WonderSeeker

America is a 3rd world country when it comes to dating. Move to Asia or South America. Boom! Good times (and an STD or two) ahead!

Not even trying. Just am. Work. Friends of friends. Being a regular at different places. By accident. The contrast really is stark. I've been to Mongolia and Korea. The level of ailienness in those places was high, but China is straight up out of this world. I use a plant analogy. China grew out of a totally different part of the world, yes with some connection to other places, but not much integration. They self-integrated. Then Europe rose, followed by America; those places are their own plants, albeit in the same garden. The sprouted with different fruits to bear. ----- I don't know where you are in your life, but I'd turn Tibet into a whole spiritual pilgrimage. Place is mystical by it's very nature.

After finishing the women usually get all curious and playful about our bodies and ask all sorts of questions about life. At least in my experience. I just throw a blanket on her and she curls up and we just chat and connect. I think it's just a natural afterglow/aftereffect. Am I the only one? Bro, I had that happen once too and I saw fucking planets and galaxies while it was happening. Some celestial shit. Let's us know what happens when you start exploring tantra.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_baby_girl Just looked it up. No ABGs! We speak 95% English and little Mandarin (she's helping me learn some new words, like 性感 and 牛逼，heheh). It's really worthwhile. Americans and Canadians can still visit China visa-free until the end of this year. (Hopefully they extend this option into future years).

Social momentum is a real thing. I don't have a natural talent for conversation. I just allow myself to start at a 1 or 2 and work my way up to a 6 or 7 after a couple hours, and finally a 9 or 10 after several hours.

Alabaster Girl is in my top 3 books of all time. Not just game books, top 3 books period. Must read for ALL men. What was it like for your buddy that worked for him? Sounds like a phenomenal opportunity.

Cool! The forum really is a great opportunity for networking. Even better when you meet them in person.

We only started hooking up a week ago. Each time has been better and better. Deeper connection. Smoother chemistry. We're feeding off each other nicely. The post-sex bonding has also been quite nice. It's actually a nice cherry on top. Do you find that as well?

Not a topic, but... It's just that after reading 100 books on all the intellectual stuff Leo talks about it's all falling by the wayside and I'm finding life have to be lived now. Reading books is hard because I'd rather live and learn then read and apply. After a while you know too much and you need to burn the books and go outside.

Why aren't there squatty potties in the USA? All my life I've been taking my shoes off and squatting on raised, round toilet bowls because I can't take a shit while sitting. Then I move to China and it's all squat pots and it's like all my problems were solved.

Took a nice shit this morning.

For me it wasn't my college major in particular that was important. Just having a bachelor's degree in general opens the door to all kinds of work worldwide. It's why I was able to move to South Korea and then China with relative ease. Also, college teaches you a lot of things that have nothing to do with the classes themselves that are worth the value in my opinion. Even though the debt has been a problem for me, I wouldn't have achieved the level I am at now because I basically lived/mastered my academic mind to the point where I only exercise it when needed instead of overusing it all of the time. Those are my thoughts.

Good for you. I've been wanting to it for some time. I only keep Instagram because it's the only way I can stay in touch with a big chunk of my network. 1 year ago I deleted LinkedIn, Facebook, and Twitter (thank God)

Woo hoo! 🥳 I havent watched porn since the first week of July 2026. I've been wanting to stop for several months now because I ultimately want to make everything in my life as natural as possible and take less 'fast-food' versions of everything. Fast food version of sex = porn, for example But breaking the inertia of watching porn 2-4x a week wasn't easy. The reason I was able to do it is I chose a meaningful mission that included porn sobriety: my recent move to China. I told myself: "once you move there, you will enter dating abundance." Which would make watching porn essentially like eating cheesy fried chicken right after drinking a green smoothie. The two don't compute. Well? Since arriving here I already found a lover and we've been having all kinds of fun. I haven't even gone clubbing or tried Tantan yet (which will open Pandora's box if I so desire. But now I'm finding that I am rediscovering my own authentic sexuality and how sex works from scratch after breaking the psychic hypnosis porn puts you in. It's a beautiful thing, though it has its challenges. Just like how a Coca-Cola gives you an instant sugar high, porn can yet you to cum within seconds. Now when I please myself or get with my hunny, I find getting hard and staying there takes more foreplay and effort. But more effort isn't a problem; you gain authentic connection to yourself this way. Where are y'all at with digital sex entertainment? I'm done for life.

Sometimes. But in your case, I'd say be less analytical. Like when you started analyzing why that one club wasn't good. Analyzing why never brings you up, it only continues the toilet drain vibes. I'd have bounced from that club straight away and opened a new set without thinking.