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Every man has a feminine side. Deny it, suppress it, and eventually you’ll suffer under the weight of your own masculinity. Masculinity can be powerful, but it can also be exhausting, stressful, and painful when you’re carrying it like armor 24/7. So if a man finds himself overwhelmed by life, its problems, and its endless harshness, perhaps it’s time to explore his feminine side. Get the stick out of your ass. Relax. Be silly. Be soft. Let yourself be playful and emotionally expressive. Shave the beard if you feel like it. Take care of your appearance. Enjoy your physical beauty. Cry. Be tender. Wear something pretty. Even act a little girly. You don’t become less of a man by embracing your feminine side. You become a more complete one.

Russian English accent is usually terrible but coming from her is a music to my ears 😂

I see what you did there you are probably making fun of my weird writing style, the dots thing ? English is not my dirt language and I’m not perfect in it either . I make vocabulary mistakes, grammar mistakes , and my punctuation is completely screwed. from now I will use comma instead of dots and ask AI to improve my writing .

I’m God. I’m Infinite Consciousness. I’m Infinite Imagination. Everything is imaginary: my birth, my death, my memories, my parents, the other rooms in my house, the entire universe — and even Leo is imaginary. Consciousness itself is formless, but because it is formless, it is also unlimited. And because it is unlimited, it can imagine anything it wants. Right now, I’m imagining this physical room that I’m sitting in. But I cannot simply “un-imagine” it at will, because I am actively imagining it as real. I’m not only imagining the room — I’m also imagining that I am not imagining it. In this way, my own imagination is interfering with my own imagination. The reality I experience feels solid because I am imagining it to be real while simultaneously imagining that it exists independently of my imagination. When I fully awaken, I will discover that death is imaginary, my problems are imaginary, and my pain and suffering are imaginary. Through this awakening, I will realize Infinite Love and Infinite Goodness. I will transcend the illusion of separation ,fear, and suffering, and enter Nirvana — or Paradise. But when I do I will be totally alone . I can’t come to the forum and start a “I’m awake . AMA” because I will be fully awake that I’m all alone and others are imaginary . I will awaken to the realization that I am Infinite Consciousness, imagining everything that I experience.

Welcome back . You are not god then . I’m speaking of god .

