WonderSeeker

I used to play attraction like a video game. I still remember doing 130 sets in 5 days in Miami. That was with RSD... haha, good times. But after approaching over 400 sets in a season with only a handful of dates, I switched gears entirely. Dating really is the most twisted of all self-help fields. Because, you can be brave, do all of this approaching, and still end up with nothing. Not saying that's you, you've gotten results. I know a guy in France who has done 1000s of approaches and still hasn't gotten laid.

I asked an expat colleague who's been here a while. She said that's not a China thing.

They're shy, yes. But they're curious too. Funny you ask. I have had health problems around low energy, but that started over a year before I left America. Going to a traditional Chinese medicine hospital tomorrow to get checked and see what herbal cocktail they suggest. The visit will be a walk-in and only ¥60 (less than $10) which is fucking mind-blowing. Depending on what they prescribe (acupuncture, 1 month of herbs, etc) it will ¥300-400 ($45-60). Sometimes the pollution is bad, but so far not awful. In South Korea it was the worst in January-March. In China winters are supposed to have bad pollution, but the rest of the year is relatively good. But then the summers are sweltering. So yeah, spring/fall are the Goldilocks times to be here.

Gets you in the mindset of ease and delight. I grew up in a serious household so it helped soften me. Also it's written in a poetic way which is kinda how you want to be with women. Lead them with a cheeky smile. Tease, laugh, play. It teaches a lot of core lessons about men, women, and game that other sources barely touch on or miss. Just get it and you'll see what I mean.

Not even trying. Just am. Work. Friends of friends. Being a regular at different places. By accident. The contrast really is stark. I've been to Mongolia and Korea. The level of ailienness in those places was high, but China is straight up out of this world. I use a plant analogy. China grew out of a totally different part of the world, yes with some connection to other places, but not much integration. They self-integrated. Then Europe rose, followed by America; those places are their own plants, albeit in the same garden. The sprouted with different fruits to bear. ----- I don't know where you are in your life, but I'd turn Tibet into a whole spiritual pilgrimage. Place is mystical by it's very nature.

After finishing the women usually get all curious and playful about our bodies and ask all sorts of questions about life. At least in my experience. I just throw a blanket on her and she curls up and we just chat and connect. I think it's just a natural afterglow/aftereffect. Am I the only one? Bro, I had that happen once too and I saw fucking planets and galaxies while it was happening. Some celestial shit. Let's us know what happens when you start exploring tantra.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_baby_girl Just looked it up. No ABGs! We speak 95% English and little Mandarin (she's helping me learn some new words, like 性感 and 牛逼，heheh). It's really worthwhile. Americans and Canadians can still visit China visa-free until the end of this year. (Hopefully they extend this option into future years).

Social momentum is a real thing. I don't have a natural talent for conversation. I just allow myself to start at a 1 or 2 and work my way up to a 6 or 7 after a couple hours, and finally a 9 or 10 after several hours.

Alabaster Girl is in my top 3 books of all time. Not just game books, top 3 books period. Must read for ALL men. What was it like for your buddy that worked for him? Sounds like a phenomenal opportunity.

Cool! The forum really is a great opportunity for networking. Even better when you meet them in person.

We only started hooking up a week ago. Each time has been better and better. Deeper connection. Smoother chemistry. We're feeding off each other nicely. The post-sex bonding has also been quite nice. It's actually a nice cherry on top. Do you find that as well?

Not a topic, but... It's just that after reading 100 books on all the intellectual stuff Leo talks about it's all falling by the wayside and I'm finding life have to be lived now. Reading books is hard because I'd rather live and learn then read and apply. After a while you know too much and you need to burn the books and go outside.

Why aren't there squatty potties in the USA? All my life I've been taking my shoes off and squatting on raised, round toilet bowls because I can't take a shit while sitting. Then I move to China and it's all squat pots and it's like all my problems were solved.

Took a nice shit this morning.

For me it wasn't my college major in particular that was important. Just having a bachelor's degree in general opens the door to all kinds of work worldwide. It's why I was able to move to South Korea and then China with relative ease. Also, college teaches you a lot of things that have nothing to do with the classes themselves that are worth the value in my opinion. Even though the debt has been a problem for me, I wouldn't have achieved the level I am at now because I basically lived/mastered my academic mind to the point where I only exercise it when needed instead of overusing it all of the time. Those are my thoughts.