Someone here

Just masturbated few hours ago . And had an explosive orgasm .I didn't cum this hard in a looooong time. And I figured out it has to do with two things: 1the abstinence period : you see the more you abstain from ejaculation, you build more semen in your testicles. And the more your nutsack are full of cum..the harder will you cum . 2the technique: there are different techniques for masturbation . But through my experimentation...I figured out the ideal way to masturbate and have mind-blowing orgasms. You basically have to rub the area where the foreskin touches the head. This is the most sensitive area in the penis . Forget about orgasming through massaging the shift or death-gripping the head. Just focus on the area where the shaft meets the head.. And thank me later

There is a “gay gene” but it's much more fluid and unpredictable then a race gene. It's like if you carry the “gay gene" then you not nessesarily are gay, but, people who are gay carry the gene. Also sexuality can be fluid, one of my closest friends identified as bi for 10 years and then came out as lesbian again. This isnt because she was stupid and thought she was attracted to guys for 10 years, she just overtime was less attracted to them (note- I'm not assuming this because of my friends story, there is actual scientific evidence to back this up). A lot of people use the born this way argument against conversion therapy, but it discredits people part of the community who's sexuality is fluid. When saying this, I am absolutely NOT saying that conversion therapy works, because sexuality is still not controllable. That's all I think, I just didnt want any misconceptions to get started up here.

Do you understand what Leo means by "God-Realization " or "God-Consciousness "? It's the most radical thing ever. What Leo has become conscious of is that there is only one conscious entity in the entire universe. Do you understand how radical that is? That's why he says all spiritual teachings other than his own are nonsense and will not get you to awaken .because you can't cling to any authority figures or spiritual traditions to tell you what the truth is .because the truth is that YOU reading this right now are GOD. And of course God is the ultimate authority in the universe. And whatever he imagines to be true is what is true . Think about it ..are you willing to accept that your parents, friends, past,memories, your birth ,your death, Buddhism,Advaita, Jesus ,the Buddha, EVERYTHING is a figment of your imagination? Are you willing to accept absolute and total solipsism ? I would say 99.9999 % of people on this forum are not . I'm an exception tho .I can accept it .but its not a one night deal .you go through a tough process to accepting it .you have to face your fear of death. Your fear of insanity. And basically every other fear you have. Most people are not ready to accept this degree of wakefulness. That 's why leo says everyone is not awake.

Dear me. What went wrong here? (What's that supposed to mean, eh? ((Just kidding))) What went wrong is that we tried to use English to arrive at matters of truth, but in using English, we can quite literally “prove” anything we want. Including outrageous things, like “I am God,” or “You don't exist,” or “You are already dead,” or “I have infinite knowledge.” You can't use it to arrive at any sort of truth in a way that is not implicitly self-defeating. The language is not consistent.

I agree . But Leo I must defend my dream tooth and nail ..because if I accept (fully ) that I'm the only one out there ..then even you is a figment of my imagination trying to deceptively convert me from my own unique version of awakening. And the whole dream would collapse if I realized that 24/7. Its like you MUST be unawake in order to function at all .

So Leo, No one you will ever meet and certainly not people Online who claim to be spiritually awakened. The average person cannot imagine the consciousness of the saints. They live lives of devotion and communion with God in meditation and are not interested in worldly pursuits except as service to humanity. St. Francis and St. Theresa of Avila were very highly advanced, but still not fully enlightened. However ,I think Ramakrishna ,siddhartha gautama(Buddha ) were fully enlightened.

A Guru is not required for enlightenment. Enlightenment is a flight of the alone to the alone. Your inner-self is your true Guru. Therfore seek inside , not out side. Live in meditation, moment to moment, without regretting for the past and worrying for the future. Enlightenment can never be attained by preachings or blessings of somebody else. We have to dive deep to discover our true self. Pls try it. It is an experiential truth.

I'm accepting the coomer lifestyle . Why bother going out and talking to girls who will reject you when you can just watch some porn, rub one out ,and be done with it ??

Yes I learned these things from others . But we are talking here about spiritual teachings and teachers. This is different by the subject itself:spirituality is not like school subjects . You do not need a Guru until you need one. And when you need one, He/She unfailingly comes from the woods. It sounds illogical but that is how it is all the times. The Earth hanging in the middle of nowhere, is illogical too. But that is how it is. By the way, if you were asking if you need to buy a Guru from the spiritual supermarket, you do not need to. Keep and respect them as teachers, and learn the scriptures, meditation tips, and such. This is the safe and sane equation. A Guru is not in your control. You can neither find one nor escape one. Relax!

No matter how many times someone else insists on imparting something important, we can’t really understand it. When it comes to the big life lessons, we cannot be taught. We learn only through our direct experience. When we go through it we are quick and eager to offer it to others. “Look, look” we say, heart open, hands open like an offering. “I have this great insight that I think can help you” and no one listens. No one listens, and no one believes you, until they are receptive and ready to listen. Do you know what makes people receptive and ready to listen? Going through their own experience.

@Kksd74628 I didn't understand. Say it again in a different way.

