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Sometimes I think she is an angel , not just another pretty girl .

Well, you said the main reason you can’t find a girl is they think of you as having no goals in life .

Do you have a job ? How do you pay your bills? Why don’t you have ambitions in life ? What kind of girls are you interested in ?

I want to take a long break from the internet. This constant attachment to my phone and the digital world is really starting to drain me and zap my soul. I feel like I need to step away from all the noise, distractions, and endless scrolling for a few weeks and simply learn to live more naturally again. Last time I did a dopamine detox I felt high just by watching a sunrise or a sunset lol. I want to wake up early, go to bed early, spend more time outdoors, eat simple and healthy food, meditate, read, reflect, and enjoy the quiet moments without constantly reaching for a screen. No unnecessary electronics, no social media, no endless notifications etc I see it as a kind of detox, not just for my body but for my mind and soul as well. I want to disconnect from the digital world for a while so I can reconnect with myself, find some peace, clear my head, and appreciate the simple things in life again.

Do you have any unhealthy habits? How is your diet? thanks .

5 days without smoking . Definitely going through tough withdrawals now. I’m pissed off . My body asks for the nicotine.

Watching porn originally starts as sexual lust but once you become addicted, it stops being about libido and starts to be more about the brain craving the dopamine which is released,without being really interested in sex physically.

The main thing I’m going to focus on right now is quitting smoking and sleeping well . I will keep a daily record here . 4 days without smoking .

I’m taking a break from spirituality for a few months and choosing to focus more on my personal development during this period. I feel like I want to temporarily shift my attention toward myself, my habits, my lifestyle, and the way I’m living my everyday life. One of my main focuses during this time is overcoming certain bad habits that I’ve developed. I want to use these few months to make real progress in this area and become more disciplined and in control of my actions. Another thing I want to work on is getting into a smooth flow state in my daily life. I want to feel more naturally focused, comfortable, and consistent in what I’m doing instead of constantly feeling stuck or out of rhythm. I want to find a better flow within my day-to-day life and become more comfortable with maintaining that state. I also want to improve my physical appearance. I want to put more attention into how I look physically and work toward feeling better about my appearance. This is another area where I want to see noticeable personal improvement over the next few months. I want to become more social. I want to start talking to girls more and become more comfortable approaching and interacting with them. I want to put myself in situations where I can actually talk, connect, and socialize. I also want to go out more often and socialize more frequently in general. I want to become more active socially and spend more time interacting with people. I’ve been isolating myself for over two years now .I want to get myself into a smoother rhythm of going out, talking to people, meeting girls, and simply being more socially involved. Overall, for these next few months, I want my focus to be on personal development. I want to work on overcoming my bad habits, getting into a smooth flow state, improving my physical appearance, talking to girls more, going out more often, and socializing more. This is the period where I want to put my attention on myself and make progress in these areas.

Dawn is the best time for spiritual practices .

@PeaceOut96 you refuse to explain with more details . So I can’t continue with you. Peace out ✌️

You can’t explain it further than these three words ?

In what sense exactly?

If there is only you , how does it make sense to thank Leo ?

I see no value greater than self-love. I am the most valuable thing in my world …right here, right now, exactly as I am. I don’t need to become more, prove more, or earn my worth. My value is inherent. It has always been here.And this is the absolute truth.I am sacred.I am whole.I am already Enough right here, right now, exactly as I am. I do not need to seek outside myself for my worth . I consider doing that a form of stupidity and insanity .I am a divine expression of life itself, worthy simply because I exist.My presence is precious. My soul is priceless. My existence is a gift. i am the most valuable thing I will ever possess because I am the only and one sacred soul I will experience this life through.

I’m seeing huge improvements in my smoking habit and insomnia, and I’m genuinely happy about the progress I’ve been making. I haven’t smoked in the last three days, and, at the same time, I’ve been sleeping well and falling asleep easily for a few days now. For someone who has struggled with insomnia and addiction to both caffeine and nicotine, I see this as a real achievement .Lol. There were decisive moments when small, trivial choices became crucial. Once again, I’m reminded of how powerful small choices can be. A decision that looks insignificant in the moment can have consequences far beyond that particular moment. This has become particularly clear to me with smoking. When the urge is really high, having just one cigarette can seem like such a small thing. It can feel almost too insignificant to matter. But that one cigarette has the potential to ruin an entire week. That is what makes those moments so decisive. The choice itself may be small, but its consequences can be much bigger than the choice appears to be. And then there is sleep. I’ve been sleeping well and easily for a few days, which is something I’m very happy about . I’m happy to see improvements in both areas at the same time: smoking and sleep. There is something reassuring about noticing that things are actually changing. There is, however, one side effect I’ve noticed. I’m becoming much more sensitive emotionally. Sometimes it feels like my emotions are much closer to the surface than they used to be. I can listen to a song and immediately start crying, or suddenly feel something very deep inside me. I can’t control my emotions easily . I cry easily . I guess these are withdrawal symptoms. Whatever the reason, I’ve definitely noticed this increased emotional sensitivity alongside the other changes. again, I’m seeing that the power of small choices is invaluable. Always choose the right thing even if you feel like the wrong thing is trivial .

Try to help OP reduce his fears rather than increasing them.

What happens to you if your parents die ? what happens to you if you lost a child or a spouse ? what happens if you become Broke or homeless or get cancer? better not think of these possibilities. Because they are opened.

@Jirh yes , these are analogies. in your direct experience, where do you see objects , inside the brain or right where they are ? btw Leo has explained this topic a lot in the past . I just haven’t reviewed this inquiry in a while .

Insightful. Thanks for sharing.

There is an explanation for that . The same thing would happen in a dream scenario if the dreamer chose to dream that the dream brain is responsible for generating and/or producing the qualia of the dream world . imagine designing a video game where you program a rule that damaging Super Mario’s head with a hammer leads to “Game Over “. That doesn’t actually make the video game world produced by Mario’s head .

exactly. That’s correct. there is actually no perception process happening. Consciousness doesn’t see objects via the eyes . The boundary between subject and object is completely imaginary.

Understanding masculinity and femininity. Self-Love & Self Acceptance. Managing habits and addictions .

If this means there is no actual boundary between perception and perceiver , then I agree .

Recently I’ve been contemplating what seeing is , as in vision . According to science ,the eyes take the light which is reflected off the objects and then displays it inside the brain . But where exactly inside the brain ? Is there like an TV screen inside the brain ?? And who sees the screen? Where is the perceiver ?