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Can't promise you about that..I'm beyond addicted to this forum . I guess one day one of the moderators will do what's necessary and ban me

@fictional_character what do you mean exactly by infinite hell and infinite insanity?

@something_else I didn't mean it .and if I meant it .I take back my words . Those are my own strugglings and problems with masturbation. And does not necessarily apply to everyone. Fair now?

@Federico del pueblo As I said in the beginning that's how masturbating affects me . It doesn't necessarily mean it will affect you in the same Way. I think I repeated this point enough now . I’m struggling with sex too. I just want to add something. Sometimes masturbation and porn are bad that it's so obvious that its easy to see. It help us to see it as sin without much effort. Unfortunately, sometimes it make us, focus on sex and fail to see other sins within us. You have to understand that there are thousands of young guys struggling with insane addiction to porn and masturbation. They need rewiring, not just about sex addiction but in all aspect of their life Because aside from my sex problem, I realize I’m far from perfect, sometimes I become self centered man, a narcist, I say things to get praise from other people, instead looking for God, etc. I need to change all these flaws. I just wish i could bring it to a more bigger picture, instead focusing on sex. Although my point could be applied in other aspect of our life as well. So no complain, just some suggestion.

@something_else @Danioover9000 @Federico del pueblo this post is directed to the three of you because you three have quoted the same post of mine.. First of all like I said it varies from person to person. It depends on your age ,your diet ,your genetics,your lifestyle etc But just a couple of points: 1.So let’s get into the guts of it . on a cellular level.. When you ejaculate, you lose nutrients from your body. Most of the nutrients are lost in trace amounts, but zinc, selenium, and copper are significant and cause significant issues. 2.watching porn and fappping to it does rewire the brain to be responsive to porn and masturbation rather than real sex .check out the site www.yourbrainonporn.com https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/relevant-research-and-articles-about-the-studies/dopamine-and-addiction/&ved=2ahUKEwir3N3F7pH4AhU5gv0HHUv8CoYQFnoECAcQAQ&usg=AOvVaw1SJHKHZ3W7FiS9ECU-ms6U 3.yes you can use a light grip or hump a pillow .but most people actually do it the way monkey does it .they beat the shit out of their dick .because another side effect of chronic masturbation is desensitisation of the penis .you start feel less pleasure down there If you've been fapping for years .so you must use a fast tight grip. Or what's called "death grip". And otherwise you cannot reach an orgasm from gentle light strokes . 4.And don’t forget when you ejaculate, the good hormones and chemicals in your body are DECREASED - Serotonin (happy drug), Oxytocin (love drug), and Dopamine (euphoria drug). These hormones are produced in high levels when you watch porn and ejaculate. But what goes up, must come down. So these chemicals and hormones are decreased, but that then causes Prolactin to increase. An increase in Prolactin can mean poor moods, tiredness, and difficulty getting an erection. 5. There is no question about it .masturbation and porn are an addiction. Sexual orgasm is the single most potent activity that triggers release of dopamine in your brain. Most teenagers are addicted to it .because they want to stop but they can't.

To each his own. I do believe it depends on the person .it can be healthy or unhealthy depending on the person . For me personally masturbation has fucked me up big time in the past two years or so that I'm really considering quitting for good . Here are some of the harmful effects of masturbation to be considered, kindly read and try to understand that I'm being honest in reporting these effects and its even backed up by science. 1. Masturbation makes you weak, it drains protein and calcium content in the body 2. Masturbation creates nervousness and neurological problems 3. Masturbation is one of the main causes for erectile dysfunction. Because when you masturbate you use a tight grip on your penis .and that is not how vaginal sex happen .the vagina is more wide than your grip .so when you actually try to have sex after years of masturbation you will be disappointed by the widness of the vagina compared to your grip . 4. Masturbation makes you addicted even if you taste it for one time. Controlling it is a very big menace. 5. Masturbation creates drowsiness .you will be sleeping most of the time after ejaculation of your sperm. You will experience a damn tired. 6. Masturbation causes stress and strain in your mind and soul. 7. Masturbation also affects us psychologically. it creates depression after ejaculation and makes one feeling bad on his own. Now once again ..that's just my experience with masturbation. I'm not saying everyone will experience the same effect . But I do believe that masturbation has its own season in life which is the age of puberty (14-18)..after that it becomes boring and repetitive and you should start becoming a man and seek relationships with real women rather than with your hands .

@Breakingthewall listen ..you are really pushing the limitations of my understanding and that's a great thing. But you have to understand that I'm speaking from direct experience not from a position of belief or speculation. What you have to understand is that You can come up with the philosophical idea that you are God or that everyone on this planet is God. You can even come up with the philosophical idea that everyone will one day join their conscious minds together. None of those things I just mentioned can be disproven but it can not be proven either way,I say this because I know damn well that I am conscious of my own mind. I know damn well that I exist, and though you have to believe me when I say that, I too have to believe you when you say you’ve got a conscious mind. The Earth realm will always tell you that others have a conscious mind so long as they are alive (or not brain dead), but remember that if it can’t be proven, it is only considered a theory. It doesn’t mean we can disprove it, or prove it. Now, I will say on a philosophical note, that others have claimed to have experienced “God”, and that there more alarming signs of “God” than you can conceive of being the only one to exist as a conscious mind . because it is in my opinion to be a healthier alternative. With that, I end this answer with what you need to know and that is you’re the only conscious mind that exists and solipsism is true. Some how, some way, “you know my answer to be true”, and you’ll be okay. Because I'm you.

@Razard86 That's a nice way to put it but I disagree . I have verified in my direct experience that I'm the only conscious being in the universe . My sense of self has expanded to include all sentient being .but not just conscious being .all inanimate objects as well . Basically all of reality is me . Most people take a subject-object view, wherein which they are subjects that relate to the objects of their perceptions. But a solipsist holds the view that there exists only a singular subject. The supposed objects of perception, put otherwise, are no more than elements of the singular subject.

