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Who said God "should " be fair and just ? Maybe God is the biggest asshole you ever imagined and he punishes those who commit suicide with eternal suffering? I mean how would you know? You see,you gotta admit that you don't actually know crap about God,death, and the after life . Here's some reasons to NOT commit suicide: 1-One day, you will die anyway. What's the hurry, stay awhile. 2-Death is uncertain. You dont know whats on the other side. 3-life keeps changing. It is full of possiblities. 4- If you are a virgin : how can you end it , without even having sex.

Do you meditate daily?

Because death is unknown to us . Even if you are in a great suffering..how would you know that what comes after death isn't even worse than your current life ?

Good to hear . Do you think it deserves a YouTube episode ? Or just a quickie on the blog would be sufficient?

Yeah me too . I benefited a lot from YouTube Videos. I would watch Leo's videos ad turn on the Captions and connect the sound of the words with how it's spelled. And in less than two years I progressed from a complete dishwasher in English to a fluent speaker ? Also While there are many tips and tricks you can find about writing effectively, however, there is only one way to develop your skill which is Writing daily and being persistent on it. Find your “Why?” and every day write and read, no matter how tough you feel because once you develop this crucial skill, you’ll feel proud for not giving up on your dream. And you will master english like you master your tongue language..

Good to hear. As far as my English proficiency is concerned, I’m on may to advanced. I’m pretty sure I can overcome middle level trap which is common to foreign language learners. To begin with, I must be excellent in into four parts: Reading, Listening, Speaking, and Writing.

@Leo Gura can you describe this experience visually? Like what did you particularly see ? Because I can't make sense of pure insanity without imagining my visul field melting away into some salvia fluid trip.

you suffer from simply having a strong sense of intellectual curiosity, which is certainly not a bad thing. Considering the anxiously self-conscious tone of your recent posts on the forum..I will assume you are fairly extremely serious about this work .which can be a double edged sword. You are not strange. You are not wrong. You are just curious. And that curiosity throws you for loops when you start to think about big questions. You are concerned that there is something wrong with this. Most people lose this curious spirit in adolescence. They fear ,unlike you ,that their curiosity is a sort of pathology, or they feel they are imposing on those whom they ask question to. They learn to be ashamed of their curiosity, so they learn to repress it. So by the time they are twenty they are much more ‘chilled’ and don’t think particularly inquisitively any longer. What a tragedy. I don't know .I wish you all the best if that insanity thing bothered you .and if it was a positive experience. Then congratulations

You can’t really change your sexuality. No one can. If you’re straight, you’re straight; if you’re gay, you’re gay; if you’re bi, you’re bi. It’s not practical and frankly not healthy to force yourself to be attracted to certain people just because you want to.

Why? What the hell is the relationship between understanding consciousness and insanity? Be well brother ?.

You have to train yourself to think in English. You probably speak in English but you think with your original language. If you managed to think in English you would be a fluent speaker.

Lol are you like me ? Just learned it somehow magically without any effort and surprised at your skill in English without any previous "training "? Where are you from? BTW congrats for the Mod upgrade ?

Oh really ? I thought you were from US or UK since you are excellent in English. Is it very easy to write in English for you ? How do you write sentences that are both clear and grammatically correct? How can you write good prose? How can you write like native speakers so that the people here love and appreciate your posts ? I often asked these questions while I was started to learn to write effectively at the beginning of my journey as a content writer. I am not saying that my writings are as good as native speakers. But as a non-native speaker, I think my writing skill has improved a lot by applying strategies that I am NOT going share with you. No .which one ? Can you link to it ?

Aren't you a native speaker? Where are you from ?

Many things about sex are exciting precisely because they are forbidden or considered unusual. The human sex drive is rather odd and much more complicated than that of most other animals (bonobos might be an exception), in part because of our complex social structure. So your fantasies are not unusual and not harmful unless you act on them in ways that cause trouble for you.

Most of the third world countries were ruled by some of the ancient empires . Although, as I personally believe, these countries were simply robbed by those powerful countries, there are some valuable aspects that they gained from the empires as well. One such thing is the systemized voting system. But when they gave the right to vote for the locals of these third-world countries, they gave it only to the people of high social status. Later only the right to vote was given to every citizen of these countries, actually by the local rulers and not by the foreign rulers. The empires may have had different reasons for their actions. But when thinking about how people vote in elections nowadays in these countries, many people just vote without any political literacy. And the politicians simply cheat the poor, less educated, less privileged people and rob their votes. IMO, this would not have happened if people were filtered when giving the right to vote. What do you think?

