ultimately a tiny part of the expression of each of these entities. The nice aspect of this is that, since you (like me) are apparently not especially good at anything or capable of making much of a needed contribution to the world, we can sit back and enjoy watching it unfold without undue pressure of responsibility. Personal and local level assistance rendered to others is always an option and often happens naturally through the usual interactions of life anyway.

Agreed ?

Why do you think that is ? What's so special about detachment? Whats wrong with indulging in life's pleasures? Osho was one of the greatest enlightened people ever and he lived a very hot and luxurious life .

Sorry about that .? ?

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Our worth . What is our worth as little humans in this vast infinite cosmos? We are like little ants . Life is temporary and relatively short. And I’ve come to ask “why” enough to realize for so long my reasoning wasn’t meaningful enough. I’m working on focusing on appreciation as well as well-directed hope.

Yes. That you know everything.

How so ?

It's religious nonsense? I don't think so. It is indeed a fantasy. In the present moment you wouldn't call your experience heavenly or hellish.. It's somewhere in the middle. Life has all kinds of opposites that compliment each other. One of them couldn't exist without the other. Up and down.. Good and bad.. Light and darkness.. Happiness and misery.. Pleasure and pain etc. The same creative power that created the beautiful stars and rainbows.. The sunset.. The birds the trees and the breeze.. The nature the sea.. This same creative Powe is able to create an infinitely beautiful reality that feels like an endless orgasm.. Yes it is. This same creative power that creeated the starving stomach ..the cancer.. The plague..the pain of being burned or bleeding to death.. The pain of being eaten alive.. Who made all this horrible stuff? The same creative power. The same creative power is able to create an infinitely painful reality that feels like being burned forever.. Hell. Nothing could prevent reality from manifesting hell or heaven .. And since the source is not separate.. You could manifest it. If you are not careful you might very well create hell.. If you follow the inner compass you are heading towards heaven. Metaphorical or not.. Happiness was Never a metaphor.. And pain was never and can never be an illusion. Because illusions do not exist. I laugh my ass off whenever I hear a faint of an argument about reality being illusory.. Here it is dummy.. If you have eyes to look.. Look. If you have ears to hear.. Hear. What else matters but happiness?? If you have tasted the beauty that this creative power is able to create.. . And you have tasted the pain that it is able to create as well.... You gotta figure out your way to heaven. Everyone is different. Your heaven is not my heaven.. Since its fantasy but it's real!. The only purpose of life if any is to actualize YOUR heaven.

I know most of you will go with sexual orgasm or maybe a Heroin high ..but what else feels incredibly good to you.

I agree. I'm really confused. But why is that ? Let's discuss it one thing at a time . Let's start with porn . Do you think porn is healthy ? I find it extremely difficult to say that. It completely rewire your brain and gives you toxic filthy expectations about sex and screw with your views of women. It's like it objectifies women. And it just doesn't resonate with my moral compass. About masturbation in itself without porn.yes it feels good .but I feel drained and regretful afterwards for some unknown reasons .so that also doesnt resonate with the lifestyle that I wish to have for myself. Which should be a healthy one.

Yup .excellent. exactly my experience. I'm also doing 90 days nofap .and will see how it goes . The problem is I can't make up my mind . Sometimes I feel like it's natural to do it since I don't have a wife or gf so what else am I supposed to do ?..but then I get easily addicted especially to porn and i end up doing it too often which zaps me of energy and motivation. So I decide that its not okay .and I stop .and the cycle repeats itself over and over again.

@Osaid but I feel the opposite. When I ejaculate too much I end up having temporary erectile dysfunction. Also loss of energy and brain fog and loss of motivation. But the more I abstain, shit just keeps getting magical, do you know what I mean?

What about this whole "life force " thing ? Is semen really that important and vital to your body and gives you huge benefits when you retain it ? Or is this some exaggeration from the nofap community?

It's something I never figured out .since my teenage years when I first discovered the pleasure that can be achieved through stroking my Penis ..I was always feeling down right after I ejaculate. I feel guilty. Lethargic and kinda depressed even. I don't understand why I feel like this after fapping. Anyone feels the same ? What could be the reason behind those emotions?

Real quick ..I think that after years of hardcore masturbation sessions I desensitised my penis. Its like I abused the nerve endings. I don't get as much pleasure. Only through orgasm when I get the buzz . How to resensitise my penis so that I get the normal pleasure that I was expecting in my teenage years ? I know its kinda controversial and somewhat embarrassing topic but just saying ?

I agree. Thanks for opening my eyes .? Like what? Any suggestions?

The problem is I am addicted to fapping. There is no middle way for me .if I do it once I end up doing 3 or 4 times a day .it's all or none situation for me .and I'm really intuiting that I should stop completely. That it's not the right thing for me to do and it's standing in the way of my success in life .at least that's how it is for me .

Lol. No I mean a mix of raw eggs and milk to drink.

What is the best food as a source of protein?

Most of you guys are telling me to lower the frequency of my masturbation sessions..when in fact I'm trying to stop altogether lol

I was fapping off like a monkey lol