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Right. The rules might be to reduce my posting frequency. Like one post per week instead of two or three posts a day

This thread is hilarious ?

I agree. Also..we guys like it when a girl compliment us . Compliments help guide your conversation through any awkward silence. Instead of pressuring yourself to think of something fun and creative, put the focus on him. A kind comment or compliment can help reinvigorate your conversation You might say, "I was really impressed how you finished that math test so quickly!" or, "I thought no one could pull off wearing a football jersey, but you really proved me wrong." Or anything else from this type.

Oh did you really mean that ? Or the sexual "value " of a dick is higher than a vagina? Lol P.S lol it feels weird talking about this. Freud was certainly a nutcase?

You gonna trigger the ladies here

I see. Look for ways to connect your conversation to something you’re really knowledgeable or familiar with. Good luck ?

I think you should first figure out a way to attract a partner first before you worry about what should you talk to him . Once you do that you can proceed into learning communication skills . Here's few suggestions: Ask open-ended questions. Open-ended questions require a longer answer than just "yes" or "no." Try to tweak your questions so he’s more motivated to talk out something in-depth, which will get the conversation going. Pretend to ask yourself the question first—if you can answer the question within a word or 2, it probably won’t keep your conversation going for very long. For instance, "What are your plans for the weekend?" is a better question than "Do you have anything exciting planned over the weekend?" If you’re feeling adventurous, ask a fun question, like "What’s the weirdest corner of the internet you’ve stumbled across?" or "If you had a budget of 1 million dollars for a party, how would you spend it?" Find and plan interesting and juicy topics that guys care about and talk with him about it .

Conversations with men tend to be more effective when there’s a clear purpose – addressing a problem that needs solving or making a point. Many men tend to fall into the ‘fixer’ mindset when communicating, preferring to tackle problems directly rather than discussing at length. If you’re talking about a sensitive topic, don’t make it into a big conversation – this can be overwhelming and make the bloke shy away. Tip: Keep it casual and low intensity. It may take a few short talks, rather than one epic conversation, to get him to open up. If I may ask ..are you even dating a specific guy at the time?

@Galyna Fantastic. Thank you for sharing . Awesome post .I felt goosbmups while reading it .

That's mindblowing lol

@Loba relax .that's not my opinion..its an idea by Freud as I mentioned in OP.

Yes .that's definitely something that porn is missing. The intimacy and emotional connection. You don't see that on porn .you only see the penetration process.

Dude ..don't fap using soap ..it will make your dick sore and it will burn. Use your spit or olive oil for safety. But since you don't like using lubes at all ..then whatever floats your boat .

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So you can't know what happens when you die unless you actually die ? I knew it .

Why do you think that is ? I'm open to positive criticism

It can hurt your penis if you fap without lube .and especially if you are using a tight grip .

What else? And would you explain how exactly can you extract that from having sex ? Especially the "healing, " and "success " part .

Pleasure. Obviously.

The problem is it comes out in such low quantities. Its not enough to lubricate the penis .so i need to use a lube like my spit or some olive oil .

Are you talking about precum? When I fap I notice it oozing ..but it's low in quantity ..not that much to give you full lubrication. And I think yeah..it depends on how intensely I'm aroused . No .semen come out when we cum (have an orgasm). There is fluid that comes out of the penis called precum. It comes out when we are aroused .and it helps with lubrication. What do you mean by other dimensions?

When girls are turned on ..their pussy becomes wet . So they have natural lube . But we men ..the dick just erects. I think it needs some lube to feel more slippery and pleasurable .and also to protect the penis from overstimulation and friction.

Yes I kinda agree . Though im noticing many physical changes, I was surprised to realize that those changes had little effect on my ability to enjoy sex . The reason for that is, now that I'm in my 25s my view of sex has evolved from when I was a teenager from merely a physical expression into something more personal, intimate and even spiritual. The physicality of sex, while still important, takes a back seat to how it feels to make a connection with my partner and to be fully present in moments of intimacy. All it takes is a willingness to let go of judgments and try new things to accommodate the natural physical and emotional changes of having a good sex. It may take trial and error , but this process of exploration can be powerful (and very sexy) if i approach it with patience and vulnerability. I think Using lube is a simple and inexpensive way to make sex feel comfortable . Making a lube a regular part of my sex life, and when im with a partner, find ways to make applying it playful and sexy so that it adds to the experience.

Why is there something rather than nothing?

@Dazgwny so do you believe that this life itself is already heaven? Also ..what do you think happens when we die? Aren't there going to be judgement for our deeds!? Or Do we just disappear forever?