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@Breakingthewall listen ..you are really pushing the limitations of my understanding and that's a great thing. But you have to understand that I'm speaking from direct experience not from a position of belief or speculation. What you have to understand is that You can come up with the philosophical idea that you are God or that everyone on this planet is God. You can even come up with the philosophical idea that everyone will one day join their conscious minds together. None of those things I just mentioned can be disproven but it can not be proven either way,I say this because I know damn well that I am conscious of my own mind. I know damn well that I exist, and though you have to believe me when I say that, I too have to believe you when you say you’ve got a conscious mind. The Earth realm will always tell you that others have a conscious mind so long as they are alive (or not brain dead), but remember that if it can’t be proven, it is only considered a theory. It doesn’t mean we can disprove it, or prove it. Now, I will say on a philosophical note, that others have claimed to have experienced “God”, and that there more alarming signs of “God” than you can conceive of being the only one to exist as a conscious mind . because it is in my opinion to be a healthier alternative. With that, I end this answer with what you need to know and that is you’re the only conscious mind that exists and solipsism is true. Some how, some way, “you know my answer to be true”, and you’ll be okay. Because I'm you.

@Razard86 That's a nice way to put it but I disagree . I have verified in my direct experience that I'm the only conscious being in the universe . My sense of self has expanded to include all sentient being .but not just conscious being .all inanimate objects as well . Basically all of reality is me . Most people take a subject-object view, wherein which they are subjects that relate to the objects of their perceptions. But a solipsist holds the view that there exists only a singular subject. The supposed objects of perception, put otherwise, are no more than elements of the singular subject.

Its really not worth it . You waste your health for the sake of 9 seconds of tingling sensation. Just think about how stupid of a deal that is . we all know after you nut one out you just lose it for a while. But not too long lol. You should recover within two days max. Also if you are not a horny teenager anymore you really shouldn't be yanking your Johnson anymore. your testosterone just stabilize and you are not horny anymore unless you purposely arouse yourself. Just save it for your girl. Also avoid pornograhy completely I don't need to tell ya that and don't bullshit my ass and say it's harmless. Also make sure you eat like a horse if you fap frequently to recover the lost energy. Or just don't fap at all if you are weak.

They call it post-nut clarity. It's a thing. If you wanna avoid this nonsense..do away with fapping off.

@Breakingthewall All attempts made to dismiss solipsism here are finally conjured within my own mind, regardless of how complicated and far reaching they may be. My conjurings may be complex, or simple, for their reality is there only as long as I entertain them in my thought, whether I think of this coffee cup on the table or of the multi-billion year story of the universe. I’m looking for answers that can convince me otherwise. But that is also just my game, for into my thought you come walking with your solipsism denials. Don’t advise me of ways to escape from my viewpoint, for it is really quite blissful. Thank you for being here in me.

@Realms of Wonder You are responsible for your intention, not your reception.” ~Amy E. Smith I’ve realized that I put a lot of energy into trying to explain my point of views . Sometimes those explanations are an honest attempt to connect with another person or to step a little further out of hiding. Often, they are a result of my own self-doubt and desire for people to like me. For example, I feel an obligation to say yes to any invitation or request I receive. Sometimes I’m glad to agree, other times I’d prefer to do something else. It gets tricky when the thing I’d prefer to do seems unimportant. So you might be right about some of your observations but that's not the full picture. I'm here to share my knowledge. And to engage with people to gain from their knowledge as well. I post here because I like chatting with highly Intelligent people from all over the world about interesting topics . that's all

Yeah there is this whole thing callled Sexual transmutation .it is taking the sexual energy that's building inside you and channeling it into something else. You'll let that physical energy build up,and you purposely don't release it in that sexual way.You could, of course, channel it directly into physical sex, as so many do, but if you need a little extra oomph of creative energy or physical might, holding off on the sex and using that energy elsewhere is the idea of sexual transmutation.

Lol Of course its so easy to get laid there . Come visit India and you will be shocked how difficult it is here .I'm not making excuses but that factor (the country factor) does play a huge role. You can't compare Indian society with western society when it comes to sex and being open minded about it .

Im simply looking for a serious relationship. Just because i talk to girls everyday and appear confident and positive in relationships doesn’t mean i don’t suffer from fear of intimacy. We can’t fall in love unless we trust others enough to show them our weak side and our worries. So fear of intimacy is fear of being fully seen for all that you are, and also fear of being seen as imperfect. Basically I got a shit ton of work to do before I can get into a relationship. And that's the most annoying part of this whole process.

if there’s a creator, and he Is indeed infinite. Then it’s a definite possibility. Why create 7 billion people and make them live together? If God wants to create and develop a soul, why not give him his own personal world to live in. It’s no extra work… at least not for someone capable of building this universe Everything ‘here’ is sheer illusion. It's completely illogical for ‘you’ and ‘other people’ to assert that they or any of their silly words exist in any sense. If you're so clever, prove the definition of your little sloppy world there. I guarantee you will resort to an infinite regress of using other imaginary axiomatics to justify each other. Wake up.

@something_else where are you from ?

