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If you have true love for the woman you married, I don’t think you would naturally want to sleep with other women. To me, it’s not really about sex appeal or whether you might find someone else attractive. Of course, you can still notice that other people are attractive, but that’s very different from actually wanting to be intimate with them. When you genuinely love your wife, there is something much deeper holding you to her. Marriage is about companionship as much as sex .It’s about having someone who knows you deeply, someone you can share your life with. Over the years, you build a bond and a history together that goes far beyond physical attraction. That kind of connection is not something you can simply replace because another woman happens to be beautiful or sexually appealing. And I think that’s what people sometimes miss when they reduce marriage to sex or sexual exclusivity. The point isn’t simply that you are denying yourself other women. It’s that you have chosen one person because you value the relationship you have with her. I also think raising children can be one of the most rewarding things you can do. Obviously, parenting is difficult and comes with a lot of responsibility and challenges, but there is also something incredibly meaningful about bringing a child into the world and watching them grow. Personally, I’m completely okay with the idea of marriage and parenting. I actually see a lot of value in both. I understand that not everyone wants the same kind of life, and I understand your point about why someone might not want marriage or children. But for me, the idea of finding someone you genuinely love, building a life together, and eventually raising children is something I can see as very meaningful. Btw in Lebanon you can marry 4 women .

3 days without smoking .

I’ve had a lot of free time lately, probably a little too much, and I’ve realized that I’ve been spending way more time sitting around than I should. I’ve gotten pretty comfortable doing nothing, but at the same time, I can definitely feel that I’m not moving around as much as I used to. I think it’s probably time to get myself back into some kind of routine and start taking better care of my body again. I want to get back in shape. Maybe I’ll start doing cardio again . nothing too crazy at first, just enough to get myself moving consistently and build my stamina back up. Just walking under the sun for 30 minutes minimum everyday besides my workout routine. Having free time is great, but I don’t want to look back and realize I spent all of it sitting on my ass.

@Davino if god is infinity , what would limit god’s power ?

Do you understand it theoretically but haven’t gotten a direct realization of it ? Do you understand why God/Reality/Infinity must be all powerful?

The quality of the forums is going downhill. Maybe I will stick to my journal and Leo’s blog.

Thank you for your advice man . I appreciate it .

Preach .

I’m already trying to lower the dose by buying cheaper brands that have a lower nicotine concentration. I’ve been making an effort to reduce how much nicotine I’m consuming, but I still find it really difficult to quit completely for a decent amount of time. I can stop for a week but eventually I always end up going back to smoking. It feels like I can manage without it temporarily, but maintaining that for a longer period is much harder. When it comes to the rituals and situations that make me want to smoke, I’ve noticed that I mostly turn to smoking when I’m stressed or experiencing negative emotions. It has become something I automatically rely on when I’m feeling overwhelmed or anxious. smoking feels like a way to calm myself down or take a break from whatever I’m dealing with. Do you suggest avoiding stress ?

Hi there . Thank you . well it’s really becoming a physiological problem. The nicotine is in my blood . I’ve been smoking for 6 years now almost everyday. before smoking , I feel like I want to bang my head to the wall if I don’t smoke. during smoking I feel like I’m getting high . As If I’m sniffing cocaine from a prostitute’s tits lol . after smoking I usually feel better and calm . But now that I’m experiencing health issues I feel depressed after smoking.

Relapse . Smoked a cigarette. Fuck .

you have to do it by yourself.

Ramana’s teaching is that you should NOT answer the question “who am I ?” Verbally or conceptually .Just ask it and look within your own being and find the source of the “I” .

What art do you create ? You can get paid for it if you’re talented as well .

Only when I tried to quit did I realize how completely addicted I’ve become. Not just to one thing, but to almost everything that gives me a quick hit of comfort or pleasure. I’m addicted to caffeine. To cigarettes. To sugar. To checking social media for attractive girls, even when I know I’m wasting my time. To watching porn. To video games. To music constantly playing in the background so I don’t have to sit alone with my thoughts. I’m addicted to staying in my comfort zone, avoiding discomfort, and choosing what feels easy over what I know is good for me. I’m addicted to distraction. To instant gratification. To reaching for my phone whenever there’s even a second of boredom Maybe addiction isn’t always about one destructive thing. Sometimes it’s simply becoming dependent on anything that helps you avoid being uncomfortable with yourself.