Why is it ironic ? I know It is not easy to stand on your own, on your own path. It is not easy to walk it on your own, by yourself. There is no one standing between you and yourself, and you have to face yourself squarely, uncompromisingly, with ruthless honesty, with merciless clarity. There is no one to hold your hand, to support you, to help you manage, to make it easier, safer, nicer. There is no one there to tell you what is happening, what you are seeing, what you are experiencing - you must see it for yourself, and that means you must be willing to see what is no matter how much you don’t want to, no matter how much you wish to hide from it, no matter how much you don’t want it to be, to exist. This is what walking the spiritual path by yourself looks like.

@Consilience Consider a human experience of life: from birth, a human learns from other humans. Parents, teachers, priests, guides, counselors guide a human from birth, through childhood, through teenage years, through young adulthood and into adulthood. There is no time in the human life when a human is considered taught, guided, counseled and coached and mentored, and is expected to take his life on by himself. It is not surprising that, inside of this way of being, this way of living, one needs a human to guide one on the spiritual path. After all one has a human to guide one on all other paths. Consider gurus ..most of them had gurus, who had gurus, who had gurus, who had gurus. Teachers who had teachers, who had teachers who had teachers. Lineages of teachers going back for hundreds of years. Humans learning from humans who learned from humans who learned from humans. Teachings written by humans, followed by humans. Do you need all that? No, you don’t. Your spiritual journey is YOUR journey to YOURSELF. You. No one else needs to be involved. No one else is necessary to you being you.

what men want from women and what women want from men. 1).Beauty. It matters. You should always strive to present yourself in the best way possible. This will maximize the potential suitors you can choose from. The idea that “what's on the inside matters most” is true….BUT…people have to like the OUTSIDE before wanting to explore the INSIDE. Take the time and effort to maximize your looks. 2)Realistic. Many women these days have a hundred point checklist for what they demand in a man. But many of these women would fail their own checklist. If you want a handsome, wealthy, interesting man ..ask yourself this: am I the kind of woman the handsome, wealthy, interesting man would go for? If not, then either change yourself into the kind of woman they'd want or else check your expectations.

I agree . Doesn't contradict my point .

@Breakingthewall Your self is in the mind. Your idea about who you are is in your mind. Your thoughts, beliefs, convictions, hopes, dreams and plans are in your mind. Your memories are in your mind. Your knowledge is in your mind, and your opinions are in your mind. Your relationships are in your mind. Your feelings towards others, your needs, attachment, are all in your mind. Your love is in your mind. The only aspect of you that you are aware of that is not in your mind is your physical body. When you remove the mind from the body, when the body is all there is, it is called a coma, or a vegetative state. Pretty much everything that you mean when you say “I”, “myself”, “me” is in your mind. The “real you” is in your mind as well, and all the spiritual stuff also.

Why? What's the difference?

Look..From a philosophical standpoint..which I think is the necessary one in this situation, since it is likely you are afraid of the philosophical implications of these thoughts and such..let us analyze your situation. You are likely the only existent being within a universe that only exists within your mind, as this is the technical definition of solipsism. First, you know that you exist because you have conscious awareness of your thoughts and have logically considered what it means for other people not to exist. So we can surely agree that you exist, based on this logic. Now prove to me the existence of others?

A spiritual guru can only point to the truth. The seeker has to remove his ignorace himself. Unlike other fields, spirituality is so much dependent on the individual than the Guru. A true Guru allows you to find your own truth. No Guru should tell you what he “sees” with the minds eye. Even if he does he should give a disclaimer “what I see may not be what you see, but we revel in the same truth”, else it would be academic. A Guru is not sought. He falls in your lap, when you are open to the ever present Grace. I am so lucky Gurus in the multitudes of names and forms kept falling in my lap. My current external Guru is aligned with my internal Sat Guru, so there are no contradictions. He is a Scholar as well as a Jnani. Someone referred him to me on my Facebook page, when I had already done plenty of Scriptural reading and full of 'Spiritual Ego'. I consider myself so lucky, I wish the same to every seeker.

it really is impossible to verify anything but your own consciousness. Don’t you believe me? Think a moment and think of all the possible dreams that you have experienced in your life. Is it not possible that everything around you is nothing but an incredibly intricate dream? But we have people and things around us that we cannot doubt, because we can hear, see, smell, taste and feel them, right? Yes, and no. People who take LSD, for example, say that they can touch the most convincing hallucinations, but we do not claim that their visions are “reality”. Your dreams simulate sensations as well, after all, what you perceive is what different sections of your brain tell you to. As a result, which parts of existence can we not doubt? None. Not the chicken we ate for dinner or the keyboard beneath our fingers. Each of us can only be sure in his own thoughts.

Making love is an art. That's why I became disgusted by 90% of the porn out there . Where its done mechanically and robotic. In real sex you don't just insert your penis in a vagina ..you touch ..get touched ..in all areas of your body . And that brings most of the pleasure of sex imo. Not so much the fucking.

Tip for future masturbation sessions which are expected : 1-Never bite the sensitive parts too much till it pains worst, it may affect the future of relationship and you may not get laid again. Pleasurable pain is okay but not too much. 2-Don’t rush, take things slowly.build up to the orgasm .and that way the orgasm will be more intense .

We are sexual beings . Everything revolves around sex . A man thinks of nothing but his dick all day every day .