Maybe because one might be living without any passion or goal in life. You have nothing to distract yourself from the most overrated, beautiful, orgasmic fluid exchange we call intercourse. Intercourse is amazing but everything in excess is always wrong. When you will be occupied with real things ( goal ), intercourse thoughts will least bother you. I do not say don't go for it, I just want to say don't make it your obsession. Don't act like you have nymphomania

@Preety_India If every human was fully enlightened, would evil still exist? In other words if every human was always fully aware that ALL IS ONE and ONE IS ALL then NO. Why would you harm yourself and diminish your own experience and prevent your own growth and expansion? A fully enlightened being is always aware that separation is an illusion. Sorry but I don't know how else to explain it to you. So have a good day ,I guess

I recently got a blowjob from a hooker and that was it . This was few weeks back .and that felt awful tbh because the girl was poor and desperate for money .and I used her to gratify my sick desires . But besides that I have a "one girl per day challenge " In which i force myself to talk with at least one girl everyday. And as expected tons of rejections with few success here and there .

I'm not .Personally I think it is NOT necessary. No one dies from lack of sex. I think it's fun, and it's nice, but it's a want, not a need.

Thats true. And that's why I said a radically different state of consciousness is required to recognize the beauty and perfection in what we call evil. Don't get me wrong..reality would be a HELL of a lot better...no pun intended. Crime would be nearly gone, war would be a thing of the past.... That would be a much more conscious, turquoise society, far more advanced - with Love/Pure Consciousness as its focal point. Though not without its imperfections, it would be much like that highly advanced alien society you imagine is out there somewhere - or humanity in 1000 years.

I agree . I remember Osho saying something along the lines is that to transcend sex you must live it fully first .

@Preety_India For evil not to exist only the absence of your judgement is required - wich is one facet of enlightenment

Yeah that definitely me bro ..thanks for the compliment also I thought about that a lot .I'm currently living in Thailand where there's a lot of sluts and hookers .but I don't want to engage in mindless casual sex with poor girls who need money . That's against mny moral compass. So I better wait for marriage .

Do you know what the materialism perspective consider the point of human existence is? Despite what that motivational YouTube video or Instagram quote might have told you, it is not to “find yourself”. The point of life is to survive long enough to pass on your genetic material and have children. That’s where the drive to have sex comes from when we go through puberty. As one rises to adulthood, the drive to have sex increases and most people become extremely horny. This is our biological imperative. On a personal level, sex is extremely pleasurable and can be very positive if you have lots of consensual sex with a partner whom you like. Could I have been more productive in high school, college, and other times in my life if I completely ceased the pursuit of sex with girls? Sure, but I wasn't going to do that. I had the urge to get with chicks and like many other members of the animal kingdom, I did a lot of things (some of them very stupid) to attract female attention in hopes that would lead me to “close the deal”. I lifted weights and got huge, grew a thick full beard to signal virility and maturity, partied a lot, chatted up almost every hot girl I saw, but I'm still not satisfied .and I know that I won't ever be satisfied no matter how much sex I have. Because happens lies completely beyond the animalistic desires of the body .or at least that's my perspective.

Because we lack consciousness to see that it's all perfectly perfect. If everyone was at an advanced enough stage of enlightenment it would be as if the earth was one giant collective consciousness. Think of the ideal family who's values align so perfectly that there is never any issues. Now extend that family to everyone on the planet. At an advanced enough stage of enlightenment, all resistance to what is ceases. The duality between selfishness and selflessness is shattered. The idea of doing anything to harm another person seems ridiculous. The idea of taking from others to suit yourself seems counterproductive, because everyone IS you. Once you realize your groundless nature and your identity becomes completely fluid, it makes more sense to abide as the entire earth rather than as an individual. You don't have to tell someone not to cut off their own arm haha.

But I know as a fact that I'm not getting any sex in less than five years. I have a university degree to finish and I have to find a job with a decent salary to afford for a marriage or serious relationship.

In our modern era today..I think it's important to most people. However I don't think it should be the number one necessity to live a good life or to even live any kind of life . I know that sex is biological need just like food. But we can surpass that need just like on fasting day we fast and still be happy. When one gets higher pleasure he can surpass lower pleasure. We find so many sadhus, saints and great people they are happy and satisfied without having sex. Essentially we are not this body but soul, when soul is in connection with supersoul he is happy just like fish feels comfortable in the association with ocean or water.

@Federico del pueblo I'm sorry if I'm annoying you with my threads on the dating section lately. Its just that I'm a single dude with not much friends who likes to mentally masturbate about all kinds of stuff. And what is better than sex to talk about? Do you got better topic?

When I was in my 16 in puberty age I just loved sex! I would think about sex in the morning, afternoon and evening. I would love to watch porno flicks, I would talk about sex and I would eagerly wait for sexual encounters to happen with girls. In fact, my dream was to have one million girl-friends, be the most desired man and have sex with thousands of women. Alas….how times change. Today, at the age of 25, I constantly ask myself “Were you seriously a playboy or were you lying about it?” Do you know why? Because today sex is no longer important to me. My sexual appetite has decreased to such a level - I only think about for 5 minutes. Yup - 5 minutes and I am done.