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Exactly! But they do that because they are believing they are the ego .the seperate self that should be in control of its life . They are afraid of getting out of their own way and allow the will of God (which is essentially their will as well ) to do what it had to do in its infinite wisdom . Leo has two episodes on free will .in the first one he denied that we have free will because he looked at it from the illusory ego perspective .but in the second video he tackled the issue from God's pov.

I'm just bored at college right now and have some time to kill between classes. So I figured why not survey the forum about this . Feel free to add any details in the comments. Have at it ,guys and gals

Well..I do have some homosexual tendencies. I'm not gay ..but I can appreciate a really handsome dude just as I appreciate a beautiful girl . But just impartial appreciation. I didn't get an erection to a man before. And i find gay porn to be gross . But like i said I'm not 100 % straight. Thing is ..People fantasise all the time about weird, freaky, illegal things . incest and rape porn are extremely popular, for example, but the people who watch that don't want to be raped or shag their relatives. Very weird dynamic .

Wow ! Thanks for your post. I'm amazed by how you understand the male sexuality being a woman.

It's not that . Its whatever you believe to be true becomes true ..for you . So becoming Conscious that solipsism is true can happen when you isolate yourself For too long .it can even lead to paranoia . In fact ..just having a conversation with me means you know I'm real .otherwise if you really really believe yourself to be the only conscious person in existence you wouldn't be talking to me . The main assumption in the solipsistic worldview is the assumption that "real life " is exactly like a dream. In a dream only you are conscious. Heck ..even that is uncertain. So why don't you humble down a lil bit and just accept that you got no clue?

Eat meat and drink blood Boyz..it's good for you ?

@Sincerity Nope. There are 8 billion other people. Also I have a family and friends and girlfriend. And I love them all . Be done with solipsism delusion already. It's for kids .sorry .

Good thread ? Spirituality to me is the direct investigation of truth and fleshing it out from falsehood. That's what All the methods aim at . Especially meditation. I meditate because my thoughts obscure the clarity of there being nothing but the present moment. Whereas thought might suggest that there was a yesterday or there will be a tomorrow. But when you clean your mind of all thoughts .the truth is what's left . I'm not awake .or enlightened. But I'm conscious of pretty amazing stuff. We can talk about them if you like .

What is the truth of aloneness ?

Gotcha . So you want tons of intimacy and emotional foreplay before the actual fucking . No it doesnt make you narcissist lol. Not sure from where is that guy pulling out his analysis ?. Research shows that testosterone starts dropping significantly when you hit your 30s. So that might play a role in your dismissal of the fucking . I know because when I was like 18 I swear I got get hard just by the thought of sex . But nowadays that I'm 26 I must find a really arousing porn movie to get an erection. Must be even more difficult for older dudes . WAH?! She is a fucking godless. ? To each his own I guess ?. Yup .that is why I prefer porn than real sex with my gf . Because porn gives you endless variety to choose from .

1). But you said body parts don't turn you on anymore and it's difficult for you to get and maintain an erection. 2)you didn't answer your age. It's totally up to you. I ain't gonna ask it again if you don't feel comfy telling it . 3)so looks don't matter to you? If you see a super hot chick like Kate Upton..it doesn't get your ding dong going ? 4) every man LOVES to look at women and then ultimately do more than look ?. as human beings we're innate to use our senses Taste,smell,feel(touch)…How do you think you got to be here on this Earth? Specifically 2 people who actually happened to be your 2 parents started looking at each other too and then one day they did a little bit more than look and boom you were created.

@integral so you're basically asexual now? May I ask you how old are you? Because age does play a role in sexuality. I didn't know that there was a name for your "condition"..that sex was a low (the lowest??) priority and your sex drive is close to zero?

Lol .totally with you. I like soft lovely cute voice as well. Huge turn on. Just saying.. this might have something to do with pedophile..because youger girls have more of that kind of voice . I'm not judging you .I just noticed that one time I was watching anime porn. You know those young looking hentai porn girls..? They always give em that childish voice .Well I guess it should be illegal as supposedly child porn is illegal. Anyways...

What do you mean there is a mental reason behind being attract to certain body parts ? I'm sorry to use this vulgar language with you ..but men think with their dic** ..not with their brain . Whatever gets the Don up is what's the man attracted to . Women are different imo. They don't care much about physical appearance. They just want that one dream guy . But society nowadays has emasculated most of men . So its actually difficult to find a high quality man to date nowadays.

Well ..most of your questions were so personal ..I can't let you in about my private sexual life . I can help you get laid if you want ..but I can't talk about where I live or about the privacy of my gf.

Yes but all that is the psychological part of it . What about the Physiological part ? Like a specific body part that turns you on the most ? Maybe her boobs ?her cute smile etc

But we are talking about sexual attraction . Pure lust if you will . So how can her "emotional state " be sexually attractive ??

My bad . How can I fix this? Lol. But why did you censor her face as well lol?

