Origins

@UNZARI If I wasn't operating completely from a place of love I would have kicked the living shit out of my father already! And if he were anyone else or if he were younger I would have done it already OUT OF LOVE! You're not alone, make yourself your best possible friend though. Love tells me where to direct my wars and where not to direct my wars, I follow love completely and effortlessly and just learn from my actions via the feedback loop with consciousness. That's how I would be approaching this situation, allowing my intuition to give me the answers that I need to. So focusing on the frequency and allowing the frequency to determine my actions rather than just being stuck in my head wondering what to do. That's how it ALWAYS should have been from birth but parents have the ability to strip that gift away from their children. Best .

I start with the following affirmation for my wars in life: 1. Heart 2. Mind 3. Gut This can be stretched further by the above being connected in the following ways: 1. Heart - Love 2. Mind - Intellect 3. Gut - Action So everything I do I want to be predicated by Love which is only possible if my Heart is online, the same too for my intelligence (Mind) and my actions (Gut) what precedes them also needs to be online they're to be in full force for the task at hand to the best of my ability at the time. Also, the Heart springs fourth to the Mind and the Mind to the Gut as it concerns the order in which full authorship and implementation of action is going to take place. If you want you can take those bridge connections as far as you want: 1. Heart - Love - Connection - " " 2. Mind - Intellect - Strategy - " " 3. Gut - Action - Implementation - " " This is what I'd follow to describe what can be referred to as the unifying of consciousness (some might say Unity Consciousness altogether). It's important as well not to see Love as just a feminine quality, its not, Love for me at least directly leads to the Courage I need to express myself fully in a moment which may, depending on the situation, lead to the full manifestation of rebellion. Love guides the way for the expression of love is what you've chosen, which does not mean self-sacrificing, it simply means the embodiment of your being and the universe it simultaneously encapsulates and is encapsulated by and the expression of that, and of course, there are various wavelengths and energy we can be on there, that is up to ones developed intuition and growth at the time, a being simply has to and has no other choice than to simply "start where they're at". It will be useful to have something to point to in your actions, for this I strive for unity as described in the following which automatically puts my consciousness to work to come up with subsidiary goals to achieve that aim, you'll have to come up with your own to affirm your own directionality, so your Heart knows exactly where to point itself from the perspective of the Mind leading to the Gut: There are areas in your life where you must strive for rebellion, using the force of love will help you understand love in this way and change your relationship with it if that's at all a problem there. To me that's exactly what my intuition is saying here, there's an energetic blockage occurring and you've gotta either release or add more aspects of your heart, secondly, that there isn't a lot of connection with rebellion in the context of Love. It's each to their own recipe though, we all have to find what works for us as individuals. To really make something manifest in this life, which can happen RIGHT NOW IN THIS MOMENT, you have to have all three of those centres working to a degree to MANIFEST WHAT YOU WANT right now at the WILL of your being (relative to our capabilities). One very important reason why your Heart is there is so that you can tap into energies that your Mind can't reach but still push your Mind and Gut in various ways, so don't overthink it, that usually is not the beginning step, its the step that's usually just involved when you have to make sense of things or you want to explore various possibilities of your imagination, of which is a process which is better facilitated when its predicated by the Heart Centres.

For lack of a better way of presently describing it, how alive is consciousness for this being? That's how I determine free will as it points to many indicators that influence someones degree of free will in a given situation and moment.

If my sister were coming to me with that issue for example and she said it was an ongoing issue, I'd go to the workplace, she'd point out the guy or guys and I'd take them out straight away and do my best to scare the living daylights out of them then leave. Without any footage, etc there isn't much they could do. If it's seriously uncomfortable, this is NOT ON. You must do something about it. And you know what @Preety_IndiaI just thought of a book and interview that might interest you and other women as it concerns coming up with strategies to feel more empowered inside and outside the workplace. Best to you Here's her book for ideas and an exploration of her journey: Becoming Bulletproof by Evy Poumpouras

@Preety_India Honestly all things being equal I'd punch them in the face straight away if it was really seriously that disruptive, given its a work context its difficult navigating anything outside speaking to someone analogous to who would be your human resources manager. Anyone that compromises the well being of anyone in my family faces immediate to long term repercussions, but if my member was like "NO!" and my retorts didn't work and they still wanted my advice it would be that combined with just ensuring that they address and find solace in their inner life, discover their enlightenment beyond the opinions of others and intelligently navigate the workplace territory. If it was towards me from someone else, I wouldn't be affected really, like I understand the relationship between internal and external stimuli so well that there really isn't anything that pulls me down, I know that others don't have this privilege though and to me that's when you need to find comfort in the friends and family around you seek their advice and feedback and learn to balance yourself in your inner spirit. Other than "not being affected' I'd operate strategically relative to how this affects my positioning in the workplace and my ability to perform my responsibilities. This is why I make sure I'm in charge of most situations though because I'm not the best at being below or taking someone else's lead unless I trust that person a lot or I get to perform my work by myself.

@Lyubov Honestly, search and destroy mercilessly. If protection is something you at all care about, then that's the natural response to a thought experiment like this. Other than this is would be to download all of their biological data and screen the rest of the population for these traits and take on a pre-emptive strike in the context of change and revolution of their genome. That's only if the latter was a pure process though. Many people that are not brave enough to truly protected people that should be protect are brave enough to have the opinion that we shouldn't take pre-emptive strikes like the one I've described simply because they don't possess enough self understanding. They are you, yes absolutely, but not biologically and biologically they're causing a disruption that is infringing upon your boundaries. It's an obvious response to people that would be just as merciless, because you're talking about the worst people, right? So yeah, stomp on em and throw them in the trash lovingly, that'll solve the love problem simultaneously as well.

And I see it more as the following anyhow rather than (1) being (2) doing (3) having: 1. Being ---> 2. Doing --> 3. Having ---> 4. Relationships (unity) Having? What is there to have? Nothing but yourself everything else is an illusion. With any relationship that you have with existence, its a relationship first and foremost, there's no having, there's relating to, so in that respect I now see that as a striving for unity. I see doing and having with respect to my body and mind, making them both as strong as they need to be in order for me to have as much fun as possible. This isn't the absence of sentimentality though nor the inclusion of needless nostalgia, to me the former aids in the navigation of honouring and respecting both past, present and future experiences as ones intuition feels its needed, it gives rise to a richer more poetic experience as well. Outside of this though life is a true crime, fair game. Which has both a rebellious component and a relational component, but the former is supportive of unification as is the latter, if unification is the end, then we must tear down boundaries while also respecting those important for unity, emotionally, mentally, physically, existentially, abstractly, creatively and more. Or maybe even then number 5 can be ---> Unity/Unification.

So for me its in the following order then there's nothing to worry about: 1. Being 2. Doing 3. Having If I've got being handled in the way that I do, my actions are going to flow well and my having isn't going to be too tainted. But I wouldn't sacrifice creativity for what I believe I know about being either, meaning I'll always be exploring deeper and expanding my scope of the possibilities of life rather than only surrendering myself to the ledge at the edge of the cliff, no I love diving off it and seeing where I splat just for the fun of it then touching base with being again. This is your ride.

@Insightful27 For me I have to centre myself in being, once I realised that there was nothing that was outside of being that could be greater it was a big shift for me, it doesn't mean that you can't have ecstatic experiences combined with being through our interactions with life but it doesn't compromise the centeredness of being. I mean, there's going to be turbulence, there's going to be shifts and what not, but its a restoration point, its a location point in time and space that you can point to and be like "Oh! That's where I am, okay I'll just go back to that", and then you flow from there again. This is the heart space as well, for me its like an impenetrable knowing where you can take yourself in any direction you wish to will yourself, this is because this space is so pure, untainted, loving, simple, knowing, unshakeable. Best.

