Terell Kirby

God realization is irreversible . If you are seeing it as a negative, it just means you need to go deeper. Either you do it, or remain stuck in nihilism..which can destroy you. Once you get a taste of your God nature (even for a short while), there is no turning back.

Sounds like you didn’t take the course (or didn’t complete it). Otherwise, you’d have these questions answered. Problem is trying to find these answers from sources outside of your heart. Focus on deriving these answers for yourself..no one can provide you a worthwhile life purpose.

When you die, you continue dreaming.

Agreed. A conscious life purpose should have very little association with low level survival demands.

Lol.

The more your social skills suck, the more deliberate practice is needed in the field. In the case of partying and nightclubs, stay till the party is over (assuming you are spending most of the time approaching and not standing in a corner)

As long as “handling all of it” means deeply feeling those unpleasant feelings of trauma, and integrating the shadow caused by them.

How did you fall into this? Do they give you sex for money?

Only you would know the answer to that question. Instead of asking God, ask yourself .. seeing as in you are God, the one who deceived and still is deceiving itself .. you have the power to wake up at any time.

I wouldn't count on him to release the course anytime soon .. don't put all your eggs into this basket. Focus on what you can do without Leo's help. Leverage his already existing content, but also set your own goals and measures for success in your spiritual pursuits.

It's not this simple .. nor could it ever be.

@Leo Gura I noticed he also does a great deal to market his website / business on this forum .. so not sure if how much his cryptic language was being used to increase traffic for his business. Do you plan on creating some guidelines around users marketing their spiritual coaching businesses? I only bring this up because it could possibly taint or corrupt the forum.

I’d choose being sober in spiritual endeavors over alcohol for sure.

@SQAAD seems to me that you are not ready for the deepest levels of this work.

The mistake is trying to find meaning in the meditation. It is ideal to not expect anything from your practice, this will give you higher returns and make you more present to what arises. Embrace the falling apart with a smile. The key is not to judge yourself or your circumstances .. your ego finds it hard not to do this. Take a break if you need to, and only return when you are ready. You must not beat yourself up though

@John Paul at least you are honest. I believe well over 50% of the folks that follow actualized.org have some kind of twisted infatuation and attachment to Leo. Kind of natural for gurus .. especially on YouTube these days.

Depends on who you ask. There are many happy / fulfilling marriages .. as well as many miserable ones. Be careful that you are not projecting upon marriage because of past or lingering trauma you have had in your personal life. That could result in you missing opportunities to develop an awesome romantic relationship with a significant other.

You avoid this by de-escalating. The point of going out is to have fun, not pick fights. If a guy wants to start drama, offer to buy him a drink or compliment him on his outfit.

Lol .. hard to do if you're shit-faced. If you're serious about improving your skills at socialization and/or pickup .. go for little to no alcohol.

I exist as God, but alas .. you are God. Therefore YOU are imagining what you call "me" and "others" .. right at this very moment. You cannot escape your imagination.

The term dream can cause a ton of confusion. At it’s core, reality is constructed .. from scratch. This is the magnificence of God (yourself).

Leo’s version of putting heads on a spike lol

Women can definitely be lazy in bed .. no denying that. Men and can too, of course. Point is, sexual chemistry goes out the window if either partner is not interested in pleasing in the other. Really boils down to selfishness on both sides.

There isn’t any raw data to back this up .. seems as though you’re not objectively evaluating progressives (ie. Bias). This may be true in your subjective experience, but it’s not universally true that progressives complain the most. Not to my knowledge at least.

@Leo Gura In light of the recent events of taking your solipsism video down, how do you deal with having so many people relying on you to satisfy their egos in so many ways (a good amount of it being toxic)? You could easily becoming a spiritual cult leader / Zen devil with this amount of pull. I deeply respect the fact that you have actively pushed back against this, encouraging others to forge their own spiritual path, instead of marketing yourself as the solution to all of their problems. How can we embody this level of principled leadership and integrity as we begin to take back our personal power .. and become sources of inspiration to others without getting corrupted by our ego?