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If aliens would exist, they would certainly be good, because they haven't destroyed us so far. So I hope they will beam me up, so I can ask them to pay my bills and buy me this new Bentley. Even if they are probably stage green.

Did you visit a mental health professional? Sounds like schizophrenia.

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Could also be a hologram projected by a spotlight or something. I also saw an UFO in a park in Munich up in the sky above the height of airplanes. It turned out there was a concert nearby. It could be anything else but just assuming these are real alien spaceship as the most probable occurrence sounds weird lol Wishful thinking comes into mind.

I don't know why you are interested on evidence that I have a dick lol

Nope https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unidentified_flying_object There is no evidence at all that this is about extraterrestrial life.

It is still about UFO's and not extraterrestrial life.

I mean other ways

There are also realistic ways to achieve this. And in addition I am not talking about being rich in 6 months. I don't say your approach is lesser. Always depends on the goal.

So there is a possibility to speed up the process? Because I mentioned time not effort. There are faster ways also with low risk to become financially independent.

Again, it is about close relationships with other people. Again, it is about close relationships like friends or romantic ones. From my experience, most juice of life comes from spending time with ones own. And do something one loves to do.

Seems like a disproportionate high time-consuming project.

There are enough historical records that prove it. If they exist, then it's possible. I e.g. did make a coding retreat for business reasons for about one year and I didn't feel lonely or any other unconfortable feeling even if I usually have friends. That is why I wonder so many people seem to be dependent on close relationships, as if love would come from the outside.

This is also an extreme example. You don't either. Fact is, they didn't die and if they weren't satifsied they probably wouldn't do it. If someone does something like this, there must be a strong reason behind the act. I think it is clear from what I have written that the whole thread is about close relationships.

So your opinion is that because we live in a relative world, interpersonal relationships are a must? That would also mean that without them you would physically die or not be satisfied throughout your life. Why are there so many examples of the opposite in this case? And why are there examples of enlightened masters who live in a cave and experience absolute bliss? Do you feel empty and lonely without people around you? Again, my desire is not that I want to live in a cave or whatever alone till I die. It is about the answer of the question.

If you imagine you have a soul mate, it is real.

First of all thanks for the comprehensive advice! What you say about grounding resonates, because it also applies to a unique life in terms of mainly concentrating on a craft etc. . I don't feel like I am avoiding them. I just tried to cut off relationships which didn't really serve me, but it doesn't work so far as I am in a situation currently where being completely alone would be kind of heavy. And I don't mean emotionally. And I would be open to new ones but I could also have none. However, currently this is for me not at all something to pursue because of higher priorities. I completely agree ?

You always say death is wonderful, but harming the body not. But you don't explain why, only that one would regret it. So why would someone regreting harming a body which would then no longer exist?

What happens if someone commits suicide? Why is this a bad thing? From my perspective, life offers too much beautiful things not yet discovered. But from an enlightened perspective?

If someone had no mental illness and was happy the obvious question arises if it was suicide. Even if the case was closed you can not know it 100%. However, the case of someone falling down a bridge is hard to close even with witnesses. Because, if they would be too close they would help and would not go to police if it wasn't successful or if they didn't tried it because of fear being arrested. If they would be more far away they probably haven't seen important details like what he said e.g.. I ever saw cameras installed on bridges. He could also be forced to do this etc.

In general there is too less information. You probably don't even know if it was suicide at all. And if a person has really jumped from a bridge, there is currently probably no evidence that it was a forum member. At least I don't see one.

If the true nature would be everything, why don't I feel good on any thought then? So the true nature is just a part of oneself? I often times feel good with thoughts other people would call unrealistic. So it is just about the feeling? But then there is no reason at all to live if you have no control, cannot really create what you want..

@Nahm Thanks, this is a valuable advice! For example, I think that I am capable of achieving great things. Now could that be seen as me seeing myself that way? So this is not humble and would be better to let it go? But then I would feel that it is not "good" to believe in oneself and therefore I would think that I cannot manifest my desires so well. What do you understand by "believe in yourself"?

Can you give me an example of people believing seeing themselves?

@Nahm What is with people who act humble, are thankful etc. just so they can see themselves as mature or developed and thus superior ? Could this also be a form of narcism?