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Just take a moment to observe your thoughts. Notice that there is a gap between them. Right ? It's not like thoughts are going on24/7..correct? there is a gap between every two thoughts .it lasts for few seconds between each thought and the next one. . There’s a space or a gap between this thought and the arising of the next thought. With time and practice the gaps become much bigger . At first you will experience them as short breaks between thoughts. But as you pay attention the gaps become bigger and bigger until you see that the entire background of your mind is spacious.it’s a big gap. And all the thoughts that come however many there may be cannot obscure the gap. Keep on noticing this gap and not react to the thoughts in between..As you keep doing this the gaps keep growing. You know you are doing it right when you start to have the sense that the gaps are actually much truer much more real than all the superficial little thoughts that bubble up and can seem so important.

The "do nothing " technique. Just watch your thoughts and don't do anything. Just watch them. Let them come..let them go..let them do their worst.. let them drive you crazy and you don't care. let them. But don't you try to stop them ..let them. Just surrender 100%. do nothing and watch what happens. You're actually just doing just absolute zero. You've turned yourself off and you have the attitude of: even if I die right now..so what? It doesn't matter. Even if my worst fear manifests..good.. let it. It seems difficult. But it's not really.. it seems difficult but it's easy if you do it.. try it. Get by yourself and just sit down..put your hands together and do absolutely nothing. Don't tell yourself you're watching or you're practicing anything at all. Give all practices up.. give it all up. This will send you into amazing levels of peace and serenity. Good luck !

Buddhism Says there is no ground . Leo says the ground is God..which is infinity .which means God is the groundless ground. Its the same .

@Never_give_up I totally feel you on that . I've wrestled with existential questions since I Was 14 yo trying to figure out life through philosophy. To some healthy degree philosophy is needed .but at some point you just have to smoke that damn DMT(which I haven't yet like you ) and drop philosophy. Can you go crazy from too much philosophy? Yea that might very well be the case ..Because all philosophical questions can only come after you wake up/become conscious. You waking up/becoming conscious is the beginning to everything. Like Big Bang.

Happiness/bliss and Love generate truth.. as does Truth generate pleasure and Love..because they are the same thing. So it's a two-sided way . I always wondered about what I value most .. truth or happiness? And everytime I contemplate this question I answer : happiness obviously. Because love/bliss/ happiness are "faster" than Truth..because Love is a bit more closer to Truth than Truth is. Omg look at the hippy things you made me say

How so when I am Truth ? You think there is a capital-T truth hiding behind God's butthole that you can discover if you keep doing colony to reality assuming that Truth is not this ?

The truth is that no one really values truth . They value money ..success..comfort ..health..and happiness. Truth is this present moment. There you go I solved the entire mystery of existence for ya. Now go enjoy your life 😂.

I still remember when i first discovered what an orgasm is during puberty..basically the very time i masturbated ..my first thoughts were something like "Holy shit holy shit holy shit...white stuff came out of my dick. What the fuck did I do? This has to be bad for me. I'm never touching myself again" And then the next day I did it again.😂 Back then I didn't even start watching porn ..I mean I could..but it just didn't arouse me..I don't want to just insert my penis into some fucking vagina while looking at the window and the woman is looking at the wall 😂 (isn't that 90% of porn scenes ?). So for the first few years in my puberty I used my imagination to jerk off .and it felt better than jaking off to porn. But obviously as the years went by I started getting lost in Pornhub and other XXX tube sites . That's not what I want to talk about today though so let's get into it : I did nofap for years on and off .meaning I abstained and relapsed a million times .I tried to quit porn and masturbation as much times as there are hairs in my beard .but it just didn't work . Plus I always thought that masturbation is bad and unhealthy. And that was my opinion expressed here on this forum around the topic of masturbation since my first day joining this forum . Now I've changed my mind . I started jerking off again . And I believe now that it's 100% healthy and normal. And in fact not masturbating is actually bad for you . Why is that ? For the following reasons: 1- it just feels gooooood ,okay ? Why should you deny yourself self-love ? Why should you keep gallons of Cum inside your balls and become a sexually repressed creep who will harrase girls in public because you can't think straight from the amount of Horniness you are experiencing? 2- actually it's healthy to cum every once in a while . Why ? There is a scientific study that shows that men who ejaculated more often have lower risk of prostate cancer . https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/ejaculation_frequency_and_prostate_cancer 3-there is a scientific study that shows that ejaculating once a week actually INCREASES testosterone levels . https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-and-testosterone . So I'm convinced now that masturbation is good..healthy &NECESSARY. The only problem is when you overdo it .obviously if you squeeze your fucking balls dry by Cumming 3 times a day everyday you will feel lethargic..depressed..zero libido ..not motivated..temporary ED..etc. so just use common sense boys and cum twice -4 times a month and enjoy your life . Move over !.

Yes I do . You too .stop putting fake front .I have not found a single person in my whole life who has the same degree of honesty and authenticity like me . Maybe That's why I struggle with making long term friends irl or keeping a girl locked . Obviously? Wet is good .

Whatever.

And here is a legitimate "sign " that you've actually got it..Aka are awake or liberated or enlightened etc..is that you literally can't be bothered by anything anymore. It becomes literally impossible to give a single crappy fuck about all the human bullshit .People might be cracking their skulls open banging the wall and some celestial planets might destroy the entire earth crashing down on it and you will not even hold your breath .

