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You need your heart to heal, and so a women's retreat or connection with women with compassionate feminine energy is what is needed most. What you are saying is making deep sense to me. What you need is to enter into a healing space or healing womb. Nurturing and healing. This will prevent you from falling into further distractions, traps or further harm. @JessiChell

@JessiChell Dear Jess, I relate SO MUCH to what you are saying. I left an extremely emotionally abusive relationship about 5 months or so ago. It was exceptionally painful. No contact with the abuser was essential so I could heal. The pain will diminish more and more as time goes on. I have been wanting to go on a solo retreat. Healing is essential. Please feel free to reach out to me, as I have been walking down this exact path and understand from experience just how hard it is. I can share with you my experiences. Love, Jannifer

That's so true and encouraging!

Yeah! I love Bentinho Massaro in addition to Leo and Bentinho especially has taken a lot of fire (most all of which was unfounded) and haters. Bentinho also has an enlightened presence that can flow out when he is in a certain state. But some things that may be ego or hang-ups just have to be ignored. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water or the treasures would be missed. I would also say Dr. David R. Hawkins (he died in 2012). He was also born gifted and had experiences and abilities since he was a young boy.

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar. He is the founder of the Art of LIving Foundation (I'm a volunteer in that foundation). He is a real treasure and I would say is definitely enlightened. He has teachings for the masses but there are far deeper enlightenment teachings he has if one desires to get into them. He has a lot of followers that seem to worship or idolize him, but that is not his doing. He keeps telling his followers, leaders & volunteers that we are him, but most don't seem to hear it. He has supernatural abilities and presence so I think that's why people idolize him. By the age of four, he was able to recite parts of the Bhagavad Gita so he seemed to be born into an enlightened state. He is a treasure. Humble, loving and easily overlooked. If there's any ego, it would be very minimal.

Right. I think diet is a huge factor for sure. Wheat, sugar for sure, and probably other things are bogging me down. I'm petite and not overweight at all, but need to approach diet from trying to address this energy problem. Trying to solve this diet component and figure out which supplements to throw into the mix. Thank you for your insights.

@Leo Gura Is it too soon to disclose what are the more shocking things to stomach? Trying to prepare for more difficult hurdles.

@Hansu Good info. Do you know effective natural ways to increase energy? It's like coffee makes me MORE tired now as I get older.

I'm struggling with getting off coffee and know I need to. Is there a natural stimulant replacement? What about caffeine tablets?

Really a lot of solid information here that I had posted. We're all in this together. If one has been harmed, why not open the heart with compassion and help rather than leaving them in the ditch to struggle. Lower consciousness activities can make one spiral down into harm and suffering. Some are more susceptible for whatever reason, but for those, why not offer understanding and compassion rather than leaving a brother in the trap. So in an attempt to offer compassion @freeman194673 - I was reading this - https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/ Fascinating comparison of spiral dynamics and Dr. David R. Hawkins Map of Consciousness. Part II Beck Hawkins Summary.pdf

@savior What are timeloops??

Is he bias against 5-MeO-DMT? Apologies, I am not drawn to listen to him so my interest drops off at 5 seconds with him in particular. Other spiritual teachers I've listened to are against psychedelics and I'm trying to figure out exactly why that is.

@Zec Have you ever tried Ho'oponopono prayer or meditation? It's very powerful, just needs to be done daily if possible, but very simple. f

Back in 1986 or so the U.S. Dept of Justice had a commission on pornography and released a report. This research or report was quite extensive and I read the entire thing since I was a DOJ employee and worked for a federal prosecutor at that time. I was quite shocked at how pornography was tied to the background of so much violent crime. After reading the entire Dept of Justice official report, I never again viewed pornography as something unharmful. The New York Times released an article with the headline: JUSTICE DEPT. PORNOGRAPHY STUDY FINDS MATERIAL IS TIED TO VIOLENCE. A tiny blub about it is here - https://www.nytimes.com/1986/05/14/us/justice-dept-pornography-study-finds-material-is-tied-to-violence.html The actual Dept. of Justice report was hundreds of pages and quite extensive and included statistics and details on federal cases. The DOJ commission on pornography was dismantled in 2011, but the DOJ's legal attention remains on child pornography. But other than that, of course it will never be made illegal. Anti-pornography interests want to push the DOJ to enforce existing federal obscenity laws - https://endsexualexploitation.org/doj/. But the DOJ is far more interested in frying much bigger fish or political interests. No crackdown of any sort will ever happen other than child pornography. Other research is compiled here for those interested - https://pornharmsresearch.com/ ------------------------------------------------------------ If one has a desire to raise their consciousnesses and move towards enlightenment aggressively, pornography will not assist that process. Neither does crappy food, but fast food and junk food is easy and convenient to consume so most of us fall into the bad food trap. But pornography calibrates quite low (100) on the consciousness scale so that is quite a bit of gravity downward into lower consciousness and the addictive quality can make it much harder to go back up the calibration scale towards enlightenment if consumed too much. David R. Hawkins has done quite a bit of research in the area of consciousness calibrations which is quite fascinating. David-Hawkins-LoC-TvF.pdf

Arrived at just the right time.

YES! This is exactly what I realized.

@electroBeam the energy of sarcasm and insulting means you are a passionate feminist? Confusing. Watch out for assumptions. You assume I'm a passionate feminist without actually knowing anything about what I think. Words are one thing, but energy is more truthful. Here's an example of a respectful and evolved masculine energy - Jon Butcher.

Really, is the insulting really necessary? Lots of anger there. Where's the triggering coming from? You don't know anything about what I actually think or would want.

just joking around. Playing and dreaming. That's all some of us got. Messing around until we awaken from this dream.

Consider thinking outside the box. There is so much more outside closely held stereotypes. Talking down to a woman or about feminine needs is within kindergarten level mistakes. Real masculine energy does not have that superiority complex. Very rare, but I found one real example of authentic and evolved masculine - Jon Butcher.

If only it wouldn't end! @Preety_India I want yours to last! I thought I'd found my twin flame! Alas, it was a dream. Wow, I always wanted to have that with a female. Searched and searched for it. After endless dead ends, just gave up. Love hearing that you've experienced this!

It's bizarre isn't it?! I used to lament on the "Dead bedroom" on Reddit and so many high libido women like myself cried of the same thing - the men wanted porn and not the flesh and blood FIT and sexy woman. That's because porn rewires a male's brain to be adverse to a woman in the flesh. It completely short circuits deep and real intimacy. Oh yes it's an epidemic. There is no way a woman can do "enough" once a man's brain is rewired to no longer be with a flesh and blood woman.

Oh this is all so true. Every word of it. I tried to get the "man" I loved so dearly to meet me halfway or do at least something on his part to bring to the table for deep intimacy. He refused. Gave him the best book to show him the way and he threw it in the garbage instead. No interest. He only wanted his porn addiction, not a flesh and blood sex/love goddess.

No, no I don't think these men are here on this planet. I want to end this nightmare dream and go to the planet where these men will appear. I'm pretty sure Leo is a Wanderer (as mentioned in The Law of One Material) and from another planet. @Leo Gura is here from another planet to teach us what is possible. And getting a woman to orgasm in a text message is possible, I know this.

Therein lies the problem. Most men do not want to build the deep intimate connection.