Gauds55

I wouldnt say I've been pushy, i just expressed an interest and allowed her to have input on it. She's been very supportive and understanding along with admitting since the first time it's sparked curiosity in the back of her mind since. Plus being intimate has taken a new level of being the same type of adult films we share an interest in. I havn't been overboard about it or treated it like an obsession but see it as the cards are on the table and we both take it as it comes. She's been very comforting with asking how I feel and a lot of reassurance to make sure I'm alright. We both have the view of if it doesn't end up being something we both want long term we will be understanding with each other and considerate. Know it may seem like dangerous territory for most people but I think the main key to happiness is just being open with high communication.

Because we're only human and just pieces of old star dust if you get hypothetical. I found opening up creates less bumps and more understanding therefor brings 2 people closer than most.

Thanks lol

Hey everyone new to this forum. The girlfriend and I had started venturing from manogomy to consentual non-manogomy. We have been pretty much together for almost 2 years now, both in our 20's and very much in love on a very deep level of connection with trust and openness with a healthy consist sex life. For the past however many years I've always had an interest in the whole partner sharing thing but burried it away as society categorizes manogomy to be the only morally right choice for relationships. In the past we had experimented testing the waters with another male joining us for a night and it was a bit nerve racking for both of us but nothing bad came of it. Almost a year later and the topic came up again (on my behalf). My partner had decided to go along with it. So we found the guy who was the first one and discussed it all and decided I'd drop her off to his house for awhile. When i got home afterwards I felt completely fine with it and didn't feel any insecurities or forms of betrayal. Crazy to think but I enjoyed allowing it all to happen and felt 100% trust. We have lately decided that the me being manogomous and her being listed as I guess consentual non manogomous fits well with trust, communication and reassurance of love for one another. Has anyone else been in this type of arrangement and felt like it's opened up their love and communication with the other half? Would love to hear back on any ideas, suggestions and feedback and how people have dealt with any possible jealousy.