No problem @Natasha , hoping everything is well!

@Red-White-Light This is analogous to someone making excuses for not doing exercise, haha I totally get what you mean but for me, its like, if our hearts in it, then our mind will come up with reasons to make something special of it and if our heart isn't or our heart still needs healing, well, up go the relationship kilos. Best.

@Mada_ I agree with @Nahm , now is the time to really start brainstorming in as many divergent ways as possible, let your intuition be your guiding light. Feelings to nurse around this time include but are not limited to: Freedom, love, joy, inspiration, possibility. Thoughts: Anything is possible, who decides what are the boundaries, how can I bring about my highest calling. Best.

To add - On holding that space: What's really important is to get in tune with who they are as a person and what they've been through in their life, without which, your radio signal isn't going to be tuned properly to correlating their state with the emotional safety that may be needed. It starts with love and ends with openness and receptivity. Depending on what they've gone through they're going to have different coping styles to various emotional situations, its up to you as a person to be able to workout what those kinds of styles and where you can fit in with respect to providing the love that they need. For example if you're dealing with someone close to an avoidant attachment style or a fear-avoidant attachment style, your approach might be very different compared to if they had closer to a secure or anxious attachment style. The less understanding we have the more open to various possibilities we have to be before we unintentionally draw conclusions that harm that emotional safety that's needed. And your approach to providing that emotional safety will vary according to the situation and become more and more nuanced the more understanding we build about the other person. This is why its so important to be with people that really want to understand you, this is why love is only one aspect or the emotional aspect of love is only one aspect of love, the greater understanding we can bring to the table the greater ease we have in comprehending how to relate to one another's unconscious boundaries, and sometimes the partners may reach a point where they know more about the unconscious boundaries of their lover than there lover's do, at least, that's the ideal (even in a situation where you as the loved one is doing your best to understand yourself).

@Natasha what @Loving Radiance said plus simply being the foundation for love, I don't believe in relationships without love being at the foundation. If love is at the foundation I don't know how much can go wrong, people are fallible though, different histories, but although I wouldn't say love is necessarily the right approach for everything in a relationship its 100% otherwise you shouldn't be in it. The statistics say it obviously takes two special people to have a sustaining relationship built on that foundation given high separation rates, because even relationships that sustain for long durations are not necessarily very loving but for whatever reason the dynamic works out. I know I'm built for a long term sustainable loving relationship, and I think many of us are, it just takes a certain level of development combined with making sure you find the right person with that development and intentionality.

The Principle of Mental Power The body only takes action according to the imagination of the mind, this is vital in order to comprehend the underlying structures that govern perception, knowledge and any beliefs that follow therein. The content of the world streams fourth into consciousness and from this point your mind attempts to manage those contents through its attentional, creative and other intellectual forces, through this said perception becomes something of perceptivity and such perceptivity of knowledge and potential beliefs. This process of conversion (from consciousness contents to knowledge say) has various levels and these levels corresponding with your perceived sense of consciousness. When you are laying down and contentless, the body is not moved at all until the mind comes up with an idea to move the body. But the mind must be possessed with an idea enough to want to move at all, and said possession often has to do with mental power. As mental power decreases, so too does the capacity to hold an idea in the mind enough to motivate the body to spring fourth to take action on said idea. This is a nuanced mechanism that plays out between mind and action that the knowledge of can provide you with a unique advantage, as not only does it reveal the relationship between mind and consciousness and thus through that, freedom in understanding the relationship between mental activity and bodily attachments (vice versa), it also directs you towards the necessity of prioritising activities that enhance your will while letting go of things that reduce your will here, this is inclusive of but not limited to activities that directly grow and shape your brain. This last point is a matter for your own creative expertise. There is also the subject of mental resolution here which is important in understanding scope of mind and the flexibility of movement that the body can thus follow therein. As such directly to that point, mind equals world and your world is directly correlated with the actions you will take, so much so that you cannot take any actions that your imagination hasn't defined as your world. Thus to expand your world you must expand your mind, to expand your mind you must take resource in understanding and developing your mental power through your aforementioned expertise. Think of mental resolution here as a scale from small to large, compare the ability of say an ant to a cat to a Labrador to a dolphin to an ape to a mentally handicapped human all the way up to someone of superior intelligence. Is it not strange then that resolution is correlated with mental power and power when coupled with the right kind of resolution physical action? Thus merely focusing on the resolution of your picture will be important for not only moving the body but also developing the power of the mind. Blind folded chess is one example here, imagine if chess were seriously played via telekinesis and this ability was correlated with the ability to imagine chess pieces moving, now imagine that you were only able to move if you first imagined the move you wanted to make in chess and any other place, now you understand the relationship between mental resolution and mental power, mental power and physical action. The goal: Grow your mind, own the world. The end: Meeting your minds potential in the realm of power is meeting the end potential of your ability to govern your own personal world. Clouds form in the sleepy mind Wakefulness and the sun of mind appears Slowly parting the thunder of the nights dreams into the dreams of thunder that will envelop the mind and being for the day Knock on the castle door of what you want to will unexpectedly Surround all the walls in advance Stampede, show no mercy And… Win your war of mind

