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No worries if you disagree. But why the insult?

@Thought Art you are confusing me . I have no idea what the heck are you talking about. You are all over the place . Just give a definitive answer..is porn healthy? Is masturbation healthy? Yes or no ? Do you make a distinction between doing it in a moderate conscious way and being addicted to it and abusing it ?

Agreed 100%.

It's obvious what that has to do with what you said. You said masturbation Is not bad and we shouldn't shame ourselves if we do it . Now I disagree with that from my personal experience it can cause a lot of damage to your sexual energy . Especially porn .porn is realy the big demon. The problem is of course no one nowadays fap without watching porn .and it's proven clinically that it's addictive and might cause ED . But in any case..I'm not saying In this thread here that you should never masturbate ..I'm simply saying there are ways to do it which are healthy and some ways are not .

@Thought Art do you know that excessive masturbation especially to porn cam cause erectile dysfunction?

Chill guys. This thread is just for the giggles . Stop taking everything seriously goddammit.

The problem is you are scared shitless of the unknown. Death is no joke .its the one most thing you fear.

Our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are all linked, so our thoughts impact how we feel and act. So, although we all have unhelpful thoughts from time to time, it’s important to know what to do when they appear so we don’t let them change the course of our day. Therapy can often be helpful for changing negative thoughts, but you can also learn how to change your thought patterns. Mindfulness has its roots in meditation. It is the practice of detaching yourself from your thoughts and emotions and viewing them as an outside observer. Practicing mindfulness can help you become more conscious of your thoughts and build greater self-awareness. Mindfulness sets out to change your relationship to your thoughts. Try viewing your thoughts and feelings as objects floating past you that you can stop and observe or let pass you by.

Is it gonna be OK at the end ? What's God's most merciful and loving reward that he chose for us ? I'm trying to believe that there is heaven and hell after death . Not reincarnation. If we do good and follow our heart we shall enter paradise in the afterlife but if we be sinful and evil people we shall burn ? for eternity in hell. But I would like to believe that God's mercy is total .he is infinitely good and loving .eventually, even the sinful people will enter heaven . That the final destination awaiting all of God's creation is infinite goodness. Forever .

I am sure of my position. Doubtless, death is a loss. It deprives us of experiences and milestones, of time spent with our spouse and children. In short, it deprives us of all the things we value. But here is a simple truth that many of us seem to resist: living too long is also a loss. It renders many of us, if not disabled, then faltering and declining, a state that may not be worse than death but is nonetheless deprived. It robs us of our creativity and ability to contribute to work, society, the world. It transforms how people experience us, relate to us, and, most important, remember us. We are no longer remembered as vibrant and engaged but as feeble, ineffectual, even pathetic.

It might be something in the subconscious mind . Doesn't manifest consciously. He also said the idea that men were affected by their inability to bear children, calling it ‘womb envy’. H36 explained that men felt envious of the ‘biological functions of the female sex’ (like breastfeeding, pregnancy), calling it ‘males striving for achievemen . Horney reasoned that Freud’s theory of penis envy made more sense when it was taken as a metaphor; penis envy was a symbolic longing for the social prestige and position that men experience. Thus, women felt inferior because of the freedom and social status they lacked because of their gender, not because of their literal lack of the penis.

But its terrible to live to such old age. You will be sick and tired of life . You probably gonna start pissing and shiting your pants like a child Does

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It does give me a dopamine hit .

Why? Do you mean the range gonna be bigger or smaller ?

Thanks again for the quality advice ?

Do you think we all are destined to meet our soulmates one day ?.. almost every culture and religion believe that everyone has an ideal match. A soulmate is the one our soul recognizes and feels deeply connected with. . But people normally think that soul mates are supposed to be only their girlfriend or boyfriend. I also used to think the same sometime back. That is not true. Soul mates can be your best friend, siblings or even your pet! Trust me, I searched all over the internet on this topic and came to this conclusion. Someone with whom you can connect at a very good comfort level, who share the same views like you, share common choices and moreover when you feel that words are not required to communicate between you guys and just by looking into each other's eyes you can figure out how the other person is feeling, what they are trying to say, I believe that person is your soul mate. As for me, I think my mom is my soul mate. She might be far away, but the moment I call her to say something, before I even say anything, she'll tell me exactly the same thing. When I start dialing her number to call her, I get a call from her. There are so many occasions like this. And it took me a long time to realize this!

How to utilize it for spiritual awakening? I mean I heard all about the chakras and the third eye chacrka and all that stuff...but isn't that just pseudo science?

Amen. Thanks. That's so kind and comfy of you

What did you do to deserve it ? If you are a murder and Evil person, do you still have that right ?

Overall, porn is a bad thing. I mean No one will die, and it's something we can keep private for the most part. But When we continually train the brain to be aroused by a video on your phone or monitor screen, it may have major consequences for when we do have REAL INTERCOURSE. We start to develop ED (Erectile Dysfunction) as we train our brain for high-intensity stimulus. We're able to skip to all the good parts and watch tons of girls in each masturbation session versus having sex with one girl. When the intensity of porn is much higher than actual sex, we have a problem. We want more. We need more. Real sexual intercourse will not do it. Furthermore, when we watch porn, we're training ourselves to last only a few minutes. We can watch 2-10 videos before we decide to orgasm. We don't spend hours and hours watching porn. This leads to premature ejaculation. Although society considers sex as natural, we know that it can turn into an addiction such as with alcohol, tobacco and gambling. When does someone actually turn into a sex addict? What are the parameters which differentiate having a normal sex life to one that’s “too addicted”? It’s difficult to tell since there are so many degrees to addiction, but a good tell can be if it’s apparent that it’s affecting your life. For example, if you have to be at work at 9:00am but you’re consistently late due to “needing a sex fix”, you have a problem. Another example can be if you’re needing to attend your son or daughter’s dance rehearsal but you never show up because you need to have sex. In these instances, it’s clearly affecting your lifestyle in favor of your addiction. When you look inside yourself and discover that you’re not able to abandon sex for common chores and errands, it becomes a big problem. If you continue to conduct yourself in the same manner, the consequences are disastrous for yourself and your friends and family. If the addict does not decide to take control of their addiction, he or she will not get the help they need, so the addiction will continue to consume their lives and their behavior may result in serious, negative consequences. Unless they seek counseling and help from anonymous groups, these negative feelings will only increase the addiction cycle that feeds a sense of guilt and leads to despair.Have some balance and enjoy life at the same time.

Interesting. Thanks for sharing . Do you believe in law of attraction ? Can I use law of attraction to attract my dream girlfriend? And how to use it to achieve that? I know you are married and have kids ...May I ask how did you do it? Because I'm planning to marry soon .? So I wanna learn how to attract a partner.

Yea but in the dream of separation it is still possible. Don't forget we are not the godhead itself. At least in our human form. We are creations of God..not God himself. Of course in the ultimate sense we ARE God but God is dreaming right now that he is not God. So to say we are God and we are allowed to do all evil shit and there won't be a punishment of our deeds seems like spiritual bypassing .

I don't know what you mean by " chi" but you never run out of semen .even if you literally cum everyday. Your testicle create new millions of sperm cells each day . Now this is not to say that masturbation is harmless. I'm totally against it. But just for the sake of scientific clarity.

Stop repeating this in every topic concerning porn and masturbation. Porn especially is incredibly unhealthy and toxic and addictive and twists your view of women and sexuality. Also masturbation is not worth it. You just drain yourself for the sake 8 seconds of tingling sensation.