Terell Kirby

Probably because you are jealous and envious. Not judging you for it, but it's important to be honest about where the hate comes from. To resolve it, you'll need to fill material needs that you envy in others. Look for ways in which you admire them. I see a lot of forum users attempting to jump to be ultra spiritual, without taking care of material needs. You cannot be well rounded spiritually without fully engaging and transcending material cravings.

Goggins is great. i bought his book (didn't like it too much, but it had some sound principles pertaining to toughening up ones mind). I really respect his story and journey. He's a good and healthy example of Stage Blue/Orange.

I mean, it is bad if you care about the slaughter and consumption of animals. Me personally, i don't care enough about it to not eat meat. This is one part of ego-ic survival that I am willing to live with.

Happiness does exists .. but it's deeply counter-intuitive and does not follow the ego's program. In realizing that we are not human, the way we define happiness completely changes. It goes from an emphasis on external circumstances to internal circumstances.

This is laughable haha .. says no man on this Earth that wasn’t bullshitting himself. Being a virgin for a man is one of the most painful experiences he can go through. Obtaining sexual abundance is one of our main drivers in pursuing success and achievement. You have to embrace this and actively invest in this aspect of life before you can transcend it. To not do this is putting the cart before the horse in personal / spiritual development as a man. It helps to refer to the Spiral dynamics model, and deeply study stage Orange within the model.

The key is not identifying with any of these constructed political sects. You can't avoid ideology through claiming a specific belief system as absolute. What you can do, though, is see the positives and the negatives of each. Systems thinking and holism is the best repellent for these matters.

Had to seek out 1:1 coaching in my 20s, along with other resource (YT videos, books, online content, etc.) Attraction and sexuality is a skill that can be developed, but it takes work just as anything else you are attempting to master in life. Instead of asking how others did it, ask how you yourself can do it.

I once had a coach tell me to ask for her name first. If she gives it, but doesn't ask for yours .. that can serve as a good sign of a lack of initial interest.

Getting laid should be the first goal, especially for in-cels / virgins. Healthy , long term intimacy cannot even be conceived by men unless they burn through their sexual karma. I wish some of you on the forum would stop denying your sexual cravings out of fear of rejection by women.

Unifying with God can be done by becoming God.

What to do now? Be more loving each day. The effort is all that matters.

Liberals are more cognitively developed than conservatives (meaning less of their ideology is rooted in fear, anger and hatred). That doesn't mean they can't be ideological and partial in their views, but they are most certainly the lesser of the two evils. Just take comparative look at policy proposals from both sides and you'll see this is the case.

That's questionable, which is why he's on trial in the first place.. Yes..why would I comment on something I haven't seen or heard about? How about being under-aged carrying an assault rifle into a protest? Amongst other things.. If you are a right wing hack, I have no interest in debating you...I simply gave an unbiased high level view of how culture and media plays out in our judicial system. You will not be getting any more responses from me, so please keep your comments to yourself and save your energy.

What do you mean? He's not on a nationally broadcasted criminal trial for no reason..

I predict a slap on the wrist for Kyle Rittenhouse. Trials like these shows us how bias and emotions are still much at play in our judicial system, mainly influenced by media and culture. Truth be told is Kyle is too innocent looking to get seriously reprimanded. He also a young white male. We should all reference the case of Brock Allen Turner, a 19 year student athlete convicted of rape but only served 3 months of a 6 month sentence. Rittenhouse fits the same profile.

I assume you reside in a state where THC is legal recreationally? THC infused tea sounds delicious.

There are spiritual meanings to everything in life. In reference to orgasms, God has intelligently designed them to feel so, so pleasurable for humans...that it's up there with the need for food and shelter. And this must be the case to reproduce successfully. Humans are inherently lazy, and won't pursue anything unless it satisfies certain bodily cravings in an overly profound way. Sex is a drug

You gotta first admit to that you are indeed afraid of spiders. Sounds like you have done that. Then you gotta explore that fear, with two questions 1. where does it come from? 2. Is it legitimate? If it turns out not to be legitimate, then you can proceed facing it. I would say the percentage of legitimate vs. ill-legitimate fears in the average human is 50/50.

Pick up increased my lay count to quadruple the amount from where it was back in 2015. I have moved on to higher consciousness living since then, but sometimes we have to fulfill basic survival needs before we get all existential about life. If you don't tackle basic survival needs, and successfully integrate them, then your so called high consciousness way of living can be quite fraudulent...rooted in self righteousness and virtue signaling.

Self compassion .. working on it day by day.

God is not contained in a human. A human is just an appearance in God's universal mind, like everything else. God can realize this, but only when it's ready to give up fantasizing that it actually is a human.

^ This is totally normal. Where we mess up is getting stuck on our failures and successes - not realizing that life is impermanent and constantly changing. Joy comes from being grateful for life as it is, during times of great successes, failures and everything in between. Be blessed.

Smoking too much weed can destroy your lungs, among other effects. I've tried transitioning to edibles or other forms of pure THC that doesn't require ingestion through smoking.

You are not the parasite, you think you are the parasite. Identification with the parasite is the issue here. FYI - i tend to use the phrase 'self' with a lowercase 's' instead of parasite. Who you are is 'Self' with an uppercase 'S'

A bit confused by this. The law of attraction (which is what I think you are alluding to), doesn't work unless you actually put in the discipline and hard work to allow the universe to reveal to you opportunities to increase mastery in a field. A lot of people bullshit themselves into not actually doing the stuff no one wants to do to get success. You can't manifest anything without some sort of pain / grind to get there.