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That's called plausible deniability.

We're a classy bunch. Op, compliance is the solution. I take more of a blow me or blow me out approach. Like poker and calling all in! Focus more on volume. Do what I do. Just tell her about the After and that she's coming! Lmfao. There's a evolutionary component. A family requires resources. In 2020, with tinder and apps, sites like seeking arrangements, people aren't Dating anymore. Why put sex on layaway? There's a funny joey Diaz podcast with a chick comedian going on a tangent about not wanting to pound after food. It reminds me of Matt Damon in Good Will Hunting on a date with Sky. And she says he's wondering if he will get a good night kiss. And he responds perfectly with, "i was wondering if I would get a good night lay." LOL. Op, why don't you approach lots, casually date, and then let the chips fall where they may? All the best LTRs i know met, SNL and it evolved. Suckers downplay the importance of sex. More importantly, there's no substitute for real genuine desire. Good luck.

I got through more content since ban camp lulz. I came across the word "drudgery." Leo is wordy. I haven't heard it before but that point hit home with me. I started a new book, "tibetan yogas in dream and sleep. There's a segment where it describes the obstacles between purpose and action conflicting. I got the impression that Leo was suggesting that same issue. I am working out more and doing more cardio. My diet is on point. My strength was off a bit today after work. I have put up PRs and today was a bit of a miss. I approached more girls today. Its funny how quick it is to go from stranger to not. I actually enjoy breaching that point between strangers and whatever is to come up after. How simple it all seems now. What doesn't seem simple is the process. It feels good to be started. I am recognising patterns, people, and unity. I am noticing more. My awareness is growing. I noticed things i didnt before. People watching me. I have seen some stuff lately. A girl pretended to buy a drink but she was just hovering and watching me. I saw a random guy again from the monastery. I notice that not all of it is good. I watched another instance where a person was searching for indignation. I received a random text message from a number I didn't recognize. Its always stupidity. In years prior, I would let things go as it may but not now. Someone wants something. There's a motive. There's always a motive. Its nice being precognitive. Ad if to be flipping through a deck of cards and seeing it before the flop. Playing accordingly. Change is on the way.

Which part? Be specific? Its disgusting but its not going anywhere. Its not changing. Its the way of things. I was wrong. I followed the beaten path the first two thirds of my life. I am now making up for lost time. From a analytical standpoint, Its not even comparable. All i care about is results. I picked up more today. Its second nature now but it was following pickup. Not the beaten path. Its not from playing safe and apologetic. There's no ambiguity with genuine desire. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couples-who-share-the-housework-are-more-likely-to-divorce-study-finds.html Lol

The msg i got was actually hilarious. No clue how to respond lol. I spoke my truth. Being offensive for the sake of being offensive is stupid. I don't lose sleep over snowflakes. My threads being spammed with nonsense. Entirely unrelated to any of the topics above. I hope that message archived. I don't intentionally pursue anybody in a ltr but I couldn't give a damn. Its not my business nor my problem. I am out for me. If in a ltr, shut me down. In the past few years I have lost count of unavailable people who are available. Welcome to 2020.

Its a common tool and theme today. There's a problem in our culture. Even if friends if you point out a issue with a tribe you are met with nonsensical jargon. You can look at stats. It paints a pretty particular picture. Its funny. The accusation is that i hate. People cannot handle the truth. More importantly, you have a dating forum and without receipts anybody can sputter nonsense without any proof. When you see attempts to silence you, cover-ups like the cameras going out in a jail and magically the person ends up dead... I wonder what happened? AJ reported the pedo ring and is deplatformed. You see it similar in woke culture and SJW. Push pc culture. Out doing black face or have a pedo collection. In public, they parade language police and being holier than thou. Every time, they get caught with their pants down lol. Everyone pushing pc it sets off my spider senses. GUARANTEED, THEY GOT SKELETONS IN THEIR CLOSET. the smokescreen is shifting the focus elsewhere.

If you check youtube, many channels have been pulled down. Many channels are deplatformed or demonetized. Tom Torrero disappeared and many others. Screams of misogyny or sexist is just plain lazy. Its not an argument. It's a common theme when incapable of handling rational debate. Google divorce by gender. A source was requested. It was then dismissed because of the date. Ironic when it is only getting worse. Censorship is a tool these days of the weak. Facts over feels. Watch the gender war amplify further in 2020. There's going to be more nonsense prior to a Trump victory. More pity partying and victim-culture to follow. Game is attacked. Its comical. Forced indignation. Even searching out me in threads. Not so secret admirer lulz!.

Read MM. The biggest thing being compliant. For example, asking for a number or telling her to gimme your number. Compliance is king. After party! Food! Whatever. Test. More importantly, be willing to lose the girl to get the girl. 99% of pickup is garbage. Pull the essence. 3secs rule. DHV. Pre selection. Compliance. Isolation which is a aspect of compliance. You can suggest getting a drink, going for a smoke, a trip to Mars. The specifics are IRRELEVANT. Her complying is. The Tom Brady 25 points in 16min is ideal Hail Mary play. The same can be said for pulling. Create URGENCY. PULL! If dtf, she's coming. Again, compliance is key. Its a numbers game. focus on VOLUME not homemaker and marriage. Its lame learning pickup but Wtf is the alternative? Fap to pornhub? Incel? Marry Chad's booty call? Tyrones devil triangle single mom? Its savage man. Do your dicaprio. Live your id.

Psychology is interesting but with no md, its kind of tricky. You pigeon whole yourself. You can always do more edu. I suspect its that plan anyway. I am doing the purpose course too. If yiu recall, Leo mentioned that period of ambiguity and lacking of clarity. David Deida in way of the superior man talks about the importance of the purpose. Even a lifetime of whatever and one day, it dissolved back to wherever it came from. We're shedding layers of our karma. My parents never directed me that way. They encouraged me to do whatever I want. Seek clarity. Enjoy your process. Learn game. Date. Read. Play sports. Join a club. If you want, you can travel, and see the world after you do your BA. Very few people figure out how or what to do for purpose. Even if you do, you can't take it with you. The purpose course has me feeling entrepreneurship. Side hustle. Something like that to pivot from the day job. I have friends who successfully did it. Huge risk but life's too short. I picked up a girl last summer. She was a psych major. She works in business. 75% tuition deal is great. Anything STEM is great. Learn to code. Go wherever the money is. You can do something else later when you get paper handled. Goid luck. Strong username BTW

As i mature and I say mature loosely, I will encourage myself to meet random people everywhere. New guys are friends. Girls are well super promiscuous so, i let that happen. One of the best insights ever is listening to old people. Some are cooks, crazy and actually racist but some got stories. I met a old guