UnconsciousHuman

This is really interesting stuff, and I have the intuition that you aren't a bullshitter, so I believe you. I can't wait for science to start investigating this area of life. I recommend anyone interested in this stuff to check out the scientific-based approach that Rupert Sheldrake takes to investigate these sorts of phenomena. Heres a video of him.

@Flowerfaeiry I'm assuming the guy-friend of yours who had a similar telepathic experience didn't feel in love or connected with the opposing side?

@Flowerfaeiry Did you feel deeply connected or in love with your friend at the moment that started to happen?

@28 cm unbuffed I personally found a way to make personal development extremely enjoyable, maybe you should do the same. Figure out what you want and find exercises that suit you to get you there. Personal development shouldnt be a chore but rather should be something you enjoy and love.

@Fkdel Train yourself in short term memory games. An example of this is remembering a long chain of random numbers and then trying to repeat them backward. This trains your ability to hold an idea or concept in your head longer. Do the above as well as try visualizing objects, graphs, people, etc... on a daily basis for at least a year. Good luck, Happy Visualizing!

@Yog Imagine If this photo represented reality and what we live in now represented this photo. Imagine how weird It would be looking at us, with our one-color biological bodies, tall limbs and hair on our heads etc.. Would you be willing to live in that reality, as one of those entities? Just curious.

@modmyth Yeah totally agree with that. If you throw yourself in deep water and you got some basic swimming skills, you will eventually learn to swim like a fish. I remember back in High school I needed to catch up and learn 1 and a half years worth of Calculus In just 3 months, I threw myself right into all the complexity and came out an A student. Its a really good way to learn, although I cant quite put a finger on the reason that is so.

@Chives99 That's comedy at its finest. Haha

To start, I'm a guy! I've been having some success with girls and I became interested to know what It was like from their POV to be talking to me, her thought processes, what she felt, her fantasies, how she was comparing me to other guys... So I decided I am gonna take it upon myself to experiment, I decided I was gonna go on a dating app pretending to be a friend of mine (Girl) and see what it is like.. I don't like catfishing and being manipulative so I decided to get rid of the account an hour after, but within that hour I learned the following: If you're a girl you don't have to be good looking to get swarms of guys, my friend is your average girl and within 10 minutes of swiping right on guys I get 40+ matches, the guys will be offering you products, sex, love, dates where they pay for the food, etc... I'm assuming that almost all girls that aren't overweight nor have a physical disorder will have no problem getting matches and attention on dating apps. I would pick the guys who seemed the most alpha and reply to them and they respond QUICK, so I decided to flirt with them in the way I see girls flirt with me, and it is so, so, so easy to control guys and have them do all kinds of conversational maneuvers to try to get me to be interested in them. Girls will develop a thick face quickly (Not caring to reject and be assertive with guys) I should also mention, If girls want to date successfully they need to develop a strong sense of emotional intelligence, as well as some detective skills in order to discriminate between the bullshitters and authentic masculine men. There are so many guys who would say and do anything just to get "Me" to sleep with them. I assume that girls have an inclination for a real relationship or connection as opposed to a quick fuck so a girl will naturally start to pick and chose the best guys that she thinks can sustain and offer her that. She will quickly realize, and come to like guys that are fun, dominant, trustable, social and carefree. I can only make the assumption that a young girl who goes through dating-app experiences will start to think she is highly desired, and she will develop an image of the world where everyone just wants to fuck her. This can be daunting for a developing girl and for her self esteem since she can start to believe she is only valuable because she can offer sex, or she is only valuable when she is desired... Come to find out that dating is not the same for guys and girls. Girls have literally 100s if not 1000s of options at any moment of their choice, yet this isn't what they desire, for me as a guy If I had a 100 even unattractive girls at my fingertip I would be on a fuck rampage, but for girls, this seems to be the exact opposite of what they want. Girls on dating apps will judge you based on your looks, that's the only way I could discriminate quickly between so-called attractive guys and unattractive guys, and girls really don't have the time to talk to every single guy and judge his personality. I would say that with every 30 guys, there is a muscular guy with good style and some nice photos who gets all the girls on those apps. So you really need to be good looking because if you arent girls will not give you time cuz you will be placed with the other 100s of guys in the "Leave on read category". On a final note, I am amazed by the fact that If I had been born with a XX chromosome instead of the XY chromosome, this would be the experience of dating I would have. In my eyes, girls differ from guys in only 2 foundational ways. 1) They value emotional connection more than sex 2) They have a bias towards dealing with things emotionally rather than logically. The other characteristics that women develop (selecting guys, making sure they themselves look good, building larger social circles etc..) come from having those 2 little differences in values that then branch out and create a world of a difference in character, and that is just beyond beautiful. The metaphor I have for this is: If you shoot a bullet with just a slight nudge to one side, as the bullet travels through space this small nudge creates a difference that becomes greater and greater. It's like that with women, because of those 2 foundational differences in values they end up developing into an entirely different being psychologically.