The Principle of Heart Cast the first stone, can you handle the blow back? Feel the dark echo of a voice you don’t recognise after you scream for help in a cave that you didn’t plan to be in. The sinking depths of the ocean slowly sinking your body to the bottom as the water envelops your lungs. The desperation felt in the desert sun as you dream of nirvanas after wandering the sands for 20 days seeking civilisation from the dunes. The capacity to move into the unknown and then to handle what the darkness of this invisible ethereality could throw back, can you feel it? Can you own it? Can you live in it calmly? Can you look at death in the eye and say, yes, take me but to life, I will own you. I will conquer you. How well can you handle the dark night and what unknown crawlers in a foreign reality can take you away from into their grasp without anything to fight back with. The whispers, the swooping of unknown flying predators. Feel the cuts and swipes at your leg coming from unknown directions, how much longer will you last? This desperate feeling of pressure all consuming as you’re responsible for directing the lives of men who have become good friends, you’ve learned of their families and the lives they’ve left behind and now you’re responsible for directing the conditions that may lead to their death without losing your grip on the value of human life. How can you bear this suffering without losing your heart? How can you maintain your heart enough to be the thing that enables you to move through the suffering? Not for anything other than to do so, to be so, to act for the mere surrendering to action. Predicated on no assumptions about life, no need for sacredness, no beliefs about life other than the truth of the consciousness that you inhabit and the heart that lives on without doubt nor no loss in conviction.

It's not at all complicated. A woman's attraction to dominance is the protection she wants to feel. There's many different autobiographical and simple biological reasons for that and it varies by degrees and intensities from person to person, couple to couple, the same too for what a man wants to feel from a woman which is just as important. Social intelligence here is vital. But don't overcomplicate it, discover these simple truths then find your truth via direct experience. Strive for intense experience, because your intense will be your ideal dynamic and that'll inform you about what kind of partner is best for you.

