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I only watch softcore basic stuff. A hot a girl and a guy having sexy times . And that's it . The very idea of orgy disgusts the shit out of me . Also..who exactly is the porn inquisitor here lol? I didn't watch porn or wanked my willy for more than three months now ..whereas you fap to porn every week ..so you should be more expert in porn. Yes sure. The problem is that the home-made porn is not as attractive quality wise . Its a big turn off for me . Idk.i guess it just boils down to your tastes .

I only care about the quality of the video. I don't care if the woman is faking her moans..as long as she is hot and being banged in the right way then that's mouthwatering for me. Because in porn you see the woman ready to fuck and fakes her orgasms to give you impressions that she is enjoying what's happening to her ..meanwhile she might actually feel disgusted by it .but she only does it for the cash. So what's the trade-off in watching porn ? Losing some brain cells when you watch something extreme like an interracial gangbang ?

I do believe people are obsessed with sex because they use it as a tool to keep or attract a partner, which very Unhealthy. People need to be educated about LOVE, sex, and relationships, now days they just teach about sex. When it comes to sex,people have no self control which means they have some mental illness need to seek some professional help. People are so mislead to believe that you must have sex to see if you're sexually compatible before you can have a relationship with person. Then they wonder why they're still single and sitting on the side lines. Or they have sex with so many people they end up with a bad rep. Women blindly believe that when they have sex the man is in love with them, 9 times out of 10 he's just using her for a piece. That’s why today people can't distinguish sex from actual LOVE. To love someone,is to love the whole person not just what they have between their legs. It's sad to see so people obsessed with something that could potentially end your life just by having sex with the wrong person. Now days people just sweep STD’s under the rug and are only concerned about pregnancy, they don't realize birth control DO NOT protect you from diseases.

Oh really? What types ? Just say it as it is and don't shy away from it . Porn is fucking toxic as fuck . I mean I get it ..we have sex drives and we like to watch the naked hot women performing every kind of sexual act ..but don't let your enjoyment of porn blind you from its negative consequences. Just like my smoking addiction .I fucking adore smoking ..but the fact is smoking is horrible for my health . amateur porn sucks . Low quality garbage. I don't watch it . I only watch the highest quality that I can find . Still both are toxic in their unique way . It seriously presents a false expectation about women's sexuality. Women are not horny all the time(like men ) and ready to fuck always ..that's one of the misconceptions Brought forth by porn.

And what about porn ? Don't bullshit my ass and say its harmless. It twists your views on women and objectify women. Now with that said ..I'm a big coomer myself ? but just saying it as it is .

@Twinstar The best a teacher can do is continually point you in the right direction. The paradox is that there is no direction to go, it’s a pointing you back to yourself. They cannot lead you to freedom, and as long as you are looking to them to lead, you will be lost. Your journey to nowhere is yours alone. That’s why it’s so tough, nobody likes to go it alone, but the spiritual journey to freedom can only be done alone. And in truth haven’t you always felt alone? The bad news is the further/deeper you go, the less lonely you will feel. The good news is that you will be fully satisfied just by sitting down and appreciating your own Aloneness

I obviously don't know . But im trying to just makes sense of your experience (which I do not doubt ). do real Masters have abilities beyond the reach of us seekers? Yes, incredibly so. But rarely are they displayed .However, realizing the simple truth of one's true nature is worth more than any power/Siddhis.

@Leo Gura Because There’s something quite spontaneous about the occurrence a paranormal event . But it doesn't mean you now have a deeper understanding of reality from this experience? timeless “awake-ness" awareness, hasn’t changed a bit, so what you really are remains absolutely untouched by all of this imagined specialness about this experience. Nothing has fundamentally changed.

I'm 26 now .in my teenage years I used to fap 5 times a day. I mean… that’s sure a lot. Hope i have some skin left on my willy. It does hurt your reproductive system (don't in listen to those so called modern doctors daggers who say it is supposed to be good for your prostate and testicles and ducts and blahblahbla) you’re going to be pretty cranky when you have some responsibilities that require you to be away from a wank-safe area for any period of time. You need to learn to focus on other stuff so you can function when you can’t jerk it. Seriously. Functioning while horny is important. The energy you get from not fulfilling your sexual urges can be used to better yourself in many ways, exercise especially, and so like microwaving every meal can make you too lazy to cook and fill you with junk, whackin’ it like it did something wrong can laze you out for getting the real thing or using your energy for more productive purposes.

