LoveLux

Thank you so much. I do believe that communication is very important and suppressing my feelings is unhealthy. The problem is that I am afraid to bring it up. I am afraid that he will not know how to deal with a conversation about my insecurities. Most of all, I am afraid that when he sees this insecure side of me, he stops finding me attractive or challenging. But I can't keep pulling up a show... It eventually shows. I am trying to work on myself to stop feeling this insecure. But it's not something that simply disappears just like that. I am really tangled up, Maybe I need to distantiate myself from him until I am fully grown. Still a part of me wants to believe that we can grow together.

Dear people from the forum, I am completely in love with my boyfriend. There is a problem though: he loves to flirt with other women. I know I am a great catch and I know he does not go any further with the flirting but it really affects me, makes me feel insecure and insufficient. I don't want to have a serious conversation with him or forbid him to flirt; I know I will only make matters worse. It will make me look insecure and as if I want to restrict his freedom in any way. I like this guy and I don't want to impose my insecurity on him. But how can I learn how to deal with these kinds of situations, and especially handle these emotions, in a cool way? Thank you!