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These aren't crocodile tears. She's is legit crying. This is the beaten path of bs pushed in our culture. Tinder, Netflix and chill, social media, etc. There's a savage element in the world today of dating. Her experience at 34 is similar to my dating experience before pickup. Before I hit my stride. Today, my prefer could be summed up by the DiCaprio effect (18-25). No apologies! No amount of beta male shame tactics will alter the following. Dating is ruthless. There is no do overs. Twenties and teens don't come back. IME, I have had women not give me the time a day when I her teens and twenties before I started pickup. Today, they come around similar to the video. Furious seeing me with far younger, HOTTER, fitter girls. Ironic, back then, I would have been happy to marry her/them. I am having trouble comprehending such a possibility. I am not interested today. I am not being a dick but, I am not interested in homemaker now after Chad's not blowing up the phone anymore, baby rabies, or being daddy to some other man's kids. No thank you Jeff! I am predicting more of the following to come with our current degenerate culture. These vblogs and articles are a warning sign. But who (if anybody) is listening?

One of the most inspiring books that I have ever read is Way of the superior man by David Deida. It almost seems like a prerequisite. In a current chapter, Deida speaks about purpose, periods of clarity, and then, points in which what was once purposeful dissolves. That layer having been shed. Entering a period of uncertainty before the process repeats itself. I am enjoying the course and work by Leo. I have only started working on the intro and gradually beginning with the new stuff. I have bought a Cork board and I have a plan to build a vision board. One of the annoying aspects is the importance of money in life despite the fact that we can't take it or any possessions when we die and go to the next place. Whatever comes up with this process for me, it MUST PRODUCE. Its difficult given that for the last sixty years, generation after generation have been told to follow their dreams no Matter how ridiculous and unproductive. I've seen how destructive it can be. A example of the positives is Leo Gura actualized.org or the life purpose course. It is economically feasible and productive. Thanks @Leo Gura I intend to share in the experience without breaching the paid content. More or less insights and ideas. The path is riddled with bogey traps, obstacles, and challenges. The most important thing I've ever seen in the past for me is the importance of minimalism. Keep expenses and spending way down meaning, replacing said income becomes far easier then if i was spending like I was in congress.

I am still letting content land. I am reading a series of books atm. Today started off rough. My alarm didn't go off. I was late to work. I hit every light there. I got opened by a cute girl. I was annoyed with everything before taking a step back. I got opened. Nothing was that bad. I just made it home and took it easy tonight. I didn't workout. I took a rest day. Back tomorrow hard. I'm starting to fast soon. I did wim hoof breathing techniques, some meditating both guided and strict. I took a Epsom salt bath to help sleep and heal muscle repair plus DOMs. I did Leo's mantra techniques as suggested from the prior video. I feel like a crazy person doing it lol but I recall ufc thug rose doing that at weigh ins before shocking the world to win her title. There's definitely nothing wrong with mantras and prayer.

Respectfully, I disagree. It's closed due to feelers and biases but I digress. It's a great time to point out, the inability to engage and react. It's better to be at the cause then the effect. I rather approach and get a rejection then no reaction. You can't agree to disagree. You can't help but respond to me. These are my thoughts on the matter and topic. Anybody else reading, it's a classic example of game, of being low in agreeableness, and reactivity. There's a stark contrast in following the beaten path, whatever the culture pushes, and people follow. Culture is malleable. Whatever way the wind blows, people follow. Its like pissing in the wind. It is dumb. I agree with @Leo Gura that there's definitely higher levels of being and consciousness. I agree with him that there's value to be had in learning. Moreover, there is a huge difference in approaching and presuming to know what it is without having any such experience. Even then, in many cases, people rant at him for his own perspective and experience with people who don't approach but want to vent their feels. Do you approach guys? SrS?

+1 Statements over question/interview mode. Be bold. Life favors the bold. The biggest misunderstanding of pickup is that it's cheesy lines. You break the ice and rapport by any means necessary. Legal obviously. That's opening. Questionaire is anti seductive. Statements are bold. Even bolder is INSTRUCTIONS. Compliance being King. There's nothing more telling in game then compliance. A lack thereof of means next set. There's no ambivalence here. Hard to get or any shenanigans is met with approaching more. It is a numbers game. Every coach or mpua says it for a reason. A miniscule amount of people you will have any sort of relationship. Sexual or other. All you need to do is vet your match which is the point of approaching and sifting through volumes of people. It's unmistakable when acquiring high interest, Sexual advances, and genuine desire. It is important to learn and become aware of IOIs (indicators of interest) and or choosing signals. Approach. Allocate the Currency of your time to girls who want to be with you.

Busy yourself. Exercise. A lot of supplements are useless, costly, and not ideal. Get organic food. Eat healthy. Read way of the superior man by David Deida. Periods of lulls, contemplation, fork in the road are part of life. Busy yourself. Map out the life you want. Check out the purpose course.

