IAmReallyImportant

In general there is too less information. You probably don't even know if it was suicide at all. And if a person has really jumped from a bridge, there is currently probably no evidence that it was a forum member. At least I don't see one.

If the true nature would be everything, why don't I feel good on any thought then? So the true nature is just a part of oneself? I often times feel good with thoughts other people would call unrealistic. So it is just about the feeling? But then there is no reason at all to live if you have no control, cannot really create what you want..

@Nahm Thanks, this is a valuable advice! For example, I think that I am capable of achieving great things. Now could that be seen as me seeing myself that way? So this is not humble and would be better to let it go? But then I would feel that it is not "good" to believe in oneself and therefore I would think that I cannot manifest my desires so well. What do you understand by "believe in yourself"?

Can you give me an example of people believing seeing themselves?

@Nahm What is with people who act humble, are thankful etc. just so they can see themselves as mature or developed and thus superior ? Could this also be a form of narcism?

What I have understood so far women are basically simple, it just looks complicated, because they often add unnecessary layers of complexity I e.g. have higher priorities than relationships even if it could be nice. So it is easier for me to see through. there is no formulary how to behave in situations They feel attracted if you are aligned with reality, focus on what you want, if you are inspired, detached, not afraid to show emotions but at the same time are dominant but not in the way of acting superior - more this strong energetic form of being and also a form of leading the situation without ignoring or dismissing the female. Also you have to be serious with relationships in terms of not using your partner for your advantage, but show real interest which only can be the case if your partner really fits your values and life-vision. You have to be charismatic, funny etc.. Not because you are some weird pickup guy but because you enjoy life anyways. This will attract for sure. But if you got this you don't really want a relationship. It will more like come automatically as an extra.

This reveals he has a lot of problems and I promise you, it doesn't feel good to him either. You have the possibility to live a great life on your own terms with good feelings all the time, because you work on yourself and you are inspired and have dreams. He obviously not really and will probably live in misery till the end of his life or he will never experience real joy and happiness till his body dies.

Ergo she doesn't want to be alone, that is all. If she wasn't someone who settles for less and makes clear decisions, she would have left him long ago. For me, that would be too little class and cheap. But I think similar people attract themselves.

She doesn't want to be together with you, but has fear of being alone. Especially, if someone was raped this is the case. Ihate to tell you that, but you are second choice. You can decide if you love yourself or not.

Hope you feel better now. What did he do?

Imagine you have had a girlfriend/boyfriend for about 10 years. You still love this person so much. Then your partner tells you that he/she is a android robot and cuts off a finger to prove it. There are wires and stuff. How would you feel? Do you think that only the experience is important and not the truth? For me the truth is more important, maybe that is because of the believe, love comes from someone else. However, I am not sure how to think about the issue, if it is important that the partner does really love you or not.

It is more a roast than a serious analysis. He has humour that you have to hand it to him lol

Currently it would be too expensive, maybe in the future. It would be just funny at the beginning, if you found out your partner is an android and now in the case of a dispute you have the power, like a man is supposed to have : P And finally, you can let her do what you want and press silent, if she is overreacting again etc. . But this would become boring at time I think.

Philosophing is just thoughts, inner work is not about thoughts. It is about feelings. You are just stuck in interpretations, that is why you don't get it. yes and maybe you can look inside and see where loves really comes from

If you needed coping mechanisms how could the oxytocin still remain the same? And why wouldn't you switch the partner? It would be easier and your partner wouldn't be hurt, because it is an android.

I have written that if your partner is a robot you could hack her. But not that I actually want this. Would be boring

You can not literally press a button so that your partner is silent e.g. . Or remote control, instant personality changes etc. .

As I said, there is value ; )

Nope, you can get truth out of his teachings. It is about that he is just unauthentic and this seems fake to me, because he did use all this exaggerations and was bragging etc. . And it is not about that I want to trust him or anybody should. If any person would ask the question of trust the person would probably be more aware. And then certain sub-communications about conciosness-dualities, people-judgement, person-cult or anything else would less apply. But trust itself doesn't play any role. Now it doesn't matter anymore what he says explicitly. Because, explicitly as I said you can say many things. The picture which is drawn is important. If he says you have to be aware to not think in dualities it doesn't change much. Maybe he is not unauthentic to you. We don't have to have this discussion, I don't want to stop you from anything doing, believing etc. .

There are teachers out there you are more mature and really embody higher concioussness values. Leo better than many teachers and he is not a bad teacher. He just disappointed me. Nope, there is no particular path at all. You have to find out for yourself what you follow.

lol trust me I have comtemplated this through probably more than most people on this forum. This is another symptom of actualized.org . Everybody thinks he is smart because there is the feeling of "knowing something others don't know". See I don't want to convince you its your thing what you want to believe. Again, I didn't say this. This is what you make up. In any way there is a person around any movement. And every act has a lot of influence. If this person acts narcisstic and sub-communicates stuff which is not good for a persons development - even this is not intended - it can cause a huge damage. I don't know why you feel offended. Maybe because you identify with actualized.org ; ) I think Leo is cool but somehow also disappointed me, because I was like you till the awakening came.

It is exactly what I have written before. They say you have to pay attention what you are doing. Giving feedback is always important, because it helps to improve. And of course you can. You are stuck in the thought patterns he applied to you. Not that he is some cult leader who manipulates you concioussly to buy his product, but this is the byproduct of his videos. You have to learn to think indepedently ; ) Currently you are a fan and thats ok, it is the same for all YouTubers. They automatically create a cult.

Saying this explicitly is not enough. It is about the sub-communication. And this is the strongest form of communication.

I didn't said this and not meant it. He did all this out of unconcious decisions. But this doesn't matter, because responsibility remains responsiblity. It is his ego. He certainly contributed good stuff, but these house of cards has no strong grounding.

This is also such a thing. You never can now if the person talking about the stuff has understand it by himself. You also don't know how "developed" the conciousness of "another" being actually is. This makes it easier for people to create the perception, that they are higher developed. Especially if they say "they always look for ways they are deluded". A not-deluded person would not express that, but just do it. And then there is also the thing with that the person talking about the stuff makes the impression, the other person should have the responsibility. So when something does go wrong, it is not this persons fault. Online marketer do this all the time. They sell products e.g. for business development and then they say it is up to you, when you fail you fail. And then they talk about taking responsibility and leadership but at the same time they don't do it. Leo Gura shouldn't have done all of this. Especially creating ideas of dualities regarding conciousness. Or tell people about ideas about dualities regarding development and even he says these are models, it makes people put other people in a box anyways. And then saying how science is a myth makes this whole thing implausible. And talking about implicit understanding doesn't makes it better lol