Its really not worth it . You waste your health for the sake of 9 seconds of tingling sensation. Just think about how stupid of a deal that is . we all know after you nut one out you just lose it for a while. But not too long lol. You should recover within two days max. Also if you are not a horny teenager anymore you really shouldn't be yanking your Johnson anymore. your testosterone just stabilize and you are not horny anymore unless you purposely arouse yourself. Just save it for your girl. Also avoid pornograhy completely I don't need to tell ya that and don't bullshit my ass and say it's harmless. Also make sure you eat like a horse if you fap frequently to recover the lost energy. Or just don't fap at all if you are weak.

They call it post-nut clarity. It's a thing. If you wanna avoid this nonsense..do away with fapping off.

@Breakingthewall All attempts made to dismiss solipsism here are finally conjured within my own mind, regardless of how complicated and far reaching they may be. My conjurings may be complex, or simple, for their reality is there only as long as I entertain them in my thought, whether I think of this coffee cup on the table or of the multi-billion year story of the universe. I’m looking for answers that can convince me otherwise. But that is also just my game, for into my thought you come walking with your solipsism denials. Don’t advise me of ways to escape from my viewpoint, for it is really quite blissful. Thank you for being here in me.

@Realms of Wonder You are responsible for your intention, not your reception.” ~Amy E. Smith I’ve realized that I put a lot of energy into trying to explain my point of views . Sometimes those explanations are an honest attempt to connect with another person or to step a little further out of hiding. Often, they are a result of my own self-doubt and desire for people to like me. For example, I feel an obligation to say yes to any invitation or request I receive. Sometimes I’m glad to agree, other times I’d prefer to do something else. It gets tricky when the thing I’d prefer to do seems unimportant. So you might be right about some of your observations but that's not the full picture. I'm here to share my knowledge. And to engage with people to gain from their knowledge as well. I post here because I like chatting with highly Intelligent people from all over the world about interesting topics . that's all

Yeah there is this whole thing callled Sexual transmutation .it is taking the sexual energy that's building inside you and channeling it into something else. You'll let that physical energy build up,and you purposely don't release it in that sexual way.You could, of course, channel it directly into physical sex, as so many do, but if you need a little extra oomph of creative energy or physical might, holding off on the sex and using that energy elsewhere is the idea of sexual transmutation.

Lol Of course its so easy to get laid there . Come visit India and you will be shocked how difficult it is here .I'm not making excuses but that factor (the country factor) does play a huge role. You can't compare Indian society with western society when it comes to sex and being open minded about it .

Im simply looking for a serious relationship. Just because i talk to girls everyday and appear confident and positive in relationships doesn’t mean i don’t suffer from fear of intimacy. We can’t fall in love unless we trust others enough to show them our weak side and our worries. So fear of intimacy is fear of being fully seen for all that you are, and also fear of being seen as imperfect. Basically I got a shit ton of work to do before I can get into a relationship. And that's the most annoying part of this whole process.

if there’s a creator, and he Is indeed infinite. Then it’s a definite possibility. Why create 7 billion people and make them live together? If God wants to create and develop a soul, why not give him his own personal world to live in. It’s no extra work… at least not for someone capable of building this universe Everything ‘here’ is sheer illusion. It's completely illogical for ‘you’ and ‘other people’ to assert that they or any of their silly words exist in any sense. If you're so clever, prove the definition of your little sloppy world there. I guarantee you will resort to an infinite regress of using other imaginary axiomatics to justify each other. Wake up.

@something_else where are you from ?

Maybe because one might be living without any passion or goal in life. You have nothing to distract yourself from the most overrated, beautiful, orgasmic fluid exchange we call intercourse. Intercourse is amazing but everything in excess is always wrong. When you will be occupied with real things ( goal ), intercourse thoughts will least bother you. I do not say don't go for it, I just want to say don't make it your obsession. Don't act like you have nymphomania

@Preety_India If every human was fully enlightened, would evil still exist? In other words if every human was always fully aware that ALL IS ONE and ONE IS ALL then NO. Why would you harm yourself and diminish your own experience and prevent your own growth and expansion? A fully enlightened being is always aware that separation is an illusion. Sorry but I don't know how else to explain it to you. So have a good day ,I guess

I recently got a blowjob from a hooker and that was it . This was few weeks back .and that felt awful tbh because the girl was poor and desperate for money .and I used her to gratify my sick desires . But besides that I have a "one girl per day challenge " In which i force myself to talk with at least one girl everyday. And as expected tons of rejections with few success here and there .

I'm not .Personally I think it is NOT necessary. No one dies from lack of sex. I think it's fun, and it's nice, but it's a want, not a need.

Thats true. And that's why I said a radically different state of consciousness is required to recognize the beauty and perfection in what we call evil. Don't get me wrong..reality would be a HELL of a lot better...no pun intended. Crime would be nearly gone, war would be a thing of the past.... That would be a much more conscious, turquoise society, far more advanced - with Love/Pure Consciousness as its focal point. Though not without its imperfections, it would be much like that highly advanced alien society you imagine is out there somewhere - or humanity in 1000 years.

I agree . I remember Osho saying something along the lines is that to transcend sex you must live it fully first .

@Preety_India For evil not to exist only the absence of your judgement is required - wich is one facet of enlightenment

Yeah that definitely me bro ..thanks for the compliment also I thought about that a lot .I'm currently living in Thailand where there's a lot of sluts and hookers .but I don't want to engage in mindless casual sex with poor girls who need money . That's against mny moral compass. So I better wait for marriage .