+1 Nobody cares. Read 48 laws of power by Robert Green. Keep that stuff close to your vest. Say less. Not more. It's nobody's business furthermore, you are giving reasons to not promote you or recognize your talents. You are best off not doing so and handling your stuff. If you must disclose, do so at your own peril. If you have to, exercise discretion, and as a last resort. Your employer and or boss isn't a friend. Never get it twisted.

You're being ridiculous. You are a man. You want to smash as is your biology. Act as such. If you had low testosterone, you still got 18x the amount of a woman. There's case studies of female bodybuilders on gear posting how horny they are. Many begin to somewhat understand the plight ?

Hold on a sec. Are you saying, a woman who puts out isn't quality? Now that's rude and sexist. Define quality lol! You are wrong and should know better after all this time. I posted about a BJ and getting ghosted. This is the era of time I live in lulz! I approached a really cute girl during ban camp. I will let it land however it may. It was great. She is smitten! ? The logistics were garbage. If not for game, it wouldn't be possible. It's why it's monumental.

Do you even paragraph? The change is in pickup. Genuine interest or next set! There's MRAs who have virtually accomplished nothing. Threads like pickup are closed here. Reddit subs are shutdown. There's a lot of things a failed marriage teaches as does the trail of money. The solution is next set. There's a ton of these situations none of which are popularized as is pushing student debt, career, and the beaten path. It clearly is fools gold. Relationships are not pointless. The beaten path is as is following whatever the culture normalizes. A pastor recently tried pushing Poly. It is manipulation as is "free love." nothing is free. There's always a price.

+1 Agreed. Have boundaries.

Minimalist living. Don't date crazy or get divorced. Don't outspend what you make. Follow Dave Ramsey. Some guys lose kids in divorce and are forced to be a wage slave in a shitty job, long hours, and no good. Be smart. Save. Life a minimalist lifestyle. When dating, keeping expenses down. I was out today and a woman was going on about "matrimonial house." ^^^ avoid said situation. No car payments. Don't run up visas. Bank money. Avoid over use of tapping cards or student debt which you can't declare bankruptcy on. If dating and someone wants to keep up with the Jones, dump fast!

No. You follow the trail of money. Ie richest woman on planet via divorce. Netflix and chill is free. Maybe. Maybe not. It's apparent that the top percentile of man is getting most of the girls. The tears follow at say 34 when a reality check hits. Again people are free to do whatever. The idea of no consequence is ridiculous. The vast majority of the pickup threads are locked because feelers are in a knot rather than actually using reason and evidence. (eg if I approach more I will get laid more). The outrage follows because men and women don't necessarily exercise the same sexual strategy.

This. +1 Which is why my pragmatic approach is blow me or blow me out. Genuine desire or #nextSet! If there's ever a point, you feel like you are having to be pushing the convo, drop set and approach more or merge sets. Mix sets. I've pawned girls off on betas. It's self amusing. I posted a vlog by better bachelor breaking down a woman, age 34 seeking white picket fence after a series of past indiscretions. To each their own. She's free to do whatever whenever the same way you are OP. A ruthless question that comes to mind, is she giving you her best? Is it genuine desire?

That's not a argument. The premise being, a outlier separate from the norm. The blank slate argument cracks me up. Let's say.. . I don't know. 80% of divorce initiated by women. So, 20% don't have a divorce lulz so, I'll sign right up? Or how about I do more pickup! That 20% doesn't measure the happiness of the marriage, sex life or a number of things. Tim Cast posted a vblog that male happiness actually goes down lololol.

Lmfao what lol I assure you, the girl in the video is crying.

There's a lot of social engineering. Sleep around. Don't need no man. Fish bicycle rhetoric. Any male grievance is met with censorship or screams of misogyny. If you have a prerequisite or a preference for a demographic for dating, women are furious and male feminists are attacking too. Again, a inability to compete. Dudes will attack DiCaprio but if they could pull like him, they sure as hell would. I suspect my journey will come full circle at some point. It is one thing to be able to do pickup and yet choose marriage and monogamy. A lot of guys will virtue signal and sump attempting to front their moral superiority. In actuality, they are incapable. RSD Tyler is spot on. Guys think they can pickup and fight until they actually got to go do it lulz. Good luck to the girl in the video. A lot are being sold this crap as if there's no fallout or consequences. You can have it all is the biggest lie. BS! It's all a sacrifice. Not sacrificing is a sacrifice. I have made a sacrifice to learn game. It's a price most men never pay. The outcome measures are telling. The girls I get on with best are into tripping.

