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Then we agree , if I understand correctly. I see. But I’m curious about who actually came up with the term “shit test,” and why is it called that? Where did the term even come from? And when people talk about women “shit testing” men, do they actually do it intentionally, or is it sometimes just something they do without really thinking about it?

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@AION I think it’s an unnecessary concept for dating skills .

How so? There’s a difference between a girl intentionally playing games or doing things to test your confidence and value, versus you simply overthinking the situation and it all being in your head as the guy.

It’s not necessary to become insane to become awake or enlightened. But Some psychedelics are dangerous like Salvia and can fuck with your mind . also existential ruminating about solipsism and such can disturb your mind .

So it’s a term insecure guys came up with ? Not something women do consciously?

What is shit test ?

If you have true love for the woman you married, I don’t think you would naturally want to sleep with other women. To me, it’s not really about sex appeal or whether you might find someone else attractive. Of course, you can still notice that other people are attractive, but that’s very different from actually wanting to be intimate with them. When you genuinely love your wife, there is something much deeper holding you to her. Marriage is about companionship as much as sex .It’s about having someone who knows you deeply, someone you can share your life with. Over the years, you build a bond and a history together that goes far beyond physical attraction. That kind of connection is not something you can simply replace because another woman happens to be beautiful or sexually appealing. And I think that’s what people sometimes miss when they reduce marriage to sex or sexual exclusivity. The point isn’t simply that you are denying yourself other women. It’s that you have chosen one person because you value the relationship you have with her. I also think raising children can be one of the most rewarding things you can do. Obviously, parenting is difficult and comes with a lot of responsibility and challenges, but there is also something incredibly meaningful about bringing a child into the world and watching them grow. Personally, I’m completely okay with the idea of marriage and parenting. I actually see a lot of value in both. I understand that not everyone wants the same kind of life, and I understand your point about why someone might not want marriage or children. But for me, the idea of finding someone you genuinely love, building a life together, and eventually raising children is something I can see as very meaningful. Btw in Lebanon you can marry 4 women .

3 days without smoking .

I’ve had a lot of free time lately, probably a little too much, and I’ve realized that I’ve been spending way more time sitting around than I should. I’ve gotten pretty comfortable doing nothing, but at the same time, I can definitely feel that I’m not moving around as much as I used to. I think it’s probably time to get myself back into some kind of routine and start taking better care of my body again. I want to get back in shape. Maybe I’ll start doing cardio again . nothing too crazy at first, just enough to get myself moving consistently and build my stamina back up. Just walking under the sun for 30 minutes minimum everyday besides my workout routine. Having free time is great, but I don’t want to look back and realize I spent all of it sitting on my ass.

@Davino if god is infinity , what would limit god’s power ?

Do you understand it theoretically but haven’t gotten a direct realization of it ? Do you understand why God/Reality/Infinity must be all powerful?

The quality of the forums is going downhill. Maybe I will stick to my journal and Leo’s blog.

Thank you for your advice man . I appreciate it .

Preach .