ls28harry

A high dose of psychedelics will help you gain a third person perspective on things. It looks like you need to contact your true self to see what is important in life. If you can't do this then listen to Terence McKenna and mediate.

My ego is strong, my friend, 'its what makes me put food into my mouth and not the persons sitting next to me'- Terence McKenna.

I think you can use the same structure as you use in pick up. I've heard it said ''go out and flirt with everybody, man, woman, old, young, whoever'' I have done this myself, playful teasing, push-pull, flip the script, being unpredictable. Say hello ask a question and hold your value like a rock star.

Of course it's my opinion. He asked what he should do, so I replied with my opinion. Maybe your opinions are more enlightened than mine.

Porn is natural and healthy, not an issue unless it is having a negative effect on your life. Follow your desires shame-free.

I see this as a gift. Some people cannot feel, have no emotions, don't show love, are socially unaware and out of touch with reality. Embrace this enhanced awareness like having a sixth sense. You can choose to see it as good or bad, best not to label it but accept it as you. If a comment hurts your feelings its not because you are too sensitive but because it has touched a trigger somewhere in your past that you have not dealt with. These present anxious feelings are a sign that inner peace is not present and you have some work to do on this area. Developing a thicker skin won't help, it will just mask the pain, like drinking lots of alcohol, it's a temporary pain relief.

Journal about your thoughts on a daily basis. Look for patterns and how the cycles operate. Ask yourself why you need to receive love and acceptance from others and what would be so bad about not getting it, meditate on this question and search for the root as I believe this is the problem and by running away from it you will make it worse by giving it more power, just like some unpaid debt, it can't be ignored.

Not that much change for me. I'm still working and I haven't had a social life or contact with people outside work for a few years now. My traumatic childhood has prepared me for events like this and I thrive in isolation, so its a breeze, really.

I don't believe it is a good idea as it will have to be earnt by the conformity of certain rules. It could turn into a dictatorship or take away free speech, which has been happening one drip at a time over the last few decades.