The principle of having a Focused Target - Employing the long (haha) CPAOCCT-PI-T acronym I just today came up with. A target is what directs the work as well as imbuing the mind with purpose, to live beyond fatigue by pushing further into reserves and growing the brain and body as a direct consequence, a focused target on the other hand accomplishes this as well as minimising risk and maximising the reward. Prefacing this with the fact that strategy is not going to be a point at all in this journal simply because it’s just so obvious, if you don’t know that “winning”, “strategy”, “planning” and other vital things are important for war, war probably isn’t for you. Try bingo instead. C - Clear P - Precise A - Accurate O - Objectives C - Compatibility C - Context T - Time and Timing (they’re different to one another) PI - Prudent Intuition T - Trust Here are some examples of their meanings - improve the definition and elaboration of these overtime: C - Clear: Always be asking how can the target be made clearer. Let’s say you want to take over the world, that’s great but less Pinky and the Brain and more Michael Jordan and NBA championships, what kind of championship do you want to win in life is a clearer target than simply “taking over the world”, though the latter may be a starting point still don’t underestimate what seem like an overstatement. Even as a thought experiment the sentiment can be useful, but what you need to do is imagine what “taking over the world” actually looks like, what changes take place in your actualisation of this objective? How does the world look with you leading it? What are you going to start taking over and does it even start this way? Can you even see your target? If not, you'll either literally or figuratively swing and miss. Can you visualise your target? If not try or if it’s not even visual associate visual symbology to that objective. The better you can either translate vagueness into vividness and or both into visual symbology, the more clear your target will become and thus the more real it will become to your conscious and subconscious mind. Visualise the beginning, middle and end of your target. You want to build a story in your mind about all the possible events, prioritising most to least important using the rest of the titles of this acronym to aid in building this overall context. Of course, this will add to the implied (meaning it doesn't need to be mentioned as noted because its so obvious) planning phase that you will implement. This is also where you can also have a mission statement, as stated (regarding the goal to reduce vagueness here), you could convert the simplicity of "taking over the world" into something that pacts a little more punch to state your intentions more clearly, "This war is dedicated to taking over the world to bring about an original sociocultural techno-political system called ENTOR (the hypothetical details of which are private to you) with the goal to create an entirely new human interplanetary civilisation". P - Precise: Always be asking how you could be making your target more precise, there's 9399-3234 but what area code? If you don't put in the area code you might be targeting the wrong state of the country. Clarity is different to precision, say you’re in primary school and your target is to get into some aimless schoolyard fight with one of the bullies in school, its clear to say you want to get into a fight, its even clearer you want to fight a certain person, it’s precise to say I want to fight a certain person around these people, its even more precise to say that you want to do so at recess not lunch and with x fighting technique not y. A - Accurate: So you've got the right area code but even the number is correct but you weren't even meant to be targeting a phone number, instead you were meant to be sending an email! Or let's say you're running a business, you had your clear objective of creating a fruit store, it was precise because you said you were going to start the business in x suburb at y cost/benefit ratio to you, however you should never have even started a fruit store in a desert! Cacti don't eat fruit stores! Secondly, starting a fruit store isn't even suited to your strengths! (this goes to compatibility as spoken about below) O - Objectives: Brainstorm as many objectives relating to the focused target as you possibly can Does the target fall in line with your other mission objectives in life? If not, create a new target, if yes, list down some of the objectives relating to this target. Even if it doesn’t conflict too much with other life objectives does following through with this target at that particular time conflict with other objectives surrounding the target? For example let’s say your on a military battlefield, if you take out an infantryman instead of searching for a sniper the sniper may just gun you down. C - Context: Psychological context — context is pretty straight forward but for example let’s take motivation - why are you doing what you’re doing, at this time, place, etc- this aspect is about knowing yourself as well as the target because its the target that’s informing your motivations at present, here you’re discovering what underpins those and potentially why as much as it is necessary. Environmental context - For example what’t the environment relative to the target? This is where you look at threats and opportunities. Geographical context Physical context Thematic context Operational context Life context Etc C - Compatibility: — this principle also accounts for and or encompasses such ideas like risk, volatility and their management, because the latter is associated with intelligence which is as already noted implicit and the former two are an estimation Ethics - is the target compatible with your ethics? If not, either refine, change the target or think more deeply about your ethics until they’ve adjusted to the point of including the target while not compromising the integrity of the ethics overall. Evolving ethics is fine if it does mean that said ethics of evolved as opposed to having gone through a devolution. Power - Does the target have a stronger position compared to you? If yes you’re going to have to come up with another way of either defeating the target, working on your strength or finding a completely different target. For example, they may be more powerful technologically but you financially, or vice versa, however what is the overall power differential when we add those two together from either side? Etc, etc - Any relevant category insert here, it changes from target to target T - Time and Timing (they’re different to one another): Time How long is the war going to take? How long are each of the main objectives within the war going to take? How is this target going to affect the future of my life? 2. Timing In what season of my life is this war occurring? When is truly overall the best time to go for this target relative to my own lifespan and relative to the target itself if this is at all relevant? Does the timing of this target conflict with the timing of other objectives and if so does it mean that the time needs to be postponed? What are all the various timings that should be taken into consideration of the war overall and the best time to strike? PI - Prudent Intuition So everything is working great, you’ve got all the other indicators going but either something feels a little off (still) and this feeling is outside the context of being merely perfectionistic or its still time to dive a little deeper with intuition to discover things you didn’t know of before or to allow for intuition to just have its last say. Here, anything is possible, this is where you get creative and ask questions about the target/mission, objectives and anything else here in ways you hadn’t before to generate novel insights about this overall context. T - Trust So you’ve done your homework. This is one is pure and simple, trust it as much as you could trust anything else to a great extent. Other than concluding with this step as its needed continue to run through all of the above steps as an improvement feedback loop. This will improve your confidence on your direction forward which will translate into higher trust you have with your process.

