Terell Kirby

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  1. Yeah I agree .. it's a man who pursue's his ambitions with compassion and integrity.
  2. Anything finite (such as a human life), is prone to suffering. But the power you seek is found in your Mind. You may not be able to change the circumstances, but you can change your perspective on the circumstances. This is your secret power, the secret power of God. Discover it through awakening. Best of luck.
  3. @CuriousityIsKey your Ego (in other words, your personal sense of self / human identity), is only interested in its survival. Therefore when you are completely gripped by your ego-ic identity, you want reality to suit your needs to stay alive. This is why you wish your illness away, but it won't go away .. because the God that you are is in control. And it's okay to be in survival mode, when you have a crippling illness .. it's hard to love it through standard human consciousness. The highest consciousness would embrace it with Love.
  4. Lol, well your life has been and will always be a dream. This isn't a bad thing per say, doesn't it feel good to know that the "you" that you think you are, and all of your problems, are imaginary?
  5. Question is, how do the mods and Leo crack down on the mis-use?
  6. Yellow people tend to not fit into basic political leanings such as center, left, right, etc. That being said, they are definitely more so on the left side of political ideaology, but the difference between them and an average progressive is that they are able to think way more systematically about the issues, and are much more pragmatic...placing logic above a "bleeding heart". For yellow leaders, the goal isn't to annihilate the "other" side (whether it be conservatives, liberals, progressives), it is to make the best policy where everyone in the spiral benefits. Systems thinking 101, basically.
  7. Lack of healthy masculine role models ..
  8. Intellectualization can also be used as a distraction from going inward, and doing the necessary (often grueling) task of isolation to come to your own insights. I am just advising everyone to recognize that discussions about God on this forum has its limits .. don't put all your chips in one basket. This forum will be the least effective method to your awakening, quite honestly.
  9. Interesting .. how would you define true greatness? And how does it differ from Elon's contributions?
  10. When we recognize all perspectives is One perspective .. the notion of solipsism then makes sense.
  11. This is mental masturbation This is mental masturbation. You'll never get a complete understanding through language and intellect. Don't be discouraged, but you have to accept this. Put in the work to get to your own understanding (books, mediation, yoga, psychedelics, retreats etc)
  12. Actually, spirituality is simply a higher level of post-modernism. God is the ultimate relativist .. embracing all perspectives, including those that act as if their perspective is absolute truth (ie. ignorance). You seem to think that a typical human needs to have certain attributes/characteristics to be called "spiritual" .. but what you don't understand is that a limited, finite human being can never contain the infinite nature of God... To think so creates a spiritual ego / zen devil.
  13. "As it is", so you claim, is your own truth on spirituality and material possessions. But don't mistake what is true for you to be what is true for everyone else, or universally true by any means. To not acknowledge the relativity of your statements makes you a moralist.
  14. Then why don't you donate all of your money to homeless, and starve in the streets? If you haven't done this, then what you speak is hypocrisy. Survival is embedded deeply in the human psyche, and you should not judge it as "anti-spiritual". God manifests and loves all of reality, including your own survival mechanisms .. including your denial that you even have survival mechanisms.
  15. Visited Vegas for the first time last month (it was my birthday, stayed for 5 nights). Everything Leo is saying is true, Vegas has an insane nightlife .. I slept maybe 2 hours for each of those 5 nights lol. Definitely visit first before considering relocation .. fun and hot women everywhere, but definitely expensive.
  16. What someone else says is what has no worth. Stop listening to other humans, and create the life you want for yourself (or end it if you're not up for the task). Taking responsibility is what you are designed to do, whether you want to avoid it or not. Whatever result you get in life, positive or negative, will be out of your own doing.
  17. What you are talking about is moralism, which is the exact opposite of spirituality. You are advocating for dogmatic thinking. True spirituality embraces all aspects of reality with the highest Love. Your post tells me that you are far removed from this. And yet, aren't you surviving? To come on a forum and talk to other humans about what they should and should not do is your attempt to preserve your own ego and its sense of reality. This itself is a survival strategy. Don't be so quick to fool yourself that you are above survival, being a human means to actively avoid death at all cost. What you call "spirituality" can be cleverly hi-jacked by the ego to serve its survival agenda .. which is what you are doing here.
  18. The only punisher is you .. via causing physical harm to your body. Suicide is ultimately mapped to a lack of love, a very severe case of it.
  19. Sorry to hear that .. but it’s equally important to recognize that this is her journey. You can support by simply letting her know that you’ll be there should she need anything. Therefore placing the responsibility on her versus you taking on unnecessary stress.
  20. True, but vague nonetheless .. for those who are not God realized. Trauma is extremely complex and requires you go back in time to explore the circumstances and people that cut you deep .. this often happened in your childhood. You have to bring forth your fear, anger and resentment before you are able to love it, thus being able to set it free. There are many methods of trauma work: counseling/therapy, meditation, journaling, reading books on trauma (system emotions), EMDR, psychedelics. Brace yourself, it is hard (but worthy) work. Typically, healing trauma will involve a ton of forgiveness..towards yourself, other people and circumstances.
  21. @Hardkill are you doing cold approach? If your skill level is zero with interacting with women, I would ignore social circle and focus solely on cold approach..at least for the first six months or so.
  22. Self compassion .. being flawed and prone to mistakes is a part of human nature. Don't take life so personally.