@Chives99 Haha, It used to be a hot instagram model, now its my ass.

@Chives99 Me and you both use Grammarly, I think that's what fucks up the text format when we quote people.

@King Merk Powerful stuff buddy, I really appreciate how you made a comprehensive list.

@capriciousduck Read books in english and look up words you dont know, and also chat up some english people online. goodluck

@Michael569 Thanks, will look into it.

@docs20 I got my hands on one of the main courses a while back, I didnt find it to be that interesting, basically Leo and his book list is more than enough. That being said their courses are very practically oriented meaning the information is broken down into logical and effective ways of application. So there is a huge benefit for those people who aren't interested in wasting 100s of hours learning everything about everything and then trying to do something with that knowledge. Basically its like being spoon fed stuff that otherwise you yourself would have to invest time and energy to discover.

@Chives99 Is that the sole reason you date a woman?

@Kshantivadin The use of phrases like sexual market value is virtually never thought of by ordinary individuals with successful dating lives. This is just theory that most guys who are unsuccessful with girls get into. What does it mean to be a guy that doesn't attract females? Not being genuine, not being confident, not being social, taking no part in leading the interaction, and instead, waiting for the girl to do everything. Women being hypergamous... oh man this is just pure and plain bullshit theory. All women, as in really all women? No. You can say "some women", and that way refer to a small percentage of lower developed women that want to date guys that are high status. Just like 20-30% of guys (an unconscious percentage) date women solely based on the size of their tits and asses. Again women are men just with an emotional twist, a man is fully capable of loving "the way a woman can" and vice versa, it's just that men tend to operate less emotionally and more logically and that makes women operate more in the now beacuse shes reacting emotionally not logically and explicitly.

@Kshantivadin Well let's examine your beliefs about women and dating, type out what they are.

@Chumbimba You're a great example, youre non-dogmatic and chose to actually see for yourself what is and isn't possible. More guys need to think like you.

@Chives99 @Kshantivadin I'm going to mention how I see some people here under my post theorize about seduction and women like its some recipe or formula. You don't get it, all of that is just a bullshit theory; "Men of status get more women, women only want high-status guys, women have it harder because of so and so theory or men have it this way." No, not of that matters, and even if there was truth to it, in the end, it is a line of logical reasoning and does not involve personal reference and experience. What matters is what you do and the results you yourself see. I'm sick of this subconscious incel behavior clinging onto theories about women and dating.

@modmyth Thanks

@whatishappeningtome Guys that buy into the red pill: Lazy, idealogical, fearful, afraid of girls, low self-love and finally they lack taking responsibility for their own dating life.

@Leo Gura It really is real learning! I realized recently that to understand most things you need to have a real-life reference experience where you are involved. In the case with understanding women, it isn't enough to create an idealogy about women based on some womanizer's opinion of them. You can develop an explicit understanding by theorizing but not an implicit one, implicit understanding comes from raw experience and what I'm after is an implicit understanding. Big ups to you teaching me about implicit vs explicit. ?

@modmyth Thanks for the long response, but I'm having trouble following your thought flow as I read along. Could you maybe sum up each paragraph in a short idea or sentence? Sorry to trouble you by asking you to do this but I'm very curious about the things you are saying yet can't seem to understand.

No, you weren't, you were talking "his ego". The delusion that he is jealous of you because he didn't reply to your disrespectful comment. If you dont mind sharing, How old are you? Im asking because the things you say are statements of a person aged 14 or 15. I don't want to insult you by asking or saying this, but I'm curious as to what your actual age is. Im 18 for starters