@Chimera This is really, really great. It sounds like you're tapping into your intuition more. Keep honing that. For me I've always found its a balance of intuition, developing my intellectual understanding of people, learning to emotionally resonate with the person and then just learning to let it all go and fall as it may while learning from that process. In relationships, which is inclusive of ourselves, it always starts with a boundary and ends in some unknown direction, most people just squander in the latter though without being decisive on the former. The latter can blur the former if it feels right but having a boundary by say just establishing what we want out of life, how the people around us can add to that and us add to their desires is truly fundamental to progressing forward. Progress forward into unknown territories is done from a place of trust and personal value judgements about where we want to direct things I've found. Best.

@VictorB02 This might just help you think about the potential evolution of your perspective on relationships. It's been a natural process for me but I don't arbitrarily really assign categories anymore as it concerns relationships. I see it as a consciousness simulation that's been created between the two people and the relations within that simulation are subject to ongoing change and progress. This is analogous to how I see myself as well and I think its really important to have if not categories symmetry between our inner and outer world and the relations between those, for example if you didn't really have a rigid identity it would make sense that your relationships with others wouldn't have that rigid identity either, what defines the parameters of that fluidity though is simply the patterns of fluidity you have with yourself; love for example, is a fluid identity that can be expressed both fluidly and in a committed way, committed is probably a combination of rigidity and fluidity with the rigidity really just being a case of the loyalty and the definitions of that govern that loyalty. Loyalty is the flip side of love then but both superimpose and support one another, with loyalty the love is simplicity and the loyalty explicit, with love the loyalty is implicit and the love explicit. In short, I've broken out of the mould of all traditions and have relationships based on the understandings I have of reality as opposed to the understandings of culture. This point might be a really important point for you to think about how you might wish to begin the same contemplation, regardless as to how different of a position you end up in. To note the background of this subject briefly when we often speak about relationships, we often do so under an implicit socio-cultural contract, meaning we project our own cultural standards on the subject and in doing so the frameworks that govern our thoughts on relationships, when in reality, we live in a global environment now where the contract is uncertain, and many people instead of upgrading their understanding of relationships when they want to have a global relationship with reality they're instead handling that dissonance by causing themselves more suffering by more rigidly imposing their culture on their global demographic. If you want your community relationships, of which is traditional, reliable and the safe way to proceed in life as opposed to expanding yourself up to global relationships which take a higher level of consciousness and everything that goes with that (i.e. including creative knowledge = knowledge you've created yourself, second hand knowledge = knowledge you've learned from others), you of course don't need to worry about any of this really however having an insight on other perspectives of course helps us in meddling with ourselves to come up with insights on our desired perspective on pursuing things. I now open myself up to potentially having loving relationships with hundreds of women all around the planet. ^ I've had to build up to this comment so that you could grapple with the context before I made what would seem an albeit unmistakably audacious statement, one that made sense in light of what I've mentioned. Love here doesn't mean always sex, sex is just one aspect of expressing love. I'm more interested in having a loving relationship with their