Terell Kirby

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  1. To test your wisdom .. I ask you this question: What is God?
  2. Sure, she may want to be called a woman in platonic / professional environments by her peers .. But when it comes to her fully embracing and opening up to her sexuality with a dominate male .. she wants to feel like a girl again. And it's not a matter of being disrespectful, feeling like a girl allows her to let her hair down, get in her feminine energy and not take life so seriously.
  3. @BipolarGrowth what is the goal of your YT channel? I only ask because it seems fairly similar to what Leo is doing, but you may have a different vision of it that some of us are unaware of. I don't want to assume and call you a copy-cat
  4. You don't need a psychology degree for any of this. You can educate yourself rather than following someone else's curriculum.
  5. Ego is that which resist the Truth. Now you may ask what the Truth actually is .. but I would encourage you to figure that out on your own through spiritual work.
  6. As I get deeper into spiritual work and deeply contemplating (as well a putting into practice) the insights from Actualized.org, I am finding it extremely imperative to avoid the trap of making the journey about Leo. This includes trying to be like Leo and/or putting him on a pedestal. This also includes trying to debate and debunk him .. as I see many of us on the forum like to do. I am able to avoid the Leo trance, by reminding myself he is imaginary .. therefore, the insights he delivers are me delivering insights to myself. This will go over a lot of your heads if you haven't truly realized what God is .. and why you are God. All in all, the Leo avatar is not your authority .. simply due to the fact that you are imagining it as a real person. Take its insights for what they are worth, and move on fast. This not only applies to Leo, but any other spiritual gurus you worship and give your authority to. Love you all.
  7. Sounds like you are in pain, extending my well wishes to you during this time. Feel into the hate - be present with it, try to befriend it even. This doesn't mean acting on hate, but giving your attention to it so it can express itself, and be released. Counseling and therapy will help.
  8. Spot on. Women like nice guys .. as long as they are not needy .. the neediness separates the nice guys from the creeps. Women would even prefer a jerk who's not nice to her over a creep.
  9. Also .. let go of the need to let go of everything you have learned .
  10. The same attraction principles used to get a one night stand, is the same used to get in a long term relationship. Fundamentally, you have to develop yourself into a person of high confidence and self esteem to get a quality partner .. no matter the context. This is very hard to do, and you cannot skip over it.
  11. Some tips: Put yourself in uncomfortable social situations. Practice being mindful of the anxiety. It is usually in the form of bodily sensations, but can also be in the form of obsessive thinking. Gather feedback by introspecting on your experience of step #2. Ask high quality questions (what does anxiety feel like? what is its function? etc.). Repeat. Do this until your anxiety fades. Expect your mind to trick you from taking step #1.
  12. Why not meet women in real life? You are playing the direct message game, you have virtually 0% chance of anything come of out of that. If she's hot, she's getting DMs from so many guys.
  13. Reminds me that I never canceled my free trial subscription...darn it. From my view, it's really just cookie cutter spirituality. Actualized.org is way better.
  14. Probably for entertainment. A separate sense of self provides all the drama one needs to be really into story-telling. Be careful of wanting a life without drama, it comes with heaps of responsibility .
  15. not sure, i would assume most in mental hospitals are not enlightened whatsoever.
  16. The ego is an imagined ailment that leads God to a life full of suffering. Awakening is the only thing that can cure God from ego (otherwise known as the devil).
  17. Please tell me you have actually taken psychedelics? Otherwise, you are speaking out of ignorance.
  18. Borrowing money should be your last option .. as it doesn't require any creativity or outside of the box thinking. Push your mind harder in finding ways to make money without debt/interest attached.
  19. By replacing the "how" with the "when". Don't over think it... just do it.
  20. I wish for..An infinite number of wishes
  21. Becoming selfless (infinite) includes the realization that death doesn't exist. Therefore, there is no need to stay "alive" in the first place. Life and death is a concept that is born out of selfishness and finitude.
  22. It matters to virgins lol. Most guys don't want to die not ever having sex. Men are highly sexual.
  23. A sage can love all world-views, even if they are misguided. ^ This
  24. Notice how you may be making an ideology out of being anti-materialist. A true sage can be spiritual and include/embody materialism and idealism.
  25. The human mind is a bullshitting machine, and cannot be defeated easily. It's literally like the final boss in a video game. You'll fail many times trying to defeat it, but you must not put down the controller until it's done. That is our work here.