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@Princess Arabia Look ,sweetie...this is not the first time..you and that guy jump into my threads and start exchanging jokes instead of answering the questions. You drift to la la land and start making fun . And I thought what should I do with these two ?... Should I ignore them? Should I not argue with them and lose my peace of mind? Or... plainly tell them they are annoying and I do not want to get into a debate with them? I'm a pretty patient person. I don't get annoyed easily. It's really difficult to push my buttons. Just reduce he use of sarcasm. And yes everything is bullshit..so what ? Should I jump off a cliff because death and afterlife are BS ? BS is an acquired taste . Don't strawman BS. I'm trying to be more productive because my laziness started to affect me to much in almost every aspect of my life.. be it building relationships..university or family etc . I don't know what to do..and not knowing what to do just make me feel like doing nothing then that stresses me and to stop that stress i do unproductive stuff that build more stress and so on. You feel me ? tell me what I could do? Do I need a special schedule? Psychology test? Or what ?

I study business in college. Don't have any job or degree.

I didn't do anything unfortunately. I struggle with laziness and difficulty taking action.

@Ajax @Princess Arabia Are you guys in love or something? Stop ruining my serious threads with your nonsense.

@Princess Arabia you are a smart lady ..any advice?

If I'm being honest ..I want to bang bitches lol But ... The most important thing is: Financial independence. Any advice in how to achieve that ASAP? I'm currently in first semester in uni and don't have a job and have no clue how to start a small business etc

Elaborate please..

Thanks .Will check it out .

Thank you man . Sincerely appreciated ?

Even the BS detector is BS.

Lolz

My question is how tf you are supposed to know if someone is enlightened in the first place ?

Can someone answer me this ?!

This may seem like a stupid question..but how do you know if you (or someone else) are enlightened? I'm certain I'm not . and probably never will be.. but how would I know? I've been practicing for 10-30 minutes a day for the past 3 years (mainly Vipassana meditation). I feel I've gained some valuable insight into the nature of mind and reality .but it's hard to tell if I'm making any real progress.. or where my practice will ultimately lead? Is psychedelics mandatory for enlightenment? Can you have a conceptual understanding of reality based on watching Leo's videos and consider yourself enlightened?

@Ajax don't post while high .

How long do you think that a couple should be together before getting married? I am thinking as to the time when you would think that the marriage was a sensible well thought out decision .. and not a too quick and frivolous choice. The question is for both guys and girls on here .

Yes .I'm definitely a creep . I stare at women in public. With only one intent which is to get into their pants ...that's me OBJECTIFYING women..I need to fix that . I've had plenty of sex with my ex . I masturbate twice a week .get nocturnal emissions every other day . Maybe I need to get chemically castrated (jk lol ? ).

Would you believe that girls feel exactly the same way ? They are concerned about how to find and meet guys. They are concerned about their first kiss. They are concerned about whether some guy likes them..how to stop feeling awkward around guys. Etc So i must acknowledge that im being "normal". And learn to accept myself as i am without judgment. There is nothing "wrong" about me . If you can't accept yourself as you are how can you expect others to accept you?

There is something true about what you are saying. Desperation arises when i start to prioritise the perception of significant other over my own life. I will be 100% open about it . I'm like a horny desperate dog . Dunno why maybe I have abnormal levels of Testosterone in my body ..but I get aroused easily and quickly when I see an attractive girl . I'm also addicted to pornography. I'm working on correcting that . Thanks for being blunt and honest with me.

?? Test me

@Bazooka Jesus whatever,brother.

You are always angsty with me ..that's something I've noticed over the months ..at first you were responding to my threads in this section and we had a lot of fun conversations..but since I posted that thread about me falling in love with a pornstar you just ignored me ..I thought you've put me on ignore list but I'm happy that that's not the case ?. So ...what exactly do you mean by fixing the mess that I am ?

What ?! 4 years before deciding to get married from a girl ? I will already be bored of her and hitting on other girls ?

@NoSelfSelf why you Mad bro ?

I get you man..I TOTALLY get you. I spent years in this frustration of trying to reconcile what I heard from teachers about life BEING love and happiness and peace and would get so hateful and angry and frustrated about these exact matters your pointing to. Who the fuck is this god or life that would do such things? this is NOT a loving god.. this is at best a chaotic god..massively imperfect..and far from love by any meaning I then understand. What helped me was to see leave room for what I didn't understand or see.. to not assume what I was seeing and deducing was "objective"..not to assume life/god had volition and caused such things with intent.. to see the non-objectivity of things..to peer into and see the oneness of suchness without filters or idea's and feel the reality melting love and peace in it all. Forgive life..forgive god..forgive yourself..this helped to. If you assume god must of done such matters in the way you see and feel them to be..rhen you've already jumped many conclusions about life and see this as objectively so..and its result is your hate and frustration of something you believe to be true.