Then by what means should we verify it? Is It gonna remain anecdotal for the rest of history? With 7 billion people on the planet and no real proof that it exists…. If it does exist, it is so rare that it has escaped billions of people. But sure, if you can show me so verifiable evidence, I would be open to it.

I deleted this comment but since @KH2 quoted it..i will bring it back the James Randi foundation offered $1,000,000 to anyone in the world who could demonstrate psychic powers, did anyone claim that prize? No. Not one single person claimed the Randi award. Again - why not?? Many so-called psychics would have been queuing around the block to claim that prize - if not to pocket the money, at least to prove to the whole world once-and-for-all that they should be taken seriously and that their powers were genuine. That would have been the perfect platform to do so. In reality, they could not do this because they have no such powers and would have looked a bit silly.

@Leo Gura im just being skeptical . Why should I believe you? What credit does that give to you as a teacher?

I'm not open to psychic phenomenon. How do you know you aren't delusional or hallucinating? Why should I believe you ? A glass eye in a ducks ass could see that psychic powers are not real. People who claim that they have psychic powers are either: -Mentally ill (for example schizophrenia and epilepsy can cause sufferers to hear voices, or to feel that they are able to see the future) -Pretending to have supernatural abilities to make themselves look special, or gifted... better than everyone else with their cool supernatural powers. -Pretending to have supernatural abilities to extort money from gullible people - even people who are grieving. It’s very unethical BTW I'm gonna be the ball buster here and ask: Does that Have anything to do with you upcoming awakening course ?

I always feel like a loser after any masturbation session. Always feel drained .deprived of energy. Brain fog .poor concentration. Not enough strength to kick ass in the gym. And many more . However,I'm now on 100+ days on NoFap and I feel the opposite of all these things. Of course one masturbation session isn't gonna get me back to zero. But it just escalates . One fap leads to another fap and it becomes a cycle of binging .

@Carl-Richard and how much is too much ? How do you even go about measuring that?

@Carl-Richard you seriously don't believe that there is not any harmful effects of fapping and porn AT ALL and that its just in our head ?

What would you all define as the ‘perfect’ or ‘optimum’ life? Would you say that out of all the possible lives that you could have had, is the optimum life the one in which you realised your dreams and ambitions, the one in which you had the biggest impact in society, the one in which you had the deepest relationships, the one where you lived the longest or something else? I would be interested in what people’s thoughts were as to what the ‘perfect’ life is and how would you make a start to work towards it in the here and now.

For starters everyone has to depend on someone or the other, for some period of their life . We first depend on parents who do all the rough works, i.e., paving the way for us on which we just go on walking. you cannot bring this feeling of letting go of your dependency on others suddenly. How to gradually let go of dependency on others and turn it into dependency on yourself.?

Because simply people are not the same. They vary in personality, feelings, thoughts and beliefs. What you deem as something easy might be difficult for someone else. Some people are introverted they are better off alone, they can't deal or interact with others effectively because they're too busy interacting with themselves, they are so keen in themselves to the point where they forget that they're actually surrounded by people.

By not taking anything said in this community as a belief. Validate everything in your direct experience. If its not true for you ..then its not true AT ALL.

Yes, but truth and falsehoods certainly exist. There are multiple levels of falsehoods, and throwing all of them out the window is an emotional process. Separate what’s false from what’s true by questioning everything until only truth remains. When you are no longer capable to confuse the two, you’re enlightened, but you won’t be thinking of yourself as such. No one will be able to confuse you about it also, because you will have lost your capacity to be confused. But please understand that people use the same word for this basic fabric of reality and for the momentary experience of noticing it. The latter is just an experience like any other. The former is what makes all experiences possible.

Stop lying

I would say it just takes the form of a cloud of possibility when you don't observe it . Like this famous experiment they've done in Quantum Mechanics..the electron behavior is a particle when you observe it ..but when you don't observe it ..it doesn't disappear..it just acts like a wave . But who knows. Whatever.

And how it felt ? I'm on day 123 now and i feel on top of the world. I swear I can get a boner just by thinking about sex

If you close your eyes the material world is not affected in any way. No material impact, nowhere near disappearance. It disappears for you and only you. Similarly if I close my eyes the universe remains unaltered except for one sensor less (shuttered). So it is true for n individual observers but not for everyone.