Dauntment
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Good luck with whatever journey youre setting but I always think the "numbers" game is absurd. I came across a reddit post. I even went to find it for you about a similar conquest. In my opinion, if you're needing to approach 1000 f**king women for (meaningful) "results", you are SERIOUSLY doing something wrong. I would say "Quality not quantity". But if/since you ARE going to playing some numbers game, I'd at least emphasize Diversity in your quest. Various ages, different cultures & regions, all ethnicities etc. so that way you have a much more RICH pool of experience rather than "knocking 200-300 approaches at your nearest mall/plaza" kinda thing
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I'd like to emphasize that you (reading this) could further appreciate the "path" that Leo has laid out with all of his episodes/content. (Probably for some of you as well) But I can blatantly, and EASILY see all the: mechanisms, self-delusions, blindspots, pitfalls & mental traps, etc. etc. and this level of TRUE understanding is comically/tragically lacking in our current society; in other words, its very easy to take "True Understanding" (Truth) for granted lol - One example: Around the 51:00 mark, Andrew is asked "What are your weaknesses" and to greatly paraphrase, he goes on & on about: "his accomplishments", "he has never failed at anything he set for" etc. but completely misses "the point" that is transcending the ego self into more selflessness causes (Aka: Integral Leadership, GUIDING the "weak" instead of mocking them, etc.") It's amazing how commonly "super successful" people miss these spiritual points. This is what happens when you get stuck in Stage Orange lol, you start redlining then wonder why the engine has smoke and is misfiring
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ROFL. But to OP/ @Sabth......youre already making the fool's #1 mistake about making money; You're essentially asking "us" to give you some "formula"/business-in-box/A-B-C-1-2-3 solution on how to do it. 1. Sell your time (leveraging some skillset) but even if you were a top-paid profession like software engineering or law/health.....this would take a couple years or so 2. Start a business - MUCH more difficult, but orders of magnitude more rewarding. Pick one, get started.
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Experience is itself (experience)......it would primarily only matter if you iterate based on your negative experiences. If you're getting rejected, "you're doing something wrong". May be: your appearance, your verbal game, youre not the girls type etc. (For some more Harsh Truth....) Also, just the fact that you are experiencing such emotions/feelings + created a thread asking strangers about it === You have serious room for growth. Good news - Your reality/experiences can be SIGNIFICANTLY better, Bad news - You have a sh*t ton of work/growth to do. Good luck cuz
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My 2 cents A bitter pill - "There could be a majority consensus that woman look "their best"......with their youth...late teens & early 20s"; However, this is not to exploited and exaggerated that women all of a sudden drop like a rock in beauty as they age (although definitely possible depending on your lifestyle & self-care routines) but I'd say the beauty transforms. So rather than your man getting "the hots" from you being "physically sexy", it may instead arise from your (at that point/in your later years) developed feminine energy or your ability to express your intimacy or sexuality (men will always love good blowj-.....lol) Reality is impermanent (check out Leo's video on the matter), but tl;dr - everything changes and nothing stays the same, so don't get too attached to any particular form. Whether he cheats or not is significantly more determined by his character & development than his "biological disposition" lmao; that line of reasoning is something like a redpill YouTuber would use to justify their misogynistic and selfish desires (aka: Fresh & Fit podcast) LMAOOOOOO at "Soon, I'll be a fully aged woman with an elderly body" with " We're in our early twenties"; unless you completely void your health and aesthetics/beauty, you will have YEARRRS before being anything close to some old brittle hag. @Spritual Warrior wrote some good points above but something I'd like to emphasize: "Things change as you grow older, priorities change, and looks are not as important", ~~ in other words, another way to view the matter, your bf wouldn't be as full of testosterone & cvm leading him to be "more domesticated & tame" rather than trying to smash every piece of booty he can find; which would correlate and align with what I said in my first point
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I've said this on another thread before but Ill say it again: I have been with XX women and have NEVER approached. You originally say why Thousands? I say: Why approach at all? .....
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"what do you guys think how the female brain works on this one?" She may be immature She may be insecure She may have very deep feelings for you and is afraid to "mess it up" She may have been cheating on her partner etc. WAY too many unknown variables (her age, her personality, the emotional setting how you met, etc.); TL;DR - You are looking too much into (consequently, should raise your development/quality of problems you worry about) && "Keep Moving Forward" ~ Meet The Robinsons
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*perhaps include more substance to the post?? other wise baiting a poll-like thread lol* Yes......but to add more content.... - The "approach" can vary substantially but almost always implicit (she throws an alley-oop, all you have to do is dunk it) but Sometimes explicit (i.e. 2 days ago in the gym, I had a girl come and straight ask me if I was single/for my number). Masculine (energy)- Wants to Approach Feminine (energy)- Wants to be Approached Guys that want women to approach them are more aligned with femininity
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If your looks check out (to any decent degree) AND you haven't gotten ANYTHING in 100 attempts, (as I just said in another post), reflect into your: "Status", Charisma, "Offerings" (of experiences/emotions). Everyone has different results but (imo) to go 0 for 100 means you must be doing something VERY wrong or completely uncalibrated for your environment
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"My count" is in the double-digits and I've never had been "rejected" (or maybe I only shoot shots that would go in?....meh) Point is OP: Seems like you are slipping into a "beta/incel"-like mindset; imo, if you are being rejected consecutively with no sign of interest, you are doing something very wrong/your being is still missing something. This is extremely hard to diagnose through text on a forum but I would immediately recommend for you to reflect on: Your STATE (during your interactions), Your Charisma/Leadership (what are you offering to her and how is your delivery), and your physical appearance (obvious) Good luck bud
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*basks in validation of my pet theories* >:D jk (kinda, mostly) Wish the best for you
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I see. Ima philosophize & extrapolate this in my free time. Hm, "The Game". Person A: "I am valuable!" Person B: "Why?" Person A: "Because I said I am!" Person C: "Of course you are girl! Can I please take you out?! :D" Person B: .....strange.