consciousness, so that they can expand my consciousness and they can expand my consciousness. Love here doesn't mean always being around one another, we may only see each other or speak to one another a few times a year, but the love is real, its pure, its honest and for me its the only way to have a relationship. By isolating exactly what you want in a relationship, which for me is like being extremely rigid on the fluid structures you wish to create, and by expanding to the entire globe about how the world can fit into that narrative, you greatly improve the likelihood that you'll be able to create the stability you're looking for in those narratives. This is what I refer to as my global demographic, and some of the characteristics within that defined demographic are high consciousness, high intelligence and high empathy. What's important to comprehend here, is that the more expansive your consciousness becomes, you're naturally going to want to create a loving relationship with an increasingly greater number of beings in the universe. The only reason I would restrict myself to my local community is if my community had all of and only women that fit those descriptions, but because the opposite is true and because its the natural direction of my consciousness anyhow in terms of having the greatest impact I can have on the planet, it serves my interests to expand the horizon line of where a loving relationship can be born. As it concerns sexual exclusivity, which is what most people on the surface are talking about when it comes to a traditional relationship although in reality they also want emotional exclusivity as well, this would be something that is something that's talked about overtime and depending on life circumstances. It doesn't at all mean I'm opposed to sexual exclusivity, just that this is the foundation upon which I build sexual exclusivity. It's built on the foundation of love of all of life and fostering relationships with the most conscious beings on the planet solely based on love, the same exact love that I would devote to an exclusive relationship, so inclusive of what we traditionally refer to as "romantic feelings". It's basically the same as having a really close friendship + the romantic feelings because its a natural part of our sexual orientation, which for me is towards females. This has nothing to do with "being a player", being a player is incredibly low consciousness and whenever I see posts on this website about "text game" and "strategising" when it comes to relationships I honestly feel bad for them that they feel they need to go to those lengths rather than from a place of pure authenticity. This is a very brief physical existence in this form so it makes very little sense outside of having a lack of self understanding and self control to submit oneself to those kinds of outlets. The quicker they can come at reality from a place of love and understanding about themselves the quicker they'll be able to aid in turning what has now become a very unhealthy dating culture for many demographics. To the contrary this path is all about creating true, honest and pure relationships where you're both truly there for one another inside the consciousness space you've created within your own unique consciousness simulation. Regardless as to where you are on the planet, regardless as to what position you are in life, what matters is, are you coming at love from a place of love? Then you have the first building block for developing this kind of advance paradigm. Best.

@Chimera Your heart was not held when it was most needed, so you must learn to hold your own heart so that you can learn to hold a lovers heart when they most need it as well. If you can conquer this, you'll never have those kinds of narratives holding you back in love and relationships (including with yourself). You needed a hero in certain periods that wasn't there and that's so tough I get it, so now you have to be your own hero to be that hero for yourself and another that needs it so they don't have to go through what you went through. Start learning to mirror yourself, then become more nuanced by learning to mirror your own heart, then you will overtime build those necessary intuitions to mirror others better so that you have more at ease social adaptations. Best

