First of all, realize that the self-development/spirituality part of you will lead to a lot more happiness, and the looking great/having money part of you is all ego, and that stuff will never make you happy, it just seems like it will.
I think you should try and find out where your ego motivations are coming from. If you're into high consciousness things like spirituality and enlightenment but you are still so drawn to this other hedonistic stuff, odds are that this part of you just wants this stuff so you can feel better about yourself, because you're insecure and have self-esteem issues (which there is nothing wrong with and I totally understand). In that case you should work on those, and help yourself get real love and validation from yourself, at your core, so you no longer crave it from external sources (which will never get you real self-love anyways).
At that point your self-esteem and general level of consciousness will be higher, you will start to move out of spiral dynamics stage orange and farther into green, and now it will be way easier for you to pursue higher consciousness things.
I'd suggest taking Leo's life purpose course. I took it a few months ago and I loved it. it shows you exactly how to find your deepest passions and values, and then use them to help the world by making a career out of it. Its combining creativity with higher consciousness, spiritual values.
The most important thing is to know that the part of you that wants lots of money and sex will never make you happy. Know that pursuing higher consciousness is the right thing to do, so make sure you work towards that. Find the things that you're really passionate about and that you really love deep down and then base your life on that.