Terell Kirby

@halfknots eeekk Thanks for sharing. Not a sourcing question, but was it easy or hard to find? (Just answer with easy or hard..I don’t want to get flagged). I will also check out your trip report.

Seems like it's Leo's favorite psychedelic .. which is getting me more and more serious about sourcing and trying it. For those who have tried it, can you share your personal insights gained and how they have differed from other trips / traditional spiritual practices? No need for long trip reports, just a 2-3 sentence summary. Thanks! (5meo DMT and MALT reference).

Actually .. this is the dating, sexuality and relationships section of a forum that covers a vast array of topics . There is another section for self actualization and spirituality. Please spare us .. the OP just wants some tips on how to up his game with dress. No need to get philosophical or metaphysical here.

Human attraction is a part of the social matrix lol. Survival itself is a part of the social matrix. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you are somehow above the social matrix…I mean, you are interacting with other humans on the forum aren’t you? If you’re a human, you have base cravings..and most will get satisfied through playing the social matrix game. Everyone does it dude.

What’s authentic to the OP is his desire to attract women through improving his style. He has the right to do that. “Shallow” pursuits can be just as authentic for someone given where they are in life. I see a lot of users on this forum attacking this .. mainly because they suppress their sexual cravings and giving those that seek to satisfy them a hard time.

This mindset will not work if the goal is to attract women. If you’re not trying to be attractive to women, then wear whatever the hell you want. It’a all about what you desire .. and taking the necessary steps to obtain it.

This is true, but if you are a beginner - then you'll have to play copy-cat with the latest trends. Once you get good at it, then you can begin to mix and match existing style with items that are more personal to you in finding your own unique look.

Impermanence is only a saving grace if you are un-attached to this life as a human. For me, I really enjoy it and don't want see it perish anytime soon .. but I have accepted that I can't hold onto it forever. Cherish every day.

Avoiding baggy clothing at all costs .. try to get fitted where you can. This is the most attractive style in a woman's eyes. Shoes are important, never walk around with busted shoes. Also, purchase the latest mens fashion magazines (I'm assuming you are a guy) as reference.

Wouldn’t this notion create duality though? Yea psychedelics can get you a variation of infinity but it’s still all infinity. From a God view, an experience on 5meo is no different from an experience on anything else. The content of existence may be different but context of existence is God’s imagination…all the time.

And some of us have realized this without taking a single psychedelic ..

I get your point though .. we never really know what our minds are capable of unless we make some profound distinction between our human incarnation and something that's profoundly different...and I get psychedelics help with that. Just acknowledging that there is a lot of progress that can be made while not on psychedelics .. I am sure you know this, but you seem to dismiss it a lot.

@Leo Gura you have some points, but some of us "sober" localizations of consciousness have indeed realized what we are .. In the end, from my universe, you are just some imagined person encouraging the use of 5meo DMT. I get this at a very fundamental level. FYI - I still plan on taking 5meo as you suggest lol. It sounds fun.

It would be very convenient if someone could map out the answers for you .. but the bleak aspect of awakening is that no one can validate it for you. It's beyond subjective, and you'll need to deeply trust yourself in this process. Be weary of people who come off as having all of the spiritual answers, and those who force some way of being down your throat.

Agree. God realization is the only thing one obtains on the path. For people on the forum that refuse to acknowledge this, I have a hard time understanding why someone would follow Leo’s teachings or even be on his platform. God realization is fundamental to his spiritual insights. Those who are God realized can easily see through those who are not.

Basic gratitude mindset that you can start right away: Your life may be shit, but at least you woke up today!

@Lyubov The only thing you should feel guilty about is not making an effort to find a better job.

This is the story you tell yourself. You let go of the story by deconstructing the idea itself .. this is what awakening entails.

Not taking care of your physical and mental health.

Consciousness can't be defined through fluffy words and terminology. Start by understanding that consciousness produces the language you are trying to use to define it. Meditate and contemplate in silence. When (and if) you discover the Truth, do not feel compelled to share it with anyone through your words.

You are projecting .. not all of Stage Orange is toxic.

I suggest you leave this to professionals who are in the psychology field, don't take on that burden .. it will most likely backfire and impact the relationship negatively. Encourage, not force, her to seek professional help .. such as therapy, counseling and/or coaching.

I used to deal with being forgetful and making mistakes a lot. Growing up, my parent made me feel bad about it all the time (I think it was a major contributor to my childhood trauma). It could be neurosis involved, but the important thing is to not take forgetfulness and mistakes too seriously (in terms of letting them define you). Humans are flawed beings, if any person criticizes another for making a mistake .. they are foolish. Mistakes are a part of the human experience. Learn to love yourself unconditionally.

When you die, you are born again .. to infinity So much that life and death become indistinguishable.