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So you can't know what happens when you die unless you actually die ? I knew it .

Why do you think that is ? I'm open to positive criticism

It can hurt your penis if you fap without lube .and especially if you are using a tight grip .

What else? And would you explain how exactly can you extract that from having sex ? Especially the "healing, " and "success " part .

Pleasure. Obviously.

The problem is it comes out in such low quantities. Its not enough to lubricate the penis .so i need to use a lube like my spit or some olive oil .

Are you talking about precum? When I fap I notice it oozing ..but it's low in quantity ..not that much to give you full lubrication. And I think yeah..it depends on how intensely I'm aroused . No .semen come out when we cum (have an orgasm). There is fluid that comes out of the penis called precum. It comes out when we are aroused .and it helps with lubrication. What do you mean by other dimensions?

When girls are turned on ..their pussy becomes wet . So they have natural lube . But we men ..the dick just erects. I think it needs some lube to feel more slippery and pleasurable .and also to protect the penis from overstimulation and friction.

Yes I kinda agree . Though im noticing many physical changes, I was surprised to realize that those changes had little effect on my ability to enjoy sex . The reason for that is, now that I'm in my 25s my view of sex has evolved from when I was a teenager from merely a physical expression into something more personal, intimate and even spiritual. The physicality of sex, while still important, takes a back seat to how it feels to make a connection with my partner and to be fully present in moments of intimacy. All it takes is a willingness to let go of judgments and try new things to accommodate the natural physical and emotional changes of having a good sex. It may take trial and error , but this process of exploration can be powerful (and very sexy) if i approach it with patience and vulnerability. I think Using lube is a simple and inexpensive way to make sex feel comfortable . Making a lube a regular part of my sex life, and when im with a partner, find ways to make applying it playful and sexy so that it adds to the experience.

Why is there something rather than nothing?

@Dazgwny so do you believe that this life itself is already heaven? Also ..what do you think happens when we die? Aren't there going to be judgement for our deeds!? Or Do we just disappear forever?

Would you still enjoy existence if you had cancer? Life is clearly not perfect. There is so much evil shit in the world . Death. Murder. Rape .diseases. to name a few . Does that description apply to this life ? Are you free to do whatever you want? Are you omnipotent? Or are you just a flimsy human being that a glass of water can kill you if you swallow it in the wrong way ? Only god knows why .I don't claim to be omniscient. I Don know the answer to everything. But since God is all-wise ..he doesn't fuck around..he knows exactly what he is doing ..and that this design is the perfect design (I mean the test ). I will try to keep an open mind to that possibility.

Yes porn sucks in that aspect . It lacks intimacy. Its like watching robots having sex .just in and out fucking and moans without any intimacy between the actors and actresses.

@Michael569 thank you for the information. im glad that we have people like you here with so much knowledge in Health and nutrition.

What happened is that I realized that this life is imperfect .its full of suffering. It can't be heaven .I'm not particularly going through a hardship right now but it's just an observation that I had . I would like to think of this life as a test..if you succeed in the test you go to heaven ..if you fail the test you go to hell . But...as I pointed out..God's love mercy is always gonna weigh out in the end ..and that means the final destination of all creation is eternal heaven forever. Goodness that is eternal. And that's God mercy and love for its creation.

@Dazgwny @brun0 would you agree that the ultimate destiny and fate for all human beings and for all of creation is infinite unconditional love and infinite goodness forever?

First of all notice that existing is irreducibley mystical. It's pure magic. Notice that you don't actually got a clue what life is and what we are doing here and why we are here . And human life is just a bunch of dogs fighting over a piece of meat . That's what got you by the balls :survival. Survival. Survival So what's the point of it all ..?it can't just be money ? It can't just be finding a pussy to fuck or a dick to fuck you ? ..it can't be to worship God as all religions claim.? Some will say the point is itself .some will say the point is love. But all that seem abstract and nontangible to me . Or is that you make your own purpose? Simply life is pointless ,so you gotta make up your own purpose?

Yes .

Yours of course

@brun0 @Preety_India whether reincarnation or not...it doesn't matter the Details. The main idea of this thread that all of God's creation will eventually bask and drown in God's heavenly goodness forever.

The neurons in the brain firing away .

Amen to that brother ?. All is well . and everything is gonna be okay at the end . God's mercy and unconditional love encompasses all.

I know. And I agree .as I said there is pros and cons to each one of them (porn and real sex). In porn it satisfies all your fantasies that you won't be able to satisfied in real sex .but then again the sex in porn is kinda robotic and lacks intimacy.

@Michael569 I appreciate your information and trying to show me my errors. You have a deep and wide biological knowledge and I respect that . But come on..isn't it true that a meat-based diet better for your sex drive than a vegan diet?..aren't there certain amino acids in the meat which cannot be replaced by any vegetables?..what about zinc..?..zinc is essential for creating semen and it exists in meat more than any other food ? Again I'm not trying to split hairs here .I think you know better than me and I learn from you and thanks again for the information.

Read the OP again (if you haven't already)I explained with details why this the case .