I get it relax man .lol Well ....enjoy 🥂

@NewKidOnTheBlock why are you putting the word "porn" in quotations? Implying that porn can't be defined? This is gay as fuck 😂

Lol First of all God is not really separate from you . But lets just pretend God is the bearded man in the clouds .. If God is really all-loving then he will overlook all the degenerate shit you've done .. The abrahamic religions god is the equivalent of an abusive parent who threatens to lock you in the basement and torture you if you don't behave or tell them you love them. That makes God immoral.. and I'm not going to give a blowjob to a terrorist just to avoid eternal suffering..so fuck God. but the cosmic joke is of course that when you say that its equivalent to looking at yourself in the mirror and saying " go fuck yourself ".

@D2sage idk man I'm guessing all this "steam " You're blowing out of your chest against porn comes from a negative experience with porn earlier in your life .like you were addicted to the point you were about to suicide yourself or something and then you had an explosive awakening that you must stop this habit or else you gonna screw your whole life away straight to hell . Between me and you it's fine to wank It to some hot clips every once In a while ..its not like it does actually matter On the grand scheme of things or the most "zoomed out " perspective possible. Don't you think so ?

@Never_give_up think of it this way my dear... Do you realize you are me? Cool then you are not just me you are everyone else.. Cool then you are not just everyone else you are everything.. Who knows everything? Everything. And who is everything? You. So who knows everything? You. Which is me. When you get it you will get it.

@Carl-Richard I mean who the hell takes you seriously with that "thing " in your signature ? jk. It's not like that .peeps masturbate to porn everyday...go to a live stream porn sites like a sex chat live when guys pay money so that the pornstar can spank her ass or squeeze her tits ..thousands if not millions if not billions if not trillions (yes trillions because even aliens and ghosts watch porn ) of guys watch porn everyday...and they have no problem getting it up to the computer. Or do you Just mean they can't get it up with a real chick ?

And now I'm sure you are indeed a nofap mod 😂. Much love man 😅🙏

You're good to go man I wish you the best most awesome life possible on nofap .you got this . I did read a statement online today that made me shit myself "life is too short to not cum everyday "

Lmfao. Let's just forget about "data " for now ..I have no idea what is that supposed to mean on God's earth . You approach a 10^1000000 women then what now ?seriously think about this question. I fucked the most gorgeous girl in the world (I'm not bragging or lying or bullshiting or whatever I don't care if you believe me or not )..but I just felt total Buddhist emptiness after the experience has settled down . So drop this whole player mentality and putting sex and girls on a pedestal as if this is going to produce real happiness In your life ..it won't.

@D2sage you sound like you are a moderator on the nofap forum 😂.

You shouldn't should anything. You listen to how you feel . You are NEVER without an internal self-guiding compass.if your voice is getting too manly and raspy and your balls are full of jizz and your cock is itchy then just fucking fap off like there is no tomorrow..no one is watching. And if you do that and allow yourself to enjoy the experience fully you will soon get bored of it ..your hormones will stabilise ..and you will just move on to the next thing in your life .music ..video games ..work ..art ..creativity..picking up girls etc .

I agree with you on the absolute level but I would dial down from overthinking these radical truths because they can lead to mental instability. The reason I said I agree is because yes ..from the absolute level nothing even exists at all (but of course good luck grasping this with your rational mind ). Papaji has a book called "nothing ever happened " 😂. Which is a true statement. Nothing has ever happened. You are imaging the entire past .your whole life is a thought . But if you actually grasp what is being said here you will become depressed forever because you will actually awaken from the illusion and collapse into a Solipsistic bubble .and this is serious shit don't kid around with these existential matters if you care about your mental health. Much love 🙏

Yes congrats 🎊 . This is a profound realisation. To me the following statements are impossible nonsense: - "That hurricane that happened yesterday should not have happened." - "You shouldn't drink coffee." -"i should probably go talk to that cute girl at college tonight instead of fucking around in a forum " Etc.. And I can go on with the examples .but my point is basically everything is perfect and inevitable. because God did it . I don't believe in shoulds or should nots . it means I look around at the world and to me the world as a 3D whole is perfect. not a single spec is out of place .I conclude that if it was made by an all-powerful God then that God is all-loving and did a wonderful great perfect job..and deserves infinite thanks.. because there is nothing that should not be exactly as it is. But those who think the world should be different than it unchangeably is have an opposite view to.. They therefore think that if there is a creator God.. that God did a bad job. But even sadness and hardship has its own beauty . Think about playing a Video game. Let it be FIFA vs. Pro Evolution Soccer. ..One of the reasons I Play FIFA on my PlayStation is because its more realistic and difficult than PES. You can't just dribble all the players or score 5 Goals easily in FIFA. 😂 unless you are playing easy mode or dribbling with Messi . So the challenge and the drama is what makes a video game good . Same with life .

@VeganAwake there is only intelligence. Creatures don't have intelligence just as OP said .there is simply nothing but pure consciousness or pure intelligence. And it has nothing to do with solving algebra equations or figuring out who owns the earth lol . One day ..when you were an innocent child ..you had it .you had it all .you were it .but human motherfuckers have turned you into an adult fool .