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Dauntment replied to Javfly33's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I actually thought something similar last night (and even shed tears over it) "Death". It is "extremely normal" (pretty much expected) to cry over the loss of a close one. Right? Yes, the inverse is the case for strangers; Example case: Every single person ("stranger", acquaintance , etc.) that you met and will NEVER see again...may as well be dead to you. -
"he's a bitch waiting to be fucked" LOL (but seriously, +1 to much of what you said) I picked that up INSTANTLY after clicking to a random timestamp . "The type of guy to hold his face after getting slapped" vibes
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+1 I'd like to add/emphasize (ESPECIALLY the case during trips) the duality of "knowing" and "logging insights/journaling"; You don't need to write down something you already know...in other words, essentially the more you write down, the more you are implicitly declaring "I need to learn/know/integrate this" I'd say Journaling/Logging insights is primarily for: 1. To share with others 2. To remind yourself to learn or study from 3. (the rarest) truly for its OWN sake
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"And then to eliminate men from her consideration that don't recognize her as the prize." I have an idea of why this position is held....but for clarity and out of curiosity, can you elaborate your belief system/explanation/narrative of: "she is already the prize" ?
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Biracial, black/white male mid 20s living in the SouthEast US at height 5'11 and dic.......I'll stop there
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Uh, I could attest that perhaps a certain demographic of women are more sensitive to their age (specifically mid to late 20s? Understandable within the context of: Dating/Marriage, Fertility, and the taboo notion that their "sex market value blah blah" will decrease) but seem to "burst" out of that years down the road into a newfound sense of confidence/perspective/maturity Otherwise, at first glance, this video/channel looks like another "one of those" (manosphere, redpill, idealogical shallow bullshit rabbit holes that becomes VERY reinforcing and self-justifying......be careful "You find the results you are looking for")
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These super broad questions are always icky to answer in a 1-directional sense but here goes:...... I don't know what horsesh*t some people in this thread on here might say but (What I would put forth) Top Qualities that would most likely "make him want to "stay" with you" (I would like to believe that I know what the f*** I am talking about): Beauty/Attractiveness/Sex Appeal/Aesthetics - Tho this is blatant, I'd like to highlight the paths of beauty outside of societal norms and appreciate the subjectivity of it. Also not just to your physical appearance but exert it all around you (i.e. Home design) Nuturing/Supportive energy (Ride or fu**ing die) Loyalty (again, emphasizing the "ride or die" theme) *cough* "Keep his balls empty" (seriously though lol) "Serve" HIM (this is where conventions such as cooking & cleaning come around, but especially the more nuanced and subtle things, some examples may be: playing with his hair as he's driving & moving his hand onto your thigh, marveling at him while he is working..or if he is just BEING) "Be the Trinity to his Neo" Bring the God out of him. Use your feminine discernment to keep him on his feet and always growing. Maintain your composure and know your self-worth. (Presuming your anything close to these pointers, it would be "his loss";' a good man can INSTANTLY determine a good woman I could keep going but a "Wife" will look for a husband and a Husband will look for a wife
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"The biggest mistake an artist can make is paying attention to the audience" Artists - Does it for themself...for its own sake Business - Does it FOR "other", performance-based etc. As for your question ("should I try to make something else out of it, some kind of business, of even try and learn something else that could bea more relevant business? Is it necessary to life to feel fullfilled?")......as the (theoretical) business owner, its YOUR job to SELL US the WHY....not the other way around. So, NO, it is not "too late" for you. The question is: What are you going to do about it?
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Dauntment replied to Princess Arabia's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
From the movie Dark City: https://youtube.com/clip/Ugkx4agi0Tcw3Qs8NoJw_WolF-0NJ0aLZdhG?si=SI4nsrsCKCLLYUKW -
Dauntment replied to Kuba Powiertowski's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Furthermore: You are always teaching yourself, and you are always talking to yourself, you are always [*insert verb* ] to/with your yourself. -
Bro, Leo literally made a f**king 3 and a half hour video SPECIFICALLY on Andrew Tate & corresponding philosophy
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May the young guys understand this rather than have a brick wall fall on top of them