Terell Kirby

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  1. @kray awesome, this helps! Thank you.
  2. *There (i'm a bit of a grammar Nazi). The notion of levels creates duality. Enlightenment is the collapsing of all the dualities the mind projects onto reality.
  3. Don't use this work to justify suicide. You may know that everything is imaginary, but that doesn't mean your parents do. You killing yourself will surely guarantee suffering for them.
  4. A better question would be: So am I also having an experience of the lives of "other people" like I am right now for my own life? The answer is yes of course .. you are God .
  5. What you are submitting to is the reality that you are the entire Universe . Hope this helps.
  6. In actuality, the ego doesn’t want to be God realized .. that would mean it would have take responsibility for all of reality .. hence having no one to blame or demonize . Becoming God is what the ego is deathly afraid of.
  7. Well .. you severely limit your prospects without approaching. Unfortunately there is no way around it, confronting your limiting beliefs and fears is imperative. Also, make sure this is something you really want. I notice when Leo says “jump!” .. people go right to jumping without deeply contemplating if it’s right for them at their stage in life. And by jump, I mean his advice on various aspects of personal development and spiritual growth.
  8. Take responsibility for allowing this person to take advantage of you. Making a bad guy out of them will do you no good. Use this situation to deeply reflect on why you allow such behavior and unable set proper boundaries in relationships. Be brutally honest with yourself, this will grow you. Basically, make it less about them and more about you.
  9. Thank you. The answer is both, diving deep into the theoretical notions of Infinity, God, Love & Consciousness will open the door up for experiential understanding. Beware though, it’s easy to get stuck in theory .. pursuing the experience itself is much more difficult and scary.
  10. This all goes full circle ... right after you realize that all "levels" are couched in One level .. that is singular, whole and complete.
  11. @ToaTokuchi use this time to review some of the older content, and contemplate how you will integrate it into your life. Actualized.org content is not meant to be treated like a Netflix series .. get the nuggets, implement the insights through real-life practice, and be done with it.
  12. Anything that involves blaming others for your problems in life. Along with the avoidance of taking full responsibility for the results you are getting.
  13. @PurpleTree the lower the stage, the more prone it is to ideology and dogma. This is what separates Tier 2 thinking (yellow and above) from Tier 1 (everything below yellow).
  14. Yellow has just as many opinions as the other stages. The difference is, they'll actually question the validity of their own opinions.
  15. The statement "God is" .. is indeed false. God can't be one thing, because it is Everything.
  16. This is your belief system.
  17. All of reality is your minds construction .. in which you have all the free will to give any meaning to it you want. This is not a belief, it's the Truth .. as radical as it may seem. If you are able to do the difficult and emotional laborious task of deeply realizing this, and integrating into your psyche, you will reach new heights. There is no short cut to get here. Grit and a willingness to do the dirty work despite your fears and limiting beliefs are critical.
  18. Your mind is construction the news that is demotivating you. Take responsibility by reducing your consumption. The meaning that you have given to life, is no meaning. You can literally change this at any time. Blame is the opposite of responsibility. Without responsibility, you will most certainly never succeed in life.
  19. Few questions: Do you also have a crush on the professor? (asking to check for any jealousy). Is this person truly effective your life in a negative way? How much of this is coming from a notion of what is appropriate for and your personal value system? (one has to understand that there is no absolute definition of the way humans should act / not act .. to think so is to be a moralist).
  20. Deep down, this comes from the feeling that you are undeserving of your partner. You'll have to get honest about your insecurities about yourself for the issue to truly be resolved.
  21. Simple: drag your ass out of bed. At that point it's you against your lazy, ungrateful self. You can defeat it with sheer willpower (and consecutive alarms set on your smartphone).
  22. Mastering the identification of self-deception .. while it's actually happening. This will take life to a new level.
  23. Because it is what one chooses to do. See .. you as God can come up with any concept you want and assign whatever substance to it as you wish You're all powerful, nothing stops you from doing what the fuck you want to do. Now enough mental masturbation.
  24. Of course, there are many pro-vax people who could care less about the health of others as it relates to the survival of themselves and their families. This is fundamental to human nature. But typically more pro-vax folks are considerate of the collateral damage to others from disinformation and science denial, than anti-vaxers.
  25. By how selfish that perspective is (preservation of self at the expense of other). Love comes from selfless-ness.