Terell Kirby

She may not be attracted to you for whatever reason. That loss of attraction could be related to how you are showing up in the relationship as a whole, and it manifest in the form of her not being turned on in the bedroom. The hardest thing in the world is getting a woman to admit if she’s not that into you (they tend to not want to hurt feelings). Start by asking high quality questions on how she feels about the relationship and your future together. Remember: women are attracted to sweet men, but also men of strength. She cannot ever love you fully if she doesn’t respect you as a man who can lead himself .. thus being able to lead her .. in and outside of the bedroom.

This makes absolutely no sense. Sounds like you are using this as an excuse to not game at the highest level. Definitely displaying pussy-like behavior. Good thing is you are able to be honest about it. Try to avoid negative self talk and you’ll be fine mate.

Why don't you take an anti-troll pill ? Or maybe an open-mindedness pill? It would do wonders for ya

Very good. You are indeed imagining their direct experiences, as well as your own. You are doing good .. keep it up .. get even deeper. Ignore the naysayers, and people who want to debate. You alone will know .. and you don't have to defend your Truth.

Then what’s the point of any spiritual teachings/teachers? There would be no need for them if this truly was the case, as all of mankind would be woke. I think your perspective on this diminishes the hard work that truly enlightened sages / mystics suffered through to obtain liberation. One who reaches this knows it is not effortless by any means.

God realization signifies the end to seeking ones true nature. For me, meditation was a vehicle to get me where I needed to go. Now that I’m here, is it really even necessary to continue daily practice? I want to be sure .. maybe meditation after God realization is like becomes like working out at the gym .. you may have one a gold medal, but if you rest on your laurels and not maintain your body, then you’ll become a fat slob. That may not be a bad thing at the same time .. hell, you got your medal already anyway. Just some thoughts.

Well my confusion isn’t tied to my direct experience as God, the confusion is from the short phrases you use to get your point across .. so I try to make the best assumptions I can. No need to change anything though

Hmm still confused. Seems as though you are calling me an ego, which you have the right to do .. but it doesn’t really address the topic at hand.

Not sure I understand. Would you be kind enough to expand?

@ADD unless you are born enlightened, then there is not really a case for not doing spiritual work to reach enlightenment. Recognizing that everything was an illusion only happens after you bust out of it, and that requires effort through practice. Busting out of it doesn’t happen through sitting on ones ass, lying to yourself that you have always been enlightened. This is where the work comes in, and where the achievement (breakthrough) lies. Humility on the journey is key.

It’s not a matter of already being complete, the whole point of spiritual work is finally realizing that you have been complete this whole time. The knowing is not guaranteed, and the knowing is what those who do spiritual work aim to achieve. Be careful with post like these unless you are very clear about what is needed on the spiritual path. Newbies cannot escape having to put in the work to reap the fruits of their labor.

Good point. We can become God realized but still have traces of ego .. fear is usually a good indicator.

Can you expand on how you define suffering? Relatively speaking, If you define it as the vanquishing of all human problems, that is not experienced with God realization .. nor with anything else. humans are meant to have human problems .. as long as they are finite and subject to physical death (ie. the issue of survival). As the Buddha once said .. life IS suffering, I believe this is what he meant. Particularly in reference to the design of human life. But from God’s POV, the real suffering ends through realizing one true nature that allows it to finally escape identification with human form .. along with having the proper perspective on the nature of reality. This has happened for me.

@Felli I feel for you. I also had the misfortune of being raised by a narcissistic father. The best advice I can give you is to do some deep research into how the narcissistic mind works and how dysfunctional families operate. There is a wealth of information and studies regarding this. Become knowledgeable on narcissism and its effects on early childhood experiences / subsequent trauma. This does two things: Allows you to see that it is a mental illness that your father has no control over. This will open up a door to potentially forgive him. Allows you to make sense of your own trauma and what is needed to heal. Forgiveness will be a major factor in your ability to move forward. Get familiar with ACE (adverse childhood experience) score and buy a few books on narcissistic parents. Best of luck.

Yes .. hopefully meditation now becomes something of pure enjoyment instead of a means to an end. Whether it does or not really has no meaning after things have been seen for what they are.

Thank you ?? True. I would say that it isn’t always continual, especially in moments where I am gripped by fear. More practice may do well to stabilize so that it is continuous (ie. the process of God actualization). I don’t want to close the book without taking 5meo DMT for certain…Then maybe I’ll be comfortable with stopping daily practice

@Endangered-EGO the issue is you taking the locking of your thread personally. Deeply explore why this has triggered you. Does it really matter? Does it alter the course of your life in any substantial way? Life is meant to be enjoyed, don’t let others and their actions control your peace of mind.

Well it’s not really a matter of “thinking” that I have arrived. It’s an intuitive knowing that I can’t really describe through words .. as I’m the only one conscious of it in my universe. I’m not trying to be arrogant either, this is genuine .. and I take a very humble approach to spirituality. I like this. Question is .. does actualization require the same level of practice that was needed to get to realization?

Interesting..most guys don’t have this problem. Could be low testosterone.

Yes - it's a good idea to review/repeat certain excercises .. I believe there are particular modules in the course that are called out to be something that repeat on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis. One that was huge of me was completing the 'Me Sheet' and spending 5 minutes a day reading through it for 90 days straight. That 'Me Sheet' is critical.

@Leo Gura @silene @Preety_India @ardacigin Thanks for the feedback guys

My legs used to cramp up during my hour long sessions. They have since adjusted to where it’s not as bad .. but what is the actual benefit of posture during meditation? Any negatives to not sitting Indian style?

Definitely not.

Have some really good sex.

False. Your existence started through consciousness, which creates all body senses. In fact, there was never a starting point to existence, as it is infinite with no beginning or end. A fundamental truth of awakening is that consciousness is not located in a human body. The human body is located within consciousness.. ..and consciousness is what you are. Not your body.