Terell Kirby

@Antor8188 have you approached 1000 girls? If not, then all you’re doing is engaging in speculative BS.

Seems to me like you are getting dates, but not able to close. You mention "slight mistake", but that isn't what the girls you are talking to see it as. Not sure if you are becoming pushy/attached/clingy to girls once they show initial interest. You have to be detached throughout the entire process of seduction, all the way up until after you have sex. Sounds to me that are you getting too attached to end results which is preventing you from closing. The mind-fuck of it all is that You won't even be able to get average / below average girls if you are clingy and needy. ALL WOMEN ARE REPELLED BY NEEDY MEN.

There's no need to feel guilty about consuming alcohol. However, if it is negatively affecting your life, and the lives of others, then it is a question of relinquishing a destructive habit. A lot of people are in denial about the problems that result from their drinking. It does not sound like you've reached a bottom, but do be mindful .. as alcohol is an addictive toxin that develops high tolerance for some people.

There is nothing spiritual about this forum lol.

Probably

Do tons of research on codependency. There are many resources and support groups. You can't even begin to do effective spirituality without having a solid emotional base.

Not entirely true .. there are physiological impacts at play as well, could be genetic and/or hereditary. Alcoholism is a real thing .. a disease. So someone who doesn't want to take heroin, meth or crack is avoiding life or a religious nut? I don't think so .. This is silly .. encouraging someone to hooked on anything is just bad advice.

May want to take more pragmatic methods on the issue .. at least starting out. Have you tried therapy? I would recommend you and your wife seek marriage counseling and therapy to see if there is any chance to reconcile before making a decision to leave or stay.

Yes.

@Leo Gura how do your bar dates go when you don’t drink and the girl does? I’ve recently given up drinking alcohol, and attempting to adjust. What do you order while at the bar?

Practice makes perfect. Attraction is like building muscle at the gym .. the number of reps is directly correlated with quality of results.

Small details matter when it comes to material survival. Don't fool yourself into thinking that survival is not something you are attached to.

You are dreaming up the planet, teachers and astrologers. They are all constructions of your mind .. including “all illusory bodies”.

If you were benefiting for the capitalist system, I guarantee you would not have any of these complaints. Capitalism has its faults on a collective, geo-political level. But make sure you are not using that as an excuse not to pursue success in your personal life in terms of fulfilling your material needs. It's easy to criticize the system when you are caught in victim mentality, and taking zero responsibility.

Only you can have an energy shift .. there is no "we" in this work. States of high vibration and detachment are just illusions your mind is spinning. These "states" are no more different than being attached and reactive. Do everything you must to realize the illusory nature of reality, and the role you play in it (as God).

Such a great point, I believe a ton of people confuse the two. I do recommend everyone check out your vids on holism .. it breaks down what true intelligence is, making academia only a small piece of a much larger (intelligent) ecosystem that is conscious.

Challenge builds character .. unless you are doing things to create dysfunction in your life (self-harm). Reframing / re-contextualization is key.

@Vercingetorix Having a life purpose is a conscious, healthy way to develop your masculinity. Masculine drive is fueled by drive, mission, purpose and breaking through barriers and challenges. Being motivated by juicy vision / life purpose will spill into other areas in your life .. women find this quality very attractive in men as well .. not to mention, it is very authentic.

Who said that there was anything wrong with talking to yourself? There's no reason to do it .. but it's also no reason not to do it. That is the beauty of reality / life. You get to choose what you want to do in the dream, and it doesn't change the fact that it's a dream.

But .. have you realized that you are God? The bedroom is a product of your imagination, as is all of Existence.

For the same reason it created everything else .. out of Love for its existence.

What motivates you to still teach after realizing you have no other? I guess it’s for Self benefit these days? Either way, thank you for teaching Yourself about Yourself. When I realized that I am you, an instant connection and understanding was developed. Sending Love you way for your contribution to Universal Consciousness ❤️ ??

Being the center-point of the Universe, where all of the 'looking' is taking place. Floating, gravity holds the body to Earth, but consciousness (the I) is not held down by any gravitational force. The eradication such concepts as past and future, by recognizing the present is the only thing that exist .. though mutating into varying forms. The recognition that "my" body .. is not "my" body at all. It is simply a body that is appearing, as are the rest.. Realizing that I have never had any human to human interactions in my life. Nothing / no one has any relation to me outside of what I imagine. Reality becomes "screen-like", although I can't see what I am, physically, I am known by what is taking place through observation of the Universe.

The willingness to surrender to the leadership quality that masculine energy brings into a sexual / romantic relationship. This assumes that the male does not abuse his masculine power, and aims to protect the feminine (physically and emotionally).

@Leo Gura why is it so hard to get people to acknowledge the validity of alternative perspectives? I'd pull my hair out trying to do what you do.. To be able to do this is to transcend moralism .. which is what is dominating the Ukraine/Russian conversation.