Some Thoughts on Masculinity, Femininity, and the Need for Each Other Nature created mankind as man and woman, in general, overlooking the question of gender fluidity. Of course, individuals vary enormously, and not every man or woman will perfectly fit the patterns I am describing here. I am speaking about general tendencies—the broad masculine and feminine patterns that seem to exist in human nature. The man is, by design, generally more masculine in his body and mind. He is physically stronger and, on average, more oriented toward confrontation, competition, risk, and dealing with the harsh realities of the external world. His mentality tends to be stricter and more pragmatic. His approach to life can be crude, direct, and brutal because he is more naturally oriented toward dealing with difficulty, danger, and the demands of the outside world. The woman is, by design, generally more feminine in her body and mind. She is physically weaker in comparison to the average man and tends, on average, to be more emotionally and relationally oriented. Her mentality can be looser, more imaginative, and more fantasy-oriented. Her approach to life can be more naive, idealistic, and less concerned with the hard, brutal realities that men may be more accustomed to confronting. These are not absolute characteristics. There are masculine women and feminine men, and every individual exists somewhere along a spectrum. But if we are talking about the general distinction between masculinity and femininity, these differences are significant. And precisely because they are different, they can become deeply attracted to each other. It is almost like two opposite poles of a magnet. Their differences create tension, attraction, and complementarity. What one possesses naturally, the other may lack or desire. What feels normal and familiar to one can feel fascinating and deeply satisfying to the other. What the Man Needs from the Woman The man often lives a difficult and painful life. He is expected to confront the external world, compete, take risks, endure failure, solve problems, provide, protect, and absorb the brutality of life without constantly being able to show vulnerability. But beneath this hardness, there is still a human being who needs love. The man can lack emotional healing from the wounds created by the brutality of life. He needs a soothing cuddle. He needs a warm hug. He needs tenderness. He needs intimacy. He needs to enjoy the pleasure of sex. He needs to enjoy the beauty of a woman. In other words, the masculine role may require a man to become hard in order to deal with life, but this does not mean that he wants hardness everywhere. In his intimate relationship, he may deeply desire the opposite: softness, warmth, affection, beauty, acceptance, and a place where he can finally put down his armor. The woman can become, for him, a kind of emotional refuge from the brutality of the outside world. What the Woman Needs from the Man The woman, by contrast, may experience life through a different kind of vulnerability. Her physical vulnerability can create a stronger need for safety, protection, stability, and security. She may live less with the expectation of physically confronting the world and more with the fear of what might happen if the world becomes dangerous. Therefore, what she may lack is not necessarily emotional softness, but rather a sense of masculine direction, leadership, firmness, and realistic grounding. She may need someone who can say: This is the reality. This is what we are going to do. I will take responsibility for this. She may need a masculine type of cuddle—one that is warm and protective rather than simply soft. She wants to feel safe inside the strength of another person. And there is another dimension to this: femininity itself. A woman may want to feel her beauty. She may want to feel desirable. She may want to experience herself as feminine through the eyes and desire of a man. Sex, therefore, can have a different psychological meaning for her. It is not necessarily merely physical pleasure. It can be an experience of her femininity, beauty, desirability, and sexual identity being affirmed through the desire of a man. To be desired can make her feel beautiful. To be wanted can make her feel feminine. To surrender sexually to a man she trusts can allow her to experience a side of her femininity that exists specifically in relation to masculine desire. The Complementarity This is where I think the deeper point about masculinity and femininity lies. The attraction between men and women is not simply a matter of physical reproduction or sexual instinct. There can also be a psychological complementarity between the masculine and feminine. The masculine can provide firmness, direction, protection, realism, strength, and stability. The feminine can provide warmth, beauty, softness, emotional intimacy, affection, imagination, and healing. Obviously, these qualities are not exclusively owned by one sex. Men can be nurturing, imaginative, and emotionally sensitive. Women can be strong, rational, realistic, and decisive. But the fact that a quality can exist in both sexes does not mean that masculine and feminine expressions of those qualities are identical. A masculine man may provide protection differently from a feminine woman. A feminine woman may provide emotional warmth differently from a masculine man. The differences themselves can be part of the attraction. Do Men and Women Need Each Other? Men and women—straight ones—want each other. Some mindsets, such as MGTOW and certain forms of feminism, argue that perhaps men and women want each other, but they don’t actually “need” each other. I don’t agree with that. I think they absolutely need each other—not necessarily in the narrow sense that an individual man literally cannot survive without a woman, or that an individual woman cannot survive without a man. Obviously, both can live independently. The deeper sense of “need” is psychological, emotional, relational, and sexual. Human beings are not merely autonomous individuals who happen to have sexual desires. We are relational creatures. We seek intimacy, attachment, affection, recognition, sexual fulfillment, companionship, and a sense of belonging. And there is something particularly powerful about receiving these things from someone who embodies the opposite sexual polarity. A man can receive from a woman something that another man may simply not be able to provide in the same way. A woman can receive from a man something that another woman may not be able to provide in the same way. This is why I think the idea that men and women merely want each other but don’t need each other misses something important. Of course, an individual should be capable of standing on his or her own feet. Dependence can become unhealthy. A person should not need a partner in order to have any sense of worth or identity. But independence and the need for intimacy are not opposites. A man can be independent and still deeply need feminine love. A woman can be independent and still deeply need masculine love. In fact, perhaps the healthiest form of romantic love is precisely when two people are capable of standing alone but nevertheless recognize that something profound is missing from their lives without intimate connection with the opposite sex. Masculinity and Femininity as Polarity So, ultimately, I see masculinity and femininity as two complementary poles of human nature. The masculine tends toward hardness, strength, structure, realism, responsibility, protection, and confrontation with the external world. The feminine tends toward softness, beauty, emotionality, imagination, intimacy, receptivity, and connection. Neither is inherently superior. The masculine without the feminine can become cold, brutal, isolated, and emotionally starved. The feminine without the masculine can become ungrounded, overly idealistic, fearful, and lacking in direction. And perhaps this is why the attraction between them can be so powerful. The man gives the woman something she deeply desires: strength, protection, direction, and the feeling of being held by something stronger than herself. The woman gives the man something he deeply desires: softness, beauty, affection, emotional refuge, and the feeling that he can finally stop fighting the world for a moment. Each encounters in the other something that he or she does not naturally embody in the same way. That is the polarity. And perhaps that is why men and women don’t merely desire each other. They complement each other. These are just some basic thoughts on understanding masculinity and femininity. It is a topic I am fascinated by, and it is relevant to my personal practical life at the moment—not merely a philosophical luxury.

