Epikur

It says 'it is the men's fault'

Awareness is correlated to illusion like everything else. Whatever you are aware of is delusion. There is no 'you' in a philosophical sense.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape

No. If you are 'Robin Hood' you are treated as a hero even if you steal.

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/man-wrongly-jailed-for-34-days-after-wifes-fake-rape-claim-sues-government/news-story/1fc1c5cc955e18b995d07db38e2b5bb4

Relatively speaking we are all stupid. So you may want that smarter people give you some tolerance. I have never met people who are not stupid.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eHpFyDzzZGk

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape

https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/04/male-rape-in-america-a-new-study-reveals-that-men-are-sexually-assaulted-almost-as-often-as-women.html

Depends on the context if it affects you. When you are as a man confronted with the situation you might think different. It might be a bigger problem for you because your life will be destroyed.

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-45565684

Plus you can not just create mindset from thin air. Ideally it is copied from parents and mentors and having a suited subconsciousness.

No

Pretty boring