Terell Kirby

To become more fear-less in chasing my dreams.

Mastery is basically insane levels of practice (repetition + feedback). It also requires designing your practice to me more challenging in increments to create more resistance. 10000 hours seems about right to do it things properly. You could have all the talent in the world, but without sufficient practice to hone in those skills.

@roopepa I’d give the Actualized.org Life Purpose Course a shot. It did wonders for me in figuring out my passions and interest.

You miss the fact that not being able to will a million dollars, is Will itself .. go meta.

I have heard Leo mention this many times, I am beginning to process it at a deeper level. All perspectives have a kernel of Truth to them. A big part of this work is realizing what Truth actually is. In this context, Truth is Existence. Each perspective, whether it seems crazy, irrational or deluded to us (relatively speaking), is True in a sense that it Exist. All perspectives are divine in this nature. Deeply realizing this can making us more loving and accepting of that which doesn’t align to our current (and ever changing) worldviews. Just some food for thought.

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You are imagining the humans you are asking questions to

I love white women .. and all women

You may want to start by deeply reflecting on the possibility that finding Truth through asking humans is a futile endeavor, and that it ultimately gives your power away.

To ask this questions assumes that consciousness has some independent mechanical function to it (ie. a start point and end point). This is assumption is totally wrong. There is nothing mechanical about consciousness.

Seems to me like we never discuss sobriety as a means to improve one's life. Maybe I'm missing something..

Somewhat, I started to realize that my career (although lucrative .. six figures) really didn't have any grounding that connected to my passions and emotions. Luckily, I have made clear my life purpose, and will spend the next decade or two actualizing it. It's challenging, you'll go through swings of nihilism, followed by intense creativity and fun pursuing the pragmatic elements of life. Patience, introspection and contemplation are key. Align your top values with your work .. but that first requires you to find out what your top life values are.

This is a sad attempt by the OP to become a martyr ..

Lol I’ll pass .. that wouldn’t help me one bit.

To describe it with language would not do it justice. Since you are the only thing that exists, the answers are all within you .. it will take lots of courage and fortitude to come to the realization. As you can tell by the reactions to my speaking of the Truth, many will try to dissuade and discourage you .. mainly because they lack the courage to find it in themselves. By all means, don’t let it deter you. Best of luck.

Hate to break it to you, but this ain’t awakening. God isn’t within nature, nature is within God…as is all of Existence. To live in a world of should and shouldn’t is the ego’s game. I’ll pass on that.

If the awakening didn’t include the realization of you as God, then it’s not a real awakening. Best to be realistic here.

This does not sound genuine .. in actuality, you wouldn’t be okay if you don’t become enlightened .. you wouldn’t have even started the path if this was the case. To answer the question, the measure of your success will be directly correlated with how much you can love existence itself, unconditionally.

@SS10 Lol .. you are asking for trouble

Then there you go .. don’t stop gaming until you have exhausted this desire.

Whatever you tell yourself you are, is what you will manifest into reality. Makes no sense to have shitty psychology, and then complain about it. Either be happy with your bleak outlook on life, or do something to change it.

It’s all up to you. Most heterosexual men in their 30s and 40s are looking to settle down with a serious wife or girlfriend. Game is all about the intention behind it. Is it sex with no strings attached, a girlfriend, a wife, a family etc? Our intentions change as we get older. The endpoint should be whenever the intent materializes into something real.

When you realize that you are the God you talk about, you then understand that you are responsible for your suck ass life. Get your mind together if you want to start getting results. A victim mentality will do you no good.

@Maru yea .. but from what I read, psychedelics are like 1000x more effective than weed can ever be. Plus, they don't work on dopamine receptors the chance for addiction is very low. With weed, you run the risk of becoming an addicted pot head .. not getting anything done and only getting minor spiritual insights.

Start with being open to the idea that you may not be the human you think you are .. rather it being just an appearance in your imagination .. along with everything else. When you deeply contemplate this, pay attention to how you feel .. intense emotions usually signify a strong attachment to ego. Really dive into the content of Actualized.org to make sense of such questions, it will help you a ton.