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Thanks. what avenues of dating have you tried ? Do you go out on weekends and your off days from work to social gatherings and cold approach girls ? Are you actively looking for a wife through your social circle of relatives ?

@Rishabh R I’d love to get to know you a little better and understand what you’re looking for at this stage of your life. What kind of relationship are you looking for ? something serious and leading toward marriage, a live-in relationship, or are you open to exploring a different kind of arrangement, such as multiple relationships? I’m also curious about your current life situation, if you’re comfortable sharing ofc. What do you do career wise, and what does your day to day life look like? And if you don’t mind me asking, how old are you? There’s no pressure to answer anything you’re not comfortable with. I just think it’s helpful to be open and honest about what we’re both looking for, our lifestyles, and where we are in life. That way, we can see whether we have similar expectations and genuinely connect with each other.

Cut the shit . You want a girlfriend.

Is it true for you or not ? That’s the question.

I don’t see why is that necessary. She could be looking for her first relationship as well .

The easiest way to get a GF/BF if you are desperate is social circle , especially through family and friends. Tell your family members if they know someone also interested in a relationship in their own friends and social circle. pick up is really not realistic for introverted people. You are not going to pick up some random girl from some mall and get her to be your girlfriend. For this to work requires a specific lifestyle and personality type already in place which most introverted people mostly lack .

Let’s try to replace smoking with intense meditation sessions for dealing with stress . The problem is that smoking itself makes me enter a meditative state spontaneously. And obviously helps with killing stress in and of itself . day 0.

the temporary absence of memory, thoughts, and personal identity does not necessarily mean that the you ceased to exist. The question is not “Did I stop existing when I had no memories?” but “What is the I that remains through waking, dreaming, and deep sleep?” you exist when you are awake . You exist in your dreams. You exist when you’re in deep sleep because you can workout the absence of memory and all sensory experience upon waking . deep sleep is not absence of existence. It’s a modulation of existence which can be called pure absolute existence. and as James said it’s your true nature and essence. You can accept it or reject it . If you reject it , it’s scary . If you accept it , it’s peaceful.

I don’t know what you consider that. I’ve personally met a guru face to face who is at this level. He says he doesn’t dream at night because there is simply nothing going on in his mind. If you put a brain scanner on him, it would be a flat line. Yes, it takes practice, time, and a well established level of enlightenment to reach that point. And when you say “magic,” are you talking about something like literally materializing a million dollars into existence through nothing more than thought?

You’re late to the party . Every other corner in India lives a Yogi who has Siddhis.

Then we agree , if I understand correctly. I see. But I’m curious about who actually came up with the term “shit test,” and why is it called that? Where did the term even come from? And when people talk about women “shit testing” men, do they actually do it intentionally, or is it sometimes just something they do without really thinking about it?

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@AION I think it’s an unnecessary concept for dating skills .

How so? There’s a difference between a girl intentionally playing games or doing things to test your confidence and value, versus you simply overthinking the situation and it all being in your head as the guy.

It’s not necessary to become insane to become awake or enlightened. But Some psychedelics are dangerous like Salvia and can fuck with your mind . also existential ruminating about solipsism and such can disturb your mind .