Who said anything about family values? How about family values between 18-25? Come at me. A woman can date whoever. Whenever. The same way, I can date whatever targeted demographic I like. The best ltr and marriages I know All met her I Said demographic. Flio through tinder bios. "proud single mom," or "Poly," I had another mag about her in a ltr but has a pass because her bf has low libido. I don't want to live on this planet anymore lulz! You clearly didn't watch the vblog. Nobody found love in it. It's 30min of crying. That's not love lol.

Bro, a mod gave dubs/ban camp dissecting my night of pickup. 50-100 approaches. Maybe more. I got #metoo'd in the club SrS (ie girls grabbing IT or going down my pants in bar/club). If I tried this on girls, I'd be arrested for Weinsteining. It's ludicrous how degenerate it is out there. So, 50-100+ cold approaching and I pull back to her condo balcony. I won't give up on the details given a particular trigger happy mod. Do the math. You don't need a diagram. In terms of metrics, that's garbage approach to pull ratio but the alternative is what? Pornhub? The girl in the video or alike? I am not hating on her. Good luck to her. Guys get destroyed in divorce court marrying after a series of past indiscretions, promiscuity, and reckless partying. Molyneux has a truth on sex series. Promiscuity equates to guarantee divorce virtually. Wing with naturals. It ducks learning but whatev. Play the hand you are dealt. It is not impossible. Furthermore, many guys who were natural get screwed later. They never earned it. They likely had look's, had attention young but they never put their time in to really learn game. The high school football captain took all the girls. He was alpha. He was a dick. He was the kind of guy to tell girls they were coming to his game Friday night and he would be punching someone out that night in the parking lot. Sure enough, he would but always some little guy. Girls just flocked to him. He ran through the school. Fast forward to the present day. He's fat, has a crappy job, hates life, and his high school sweet heart cucked him and left him. He never developed. He was on easy mode until he couldn't anymore.

I had the best pickup ever more recently. It put wind in my sales. She's a proper stunner. She was smitten. I look forward to seeing her again soon. It is a addiction. I agree or maybe I'm making up for lost time lulz. I have never been more brutally honest about how I am, my view in life nor my approach. I'm not Chad. I am not a model. I am not DiCaprio nor rich. I am definitely not a porn star and yet, pickup changed my dating life. The alternative is what? Pornhub? Just wait? Society lies to young men. Anyway, maybe I grow up one day and out of this. Outlook not so good but, if and when I do, you will be the first to know as promised. Maybe even send out the wedding invitation lulz SrS! Also, my commentary on a particular mod wasn't you for the record. Another is targeting me unjustly. Cheers!

I hear stories about married men being cut off. It wouldn't be long and I would be out cold approaching. It's not a threat or ultimatum. It is a big deal and it is a prerequisite. The idea of a marriage sanctioned by the state where someone can cut me off, take my kids, and resources is beyond laughable. Not happening. As a bachelor, anything but genuine desire is met with more pickup. It is the absolute solution to all "girl/ltr problems." It's absolutely bizaro world reflecting on life before and after pickup. The most ridiculous thing is that, based on the cards you are dealt and running game can change any man's life. Even if a man is seeking a wife and white picket fence, kids, etc lots of pickup, options, and choosing after knowing what you want is ideal. I don't know what TS is searching for but, a gf lacking in genuine interest and desire would be a deal breaker.

Sounds like either too comfortable or lowering interest levels. There's no ambivalence in genuine desire. I went back to a girls place and she clawed off my clothes like a wild animal. She threw my shirt which was funny. It took a half hour to find lulz! I had nail marks in. My back for weeks. It was fun but short lived. I suspect short term flings are more explosive but timely ltr have lulls which accompany familiarity. There's excitement in mystery with a random that monogamy incapable of bringing. What (if anything) else does the ltr provide beyond sex? Weigh in on the following. The lack of genuine interest in proactively engaging would get played out for me fast.

Chase excellence. Learn game. Do pickup. Stack paper. Get better. Not bitter.

I trip too. Psychedelic trips, mushrooms, dmt, etc. I come to great insights from the experience. I feel more connectivity. I sat in meditation after a mushroom trip. It felt like I was being huged by the plant medicine. It was informative that I am still healing. I suppose we all are if we do the work. If marriage comes, what would change? If it's what you want, why flee from it. The thing I notice is that, people trip, find God, meditate, trip, spirituality but, more often than not, it creates a new ego. One where they believe that they are better. You kill one ego and it comes in the backdoor like a snake. Sex is huge for me. Attraction too. It's not the be end all but it is important. As a man and active bachelor exercising cold approach pickup, the grass isn't always greener. It is a lot of fun and heavy lifting. It can make a man jaded. You see a series of patterns. You can recognize cheating, cuck, monkey branching and you can see solid relationships. I know of three. If you have a great relationship, leaving it is foolish.

That is my best pickup. I notice that it seems more authentic and I can feel it in my breathe. I'm in a flow state. Other times I am in a dur state lulz!