Its part of human reproduction strategy to have as much sex as possible with attractive partners themselves but to discourage others from doing the same. → So you will reproduce more successfully than others. We are all competing for having sex with highly attractive people, that’s why this bigoted double morale has developed: Publicly condemning sex (of others) whilst (in private) having lots of sex (with highly attractive people) yourself.

According to many people having sex with anyone other than their life partner is seen in a negative way because of the way we perceive the world and the way we perceive is because of the way our society has been born and bought up. This thinking is the by product of our society and the situations it had to face to achieve what it is today. This society also prevents havoc and chaos that would be caused without its presence as there will be many people who will not be able to understand the true nature of many things around them(because of their temporary limitations and the current state of their being they are at that moment), which may affect their lives and the people around them in a negative way. (By stating all this i am not saying in any way that the current state of our society is perfect, it’s far from that and we all need to awake ourselves up from the deep sleep we all have been, to live a life worth living and upto our true potential)

Even with birth control and condoms, there's a part of me that just can't relax. People are having sex in this era more than anytime in history .and the result is overpopulated poor dysfunctional society. I think there should be restrictions on having sex causally.

Women enjoy the feelings that go along with sex. Not just the physical part of sex. When women realize most men are only after the "physical" they get bitter on being just a piece of ass for a man's pleasure. But that's the truth of the matter. Men are after physical pleasure .women are after romance and connection .

I hate people who hate someone for thing that is not in their control, (Sexual orientation/Beauty/Skin colour/Body type/Financial status.)because,A person is gay not because he chose it , but nature chose him to be like that. A person is dark skinned not because he wanted it , but nature made him so. A person is born poor not because he loves being poor, but because nature chose to give him birth in a poor family. And moreover hatred for people like these should be more , because You are mocking a person for a thing that he did not choose himself. He cannot do anything to change it. So stop discriminating and start loving. Gays are also human beings

I have a love/hate relationship with sex. Not the actual act of sex but what many men have to go through to get it. It's the same feeling as being financially poor. On one hand the poor person would love to be rich but on the other hand that person is also often envious of those who are rich because it's easier. This is a problem for me because when I do get with a woman, I often mentally lose my want for sex because I keep thinking about the effort and energy it took to get to this moment. And it sometimes has little to do with the actual courtship of that particular woman and more to do with the general idea of what many men have to do, learn, endure etc to be worthy of that “sexual entitlement” from her. It turns me off. I've often had to apologise for not performing in the moment. I much prefer sex with prostitutes because I don't get that thought with them. I'm there for a reason and so is she, no bullshit in between. Never had a performance problem there.

Its hard to believe but there are many who consider themselves to be “Asexual”. From what I’ve gathered, they don’t actually “hate sex” but they find the prospect extremely “yucky & gross”. I’m not sure if any of these folks have ever tried it but I’m guessing a significant amount have & were supremely turned off by a bad experience. I’m also sure that some have decided to be this way since puberty. I subscribe to a few thoughts on this that are along the lines of: “Live and let live” and “To each, his own”.

I can quite easily sit next to a glass of water, and not drink it. It takes 0 effort on my part, there is not even a temptation to drink some random glass of water that’s been sitting around like that, if I even notice it in the first place. But if I were very very thirsty? Any liquid would start to look quite appealing. I’d look at that glass of water differently. It could become a kind of torture, to be forced to sit next to a glass of water, and not drink it, while slowly getting more and more thirsty. At some point, I might not be able to stand it, I’d drink the water, or leave, but not just sit there next to it slowly dying of thirst. If someone reaches out to me, I can quite easily shake their hand, and then let go. If I was falling, and someone reached out to me, I’d cling to their hand, potentially to the point of hurting them a bit. It’s possible for a man and a woman to be friends, if each one has an independent romantic and/or sexual life, and other friends, and family (blood or not), and so on. If their needs are generally being met. But if one of them is desperate? Then it’s going to be hard for them not to cling on to the only thing they have, or the only person they have. It’s natural for people to want more than just a friend.

What we fantasize about sexually doesn't always align with societal norms and values and this is why we get embarrassed and ashamed when we think about them or even think of discussing them. It is time that we as a society accept that sexual fantasies are absolutely normal and most adults have them.