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But why it exists in the first place? I've had awakening to solipsism and that I'm the only conscious person in existence ..but I still don't understand why there is something rather than nothing? That's the ultimate minfuck .

Just get a girlfriend.

OK ?. I will take a look at the book and the videos you shared here . BTW thanks for the high quality and respectful conversation that we had even tho we disagree on ideas

How can I orgasm without ejaculating ? Can you teach me the technique?

I will try to watch them .don't worry

@Knowledge Hoarder it does bro .semen is very vital and rich of all kinds of nutritions. Like zinc and iron and protein and amino acids .when you ejaculate you lose a part of that. And I didn't say fapping once every month or so..I said fapping a lot..like multiple times everyday..that is going to fuck you up big time .there is no question about it .I know it from my direct experience.

I agree. Some people are more sensitive and some are less affected by it . It certainly depends on how healthy your lifestyle is at all. Fapping a lot drains vital nutritions from the body ..if you fap a lot you should be eating like a horse . Then again it depends on your lifestyle in general.

Actually it might very well be a finite resource. In Hinduism they belive each chakra in your body contains only so much of energy. And that of course applies to your root Chakra or your sex center. It's believed that it contains life force (they call it virya) and its In fact limited. Now ..there is not much scientific evidence for that but from my own direct experience I feel that it's true .I had so much sexual energy 4-5 years ago when I was a teenager..but now after years of masturbating I feel less horny. Now I understand that you never run out of semen ..but there is no point in wasting it either. Use it to connect with a real partner or simply save it and practice sexual transmutaion like yoga and whatnot .

I'm just trying to say its better to not masturbate at all and to save that energy for your romantic partner ...but if you are going to masturbate like what most guys do ..do it by following those rules to make it more healthy and less damaging. That's the OP in a nutshell.

Alright so I approached a girl last night and she rejected me . Alright, fine. We’ll admit it. We know what rejection feels like. And to be honest, dealing with rejection and knowing how to handle being rejected by a girl is a good thing. Both for you personally, and your dating life. Here’s why. Put yourself in their shoes: if you’d just rejected someone and they kept trying to ask you out you’d wonder why they didn’t get the message the first time. Everyone has different tastes. Someone out there doesn’t like pizza. And everyone loves pizza. There will be plenty of other people out there who like you. I will keep the challenge going..one girl per day. !!

I don't have, "shame complex " trust me dude . I call it growing up and becoming a real man . Do you think an alpha 10 guy masturbates all the time or getting laid and banging beautiful chicks ? It does boil down to your standards and your manhood and what you settle for . If you settle for masturbation..fine ..go with it ..but understand that it has negative consequences on the long term .

Then what's the need for masturbation?

I will try to watch. Thanks for recommendation . Here's the whole problem. You aren't supposed to make love with yourself. That means you are lonely and sexually suppressed. You are supposed to make love to a partner. And that's what is going to satisfy you both sexually and emotionally.

Although i don't judge you .you are free to do whatever you want . But apparently we have conflicting worldviews.

I feel like shit like a complete loser. Instead of fucking a real woman like a real man..I just fucked my hand . Seriously bro..is that the best thing you could be doing with your life ? You are a grown ass man right now .you ain't a little kid anymore. Masturbation is for teens and boys . Real men fuck pussy. That's how I see it . As far as "high quality" Masturbation, I still don't know what you're talk. You didn't explain how is that done .

What evidence do you want more than your own direct experience? Can you describe to me how you feel after you finished fucking your hand ? Do you feel awesome or do you feel like shit ?

Maybe because most girls are shy and insecure and they are stuck on their heads judging themselves about how they look

I think it's unethical.

With practice ..a lot of practice..we can evolve and be masters of attraction. It takes time and work. Probably you gonna suck at the beginning. But the key is to keep trying and forcing yourself to talk to girls. In my challenge here..the goal is very simple...you just have to go and talk to her .that's it .that's the whole challenge. Nothing else is required. Not getting her number or sleeping with her that night . Just the very act of going to an attractive girl and say that you find her attractive. And that's it for the day .and you do the same thing everyday. Until eventually you might find someone who there is chemistry between you and her and maybe you will get laid .

That's strange . I thought women like it when guys tell them they are beautiful!

I will try to keep an open mind to that possibility. But for now that's my understanding and where I am at in my existential journey. Thanks. Interesting perspective.

Why is that a turn off? I mean how else am I supposed to get laid ? Wait for the lady to come over to me and tell me "I think you're cute ,". Nope .most girls are shy and the guy should do the first step.

Yea .100 % agreed. I'm actually gonna do this with guys also . Since I don't have that much friends which explains why the fuck I spend most of my day hanging out in this forum . Thanks leo?

So does God love Hitler as much as he loves gandhi? That seems unfair . If a person is evil and killed millions of innocent souls ..how can there not be punishment for him? Call it bad karma or whatever but you get the point ..there must be a cosmic balance ..evil people should have evil karma ..Good people should have good karma . That's how I see it right now at this part of my spiritual path . I can't accept unconditional love. It's too radical. The idea that no matter what you do ..the universe will always be in your side.