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Is it true that “nobody can make you angry without your permission “ ? I mean I get it , let them ….but some people are so fucking full of shit man .

Is it possible to understand all of reality , from the most essential existential level to the physical level , to the social level and to the personal day to day level ?

Everything that shape “me” are not me .

Poverty and lack definitely affect my ability to enjoy a fulfilling life and to have wellbeing. I tried convincing myself that I can achieve full contentment without needing to be above the average class but I was deluding myself. Black pill vibes I’m getting from life recently. The more I think about it, the more difficult it becomes to ignore how much material circumstances shape your ability to actually enjoy life. It’s easy to tell yourself that money, comfort, stability, and social status don’t matter, and that happiness should come entirely from within. But when you’re constantly dealing with poverty and lack, those things inevitably affect your mental state and your ability to experience life in a fulfilling way. I tried convincing myself that I could be completely content without needing to be above the average class, that I could somehow detach myself from material circumstances and find full satisfaction regardless of what I had. But honestly, I think I was deluding myself. There’s a difference between being grateful for what you have and genuinely having the conditions necessary to live the kind of life you actually want At the same time, I don’t necessarily want to become obsessed with constantly comparing myself to people who have more than me. I just don’t want to gaslight myself into believing that material conditions have no effect on wellbeing when they obviously do. There has to be some middle ground between believing that money and status are everything and pretending they mean nothing.

Sometimes life gets so dark and bleak that I begin to lose all hope. It reaches a point where even the very possibility that this situation will ever improve seems unbelievable. It becomes difficult to imagine that things could ever feel different, that the darkness could eventually lift, or that there could be a way out of the situation we find ourselves in. And unfortunately, there is no escaping such dark moments in life. Almost everyone has to go through moments of absolute darkness, weakness, uncertainty, and vulnerability. And what stands out to me is that perhaps the answer is not to suppress those feelings, to toughen up, swallow everything coldly, and pretend that we are somehow above our own pain. We can’t. We are not meant to be completely invulnerable. We are not going to fly to the heavens and catch God from his ass, or whatever this expression is supposed to mean. We are human beings. We are vulnerable, fragile, uncertain, and sometimes deeply afraid. There is something important in simply allowing ourselves to acknowledge that vulnerability instead of constantly fighting against it. We don’t always have to be strong. We don’t always have to have an answer. We don’t always have to convince ourselves that everything is fine when, at that particular moment, it isn’t. Sometimes we need to admit that we are hurting, that we are exhausted, that we are afraid, and that we don’t know how things are going to turn out. And perhaps the more aware and accepting we become of our own vulnerability, the more capable we become of mastering it ..not by destroying it or pretending it doesn’t exist, but by understanding it and learning how to live with it. Vulnerability can become something other than weakness. It can become a doorway into a deeper understanding of ourselves and of life. Because darkness does not necessarily mean that there will never be light. The fact that we cannot see a way out does not mean that no way out exists. When we are in the middle of an unbearable moment, it can genuinely feel as though it will last forever. But feelings of hopelessness are not always accurate descriptions of the future. Sometimes they are simply what the present feels like when we are exhausted and overwhelmed. We are vulnerable. That is simply part of being human. And the goal is not to escape that vulnerability, but to become so aware of it, so accepting of it, that we can eventually transform it into something beautiful: into happiness, into joy, into peace, and into a deeper appreciation for being alive. the light will always overcome the darkness.

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I wasn’t asking for the dictionary definition of the word or its equivalent in Hindi. And it’s certainly different from chill . It has emotional and even spiritual and religious aspects to it. More like how to achieve it ,does your soul feel safe and secure? How to heal your inner child? If you’re sad , afraid , lack love ..how to deal with these emotions? Etc

Ok I think I understand what you mean . Thanks

Then never . No I don’t .

@thierry you are god . Can you understand yourself fully ? !

Well , what Islam and the Quran talk about is a mixed of things which are true , and things which are “interesting niche beliefs to study “. An example of truths : God exists . God is all-powerful . God is all-Knowing . an example of beliefs : Angels , Devils , hell , paradise , an afterlife , the day of resurrection.

Because a full understanding means there is not a single thing lacking ,not yet not understood. Since infinity never runs out of new things , god can never understand every single new thing that comes out of his own infinite creating power .

@Breakingthewall I will address your points in a minute. I need time to make sure I understand correctly.

God is infinity . Infinity , by definition, has no end . If God was able to understand itself fully , it would mean God is not infinity . so, God can never understand itself fully , because God doesn’t end . it can understand itself fully implicitly, not explicitly. You can know that God is infinity , but you can’t know how many ants are looking for sugar in some desert area right now . God is All-knowing . God knows everything. But” everything “ is infinite , not a fixed quantity .

When I said the Quran is a work of art, I was referring specifically to its literary and poetic style. Its linguistic structure is distinctive and, in my view, extraordinarily difficult to imitate. That’s also part of why I find its composition so remarkable, particularly given the traditional account of Muhammad as someone who neither read nor wrote. And when I mentioned the Baha’i writings, my point was simply that they attempt to reproduce or echo the Qur’anic style. It’s a fact . Do the research if you don’t know. I wasn’t trying to turn the conversation into a debate about “deep philosophy” or politics. I simply said that Islam is my favorite religion. Favorite does not mean I consider it the end-all and be-all of every possible question. I can admire a religion deeply without pretending that I have nothing left to question, learn, or understand. If you want to discuss Islam’s impact on politics, that’s a completely different conversation .and honestly, I don’t have enough experience or knowledge in that area to pretend otherwise. Leo taught me a principle I take seriously: don’t speak with certainty about things you don’t understand well or haven’t actually experienced. So I’m perfectly comfortable defending what I actually said, while also being honest about the limits of what I know.