Yes but you shouldn't vote for women. How do you know what attracts women anyways? Do you have any gay sexual desires? Oh shit ..fat is a huge turn off for me. I only like a handful of tits .more than that it starts reminding me of my grandmother ? ?.

The bottom line is..everything you think will come true..one way or another. Not necessarily in the way you think about, but most often than not, what you think will happen. For example..if you're a virgin with no sexual experience women..constantly thinking this will sustain this situation forever..because thinking you're a virgin.. and thinking you have no attraction skills..WILL make that stays exactly like this (this is what reality is for you, and you don't want it to change ...). It's only when you change your mindset.. and everyday think positively about the situation.. instead of focusing on the negative that it will change. The fundamental rule is that whatever you feel and think will inevitably be attracted. You can't decide that certain thoughts won't impact you..and some other will. Usually we try to do that by resisting something and labelling it wrong..hoping it won't happen. Doing that has a higher chance of making it happen though..since that's all you're thinking about ... You have to replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. Everytime you think negatively, force yourself to think positively for double that time. You would be surprised of how quickly some things can change.. other may take weeks/months or years.. and that's ok too. Even if nothing change. It still doesn't matter, Because when you think positively.. you're happy ... I did that without knowing it for a very long time now. It really works when I look to my past.. but I never did it consciously. That's what I've been fully conscious today..because I REALLY REALLY didn't want what I thought about to happen.. But at that moment I also realized that everytime I proceeded like this.. it was just not working.. and did the opposite most of the time. So I decided to try something else, something I read (same as above) in "Ask and it is given". In about 20 minutes I felt happy..even though the situation didn't change at all. It's not easy to do at first..because in a wicked way, you don't want to feel positively when you're that low. Now I have no idea if it's too late or not, but it doesn't matter because I'm good internally regardless. I also know that even if it's too late..I will manifest it later again. Everytime I will feel this way I can flip it the other way around now. You can use this just to feel good too..not just when you're sad 20 minutes of positive vizualisation everyday will skyrocket your happiness level. You can do it too. and I wish you do .. because you can have everything you want if you do this (doesn't mean it will be easy or free of effort). Not only that..but the most important point is that you will be happy regardless of what happens. Of course it won't happen directly like I said it can take time.. sometimes a lot but it WILL happen. I don't exactly know why it works.. my guess is that it's because in realit. what you want is already happening/happened for infinity. God already experienced/is experiencing it an infinite number of times, and since you are God, it doesn't make any difference if it happens or not in this limited form. When I said God, don't think you need to be enlightened, or even super conscious, you are already God whether you are conscious or it or not. So that will work no matter where you are on your path, you just have to have faith in it and actually do it...until it works (until you feel good/at peace). Again it doesn't matter if the thing you really want to happen..happens or not . you will be happy/at peace regardless. But you have like 99.99999999999999999999% of it happening if you do it like this. You can create the dream life you want with this, Don't underestimate this as some woo-woo New Age bullshit. Trust me on this . Few months ago I could never believe I can have a girlfriend to fuck her brains out ..but now I'm living in this reality thanks to positive thinking. If you have any questions. Please go ahead

@hyruga ? glad you found it helpful.

What nuances you know about regarding LOA? Can you share those? As I presently understand it..same attracts same . Whatever frequency your thoughts are at ..when you put it out in the world..it tends to attract the thing that matches that frequency. Like for example if you write on a dreamboard that you want a blonde girlfriend..and you affirm it everyday and focus on it from the bottom of your soul..your chances for getting that girlfriend will maximise. The Thing is ..you will always feel negative within .that's what the ego is .there is always something to complain about .something that you need to fix to be good enough or worthy of amazing things. But the truth is that you are perfect just the way you are . Getting the goodie goodie is just the cherry on top of the cake .it's really just a bonus.

No . Thats just some excuses to delay changing your life to the goodness you deserve. Just take an example . suppose you always response positively in every situation..just then some negative things happen to you...But you response positively as you believe that what ever negative happened to you will have a good chance to turn positively in future. The positive attitude brings good belief and this will not let you fall to some negative thoughts that will paralyse you in future. So just believe in positive attitude that will create positive energies in your surrounding environment. Do you use a dreamboard ?law of attraction? Positive affirmations or mantras ?

And how is that going to attract a hot witch girlfriend ??

@Razard86 & @Moksha & @Sincerity For some weird reason as it were ..I happened to have heated conversations with these three members over the months . And I didn’t see the point in creating enemies here or put some people on the ignore list . Maybe they've blocked me but anyways I didn't block them . The three of them are wise persons and always share high quality posts here. So I see no point in being their enemies. I might have not remember all the gory details of what made my relationship with them bad ..but that's irrelevant. If it's their fault ..then I forgive them. If it's my fault..then I'm sorry . I hope we can communicate normally from now on and stop ignoring or annoying each other.