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@James123 what is a thought or what is thinking ?

@Jirh exactly that’s what I just said now . We said the same thing at the same moment lol.

Exactly. I wanted to add that too . Obviously too much sappiness is a huge turn off . We have to balance it with maturity ..confidence.. and making her feel safe because she is with a man for real . It’s difficult for a woman to marry or be in a long term relationship with a man who lacks those things . Just like men demand a loyal woman if he is planning to marry her . These are like at the top of the check list . Hopefully any guy who’s got his basic life together can possess these qualities. But these qualities are not enough to attract a woman in a man . He also needs to be the don and have a feminine romantic vibe to him.

I agree . Humor is a facet to this as well. A very introverted and shy guy who talks too little and a guy who is so edgy and strict are both very uninteresting to most women . They want a delicate balance between playfulness and confidence.

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Most women are attracted to emotional intimacy and romance . Actually the more feminine and beautiful she is the more she is attracted towards Emotional guys . Let me explain what I mean by emotional guys . Women aren’t actually( in real life )attracted to super masculine dudes who are just like lions in terms of physical strength and personality . She wants a “cute guy”. Not necessarily very handsome but they do care about looks to a bare minimum degree ..the guy has to be good looking . She is super attracted to Witt and sense of humor..they find that irresistible in guys . And finally romance . Most women are attracted to romance and sweet romantic talk . And romantic cinematic Situations..like kneeling down to her and presenting a rose to her and calling her “darling “. They are super attracted to these things . They are actually not attracted to super masculine and emotionally crude men . I feel like I want to share this since a lot of young guys are struggling with figuring out what attracts women and how can they become a type of person who is attractive to a woman . This is my opinion of course. And I don’t have any issue being disagreed with from guys who have lots of experience with women .In my opinion ..many women are drawn less to emotional toughness and more to emotional connection. By “emotional” I don’t mean being dramatic but I mean being warm..expressive and funny..And especially romantic. Despite all the jokes about romantic movies ..I think many women genuinely enjoy thoughtful gestures and affectionate words. A flower..a heartfelt compliment ..or simply saying “You look beautiful today” often has more impact than trying to act like an untouchable alpha male. Ironically ..many men think they have to become colder..tougher ..and less expressive to be attractive. I suspect the opposite is often true. Confidence is attractive..but so are kindness and emotional intelligence playfulness and the ability to make her laugh.

@Hojo what is a thought ? And what is thinking ?

So are you saying it doesn’t matter how you treat people? That you can act like a complete jerk to everyone and somehow call that love?Not quite.At the deepest level..love isn’t a set of moral rules .it’s a state of being. But here’s the irony: when that realization settles and the fireworks of insight fade.. you discover that embodying love naturally expresses itself as kindness and compassion toward all people even if they show hatred towards you. This will drive them insane . It’s not that you have to follow rules. It’s that..from that level of consciousness.. you simply don’t want to cause unnecessary suffering. Because you recognize obviously all others are you . Why would you hurt yourself ?

Pure gold man. Once your consciousness expands beyond a certain point..you become an embodiment of pure love. Hate no longer makes sense. I find it incredibly difficult to hate or even judge anyone..because you begin to see that everyone is acting from their level of consciousness..conditioning and suffering. But there’s a paradox. If you truly loved all beings unconditionally..your physical survival could be at stake. You might no longer feel the impulse to defend yourself in the ways the ego does. Maybe if your consciousness expands even further ..even that ceases to be a problem. You become at peace with death itself. That’s the level of consciousness we’re really striving for. If you genuinely embody unconditional love in your daily life..people will feel it. Some will be deeply attracted to your presence while others will feel threatened by it. Truth has that effect. It exposes what people are trying to avoid within themselves. But none of this should ever be an act. Don’t love so you can appear enlightened or come across as Christ-like. Love because you’ve reached a point where hatred is simply no longer possible. Not because you’ve suppressed it ..but because you’ve seen through it completely.

Leo had multiple powerful experiences with psychedelics and other methods which revealed to him that he is God . That’s his truth or a conclusion he arrived at on his own .you must find out the truth for yourself. Obviously Leo’s words are not the truth in and of themselves without you discovering it yourself. Drop the “I am god “ part of the teaching . It doesn’t matter . if you can just find your inner peace and do good in the world and try your best to live according to wisdom and love then that’s literally all you have to do in this life . good luck in your journey.

Obviously he must have a pretty good understanding of the basics of spirituality ..ontology.. and Epistemology. He interviewed you ..Rupert Spira ..Noam Chomsky..Robert Lawrence Kuhn and others . And he engaged with you at the same level of your own worldview and asked curious questions. Maybe as you say he has fallen into the academic trap .

I think it’s just his profession..which is physics and mathematics..he is not a spiritual teacher or a spiritual seeker .

solipsism is false if it means that the human avatar you appear to show up in the world as is the only avatar having a conscious experience at this particular moment. solipsism is true if it means the same absolute self is inside and exists as all beings right now . if you go for a walk and observe a bird or a cat ..the same self is looking through the cat’s eyes and the bird’s eyes and your eyes simultaneously. It’s not true that only you looking at the bird and the cat are the only conscious being in that moment and the cat and bird are not perceiving anything . others are not empty shells . Others are you . A huge difference .

After reaching a certain degree of spiritual realization.. it becomes increasingly difficult to tolerate what you call the “circus” of ordinary life. It makes me wonder what still motivates Leo after attaining such profound levels of consciousness..understanding ..wisdom and what many would describe as heavenly states of awareness. Spirituality to me seems to fit introverted people. It’s hard to learn about spirituality if you are extroverted .

The match will be replayed lol . Please check if it’s official yet by the FIFA.