Note that from now on I’m going to be using AI editing my posts . I will ask it to remove grammar mistakes , replace the dots with commas , assist my points and organize my thoughts without changing that much of the original wording , so that it’s not completely fake and AI generated instead of personal effort and original thought.

Very deep . Thank you so much for sharing this. Haven’t thought about it from this angle before .

I agree . If you read the rest of the post , that’s exactly what I added .

I want to express something which I comprehend . But I’m failing . Because it can’t be said. For if I say it I would spend all of eternity talking about it. Because as reality is endless and contains endless details and never-ending flow , I would need to catch up with every new moment within the ever changing world. To explain to you what reality is and how it works , I would need to keep talking forever , but to no avail . the notion of “Absolute Truth “ is very problematic in my mind. Reaching the Absolute Truth is usually imagined as discovering a piece of information ,or a sentence ,or an insight that would make everything finally snap into its place forever . But an insight is a kind of understanding. Understanding is a form of thoughts. Thoughts never stop changing. The Absolute Truth as a static thing which is imagined as a great profound clarity and understanding of everything, is impossible. Because, everything changes . The insight won’t stay glued into your possession forever . The statement “ Absolute Truth is X” is no longer true as soon as I finish uttering this statement. So where is the absolute truth? It’s gone . And then I read a scientific article and I’m thinking about how to improve my health . A different thought occupies my mind now . Do I have to keep repeating to myself “Absolute Truth is X” nonestop ? Every time I say it .. it’s gone . consider this statement “ human beings are evolving collectively towards holistic unification of every single disagreement regarding what is the correct political position that brings equality and heaven on earth to all people “ is this statement true ? No . Why ? Because maybe there are no such things as human beings . Because reality is a flow of never ending changing unfixed boundaries. There is no such thing as “ a human being “ which is always the same thing for two split seconds . To have complete understanding of reality and to tell it to others ,you need to spend endless time , as endless as reality itself talking without even making 0% progress. Because all of that talking disappeared. You have to start again . Obviously you will fail again . then there is this thing we all know but can never be said . please discuss. thanks . A Leo quote: “ When your understanding of Reality gets high enough, Reality becomes a never-ending mystical experience. That's the point.“

No . you are eternal . existence never began , therefore will never end . you are part of existence. Correct ? The human body is part of this existence. Therefore ,you are NOT a separate thing from existence. You are interwoven with it . Therefore, and this 100% logical and rational,not beliefs or wishful thinking , you are existence itself . please , pause and think before you rush to debunk . if what I’m saying is true then you , not the human body , but existence itself ,will always exist forever. does that make sense ?

@Inliytened1 Ok that’s it . I’m done here with you for now . You don’t get to tell me what should I do . “Wise up and agree with me that the word I can’t even spell correctly is true “ nope .

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This isn’t solipsism. This is epistemological nihilism. You don’t get to pull things outta your butt . https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solipsism what solipsism Which says dimensionless ? Solipsism says you are not reading these words right now. Only me reading these words now is all that exists . The ONLY reason this seems true because we can’t imagine infinite dimensions. A two dimensional universe would think there is no such thing as a three dimensional universe. is this world where you are right now dimensionless or has three spatial dimensions? It has. Reality being infinite in all dimensions cannot be limited to these words on your screen right now .

Think of it this way : this world is three dimensional in space and one dimensional in time . You have length ..depth and width . And you have time moving from past to present to future. These dimensions limit your ability largely such that if there is a 4th dimension you can’t even imagine it . Just like a two dimensional sentient creature can’t imagine what the third dimension is like . If God is inifinite in all attributes..infinite knowledge ..infinite power.. infinite consciousness etc then it can’t be comprehended from the lower dimensions . The only way to grasp god is again through becoming literally god which is just another word for the Absolute Infinite reality . It’s all YOU and it’s All ME anyways because there can only be ONE absolute infinity . But solipsism says this limited three dimensional universe is the totality of all that there is which contradicts the infinitude of God .