And I don't even mean any of what I said that could be interpreted negatively in a bad way, I just say it how I see it. I'm a true firm believer in integrating all of reality, life isn't about sleeping with other people its just a function of our bodies and our experience and how we can share and express that experience. It's not a big deal. Every one person that you come into come into contact with, no mater how hateful, no matter how _____, if you're able to appreciate them for their existence in the grand scheme of collective existence and understand how they fit in the larger and smaller narrative of life, to the extent you're able to do so @KingEnergy you will live so much more of a fulfilling experience and be able to share that fulfilment and the energy of that with a special someone when you've both found one another. This doesn't mean don't judge, no judge away, but we need to learn to judge accurately, this doesn't mean with hateful intent either although it may be a vital strategy at the time, it just simply means learning to differentiate what, how and why something is and all the nuances involved there so you know not only how they fit into larger narratives but how they should or possibly could and if so how they could fit into your world if that at all has any relevance. The human experience has a spectrum of functional behaviour to dysfunctional behaviour, so if we're unable to accurately judge those who exhibit dysfunctional behaviour that is to our detriment, to the extent this is ongoing it will be to the contraction of our potential, right to sovereignty and what good we can serve the world; thus judgement has both survival and more existential purposes. Just thought I should clear up any easy misinterpretations of what I said. Best.

@KingEnergy I don't "strategise". If I really like a woman, there's no way I'd want to rush things, instead I want to feel every motion of the relationship, the anticipation, the tension, the fear of loss, her consciousness, her presence beyond. Outside of this: It's fuck and whatever I don't really give a damn whatever happens happens between us. Maybe we'll become friends, maybe she's a smart person to hit up every once in a while and talk to about something, maybe this, maybe she invents freaking new rainbows in her dreams I don't know. Doesn't matter. NOT when I really like someone though and even if it doesn't workout between us that's okay, to me that's a part of feeling the ebb and flow of what is real, true, honest and pure. If its really meant to be that we end up having sex soon then so be it though I honestly believe that spoils it, but its not at all on the cards because obviously when you really like someone its more than just their sexuality because you've got that with other people you don't like as much anyhow. No, when I get that feeling, I love to explore it, discover its truth, how it changes with every interaction, see where it flows, how it lives inside of either or both of us, see how it paints my world and potentially there's as well. You've gotta get outta group think and wonder about how YOU want to orient your life, take charge of how YOU see the world, screw everyone else other than learning from their experiences. Most people are totally and utterly moronic, and then there are those special few... And sometimes they're also so much more than their intelligence and beauty, and there's so much more between the two of you... You've got your biological "laws" and then outside of that its your direct experience at least I think we're meant to individually discover the truth of.

For me there's no better phenomenological experience of consciousness or memory inclusive therein than the shared experience with someone you love. You'll keep each other warm in one another's memories and hearts when you're away from one another and expand your sense of being and unity with existence when you're together. To conquer the world alone is to have no one to share the spoils of war with, to talk about your triumphs with, to lift them when they're down, for them to raise you when you need to be pushed further. True love is the reminder of spirit outside of your own and what it can do to dramatically expand your life and theirs and all of life's possibility.

@Cosmin_Visan I've just created this special potion in my home built science lab wanted to know if you would like to try it! It doesn't make you smarter per se, it doesn't improve any of your senses but its going to contribute to you believing that: (1) you're God (eventually, so just keep on taking my potion and everything I say about it!!!) (2) all of reality is simply a dream and that none of this is actually happening (3) all of reality is one (supposedly) (4) will make you completely selfless (supposedly) (5) oh and you'll also become more suggestible which means if you perceive me as an authority you're even more likely than before to believe what I believe if you haven't staged an intervention on your critical thinking and self ownership prowess after taking it. Sounds pretty cool, right? Nothing suss? Nothing to worry about? No negative implications of the above and Totally and Absolutely True as a byproduct, that's the natural automatic sensible inference, right? Obviously not. But when I put at the bottom of the bottle it also aids people with PTSD, CPTSD, depression and so on because it has some properties within it that facilitate certain forms of neuroplastic potential, all of a sudden it becomes that much more interesting, doesn't it? That much easier to see negatives as positives and positives as even more positive, right? Drink my potion, drink my potion, drink my potion! YES THE DISCUSSION IS SO THOROUGH! ELEPHANTS EVERYWHERE! LARGER ELEPHANT LARGER AND LARGER AND LARGER! GO! DRINK! MORE AND MORE AND MORE AND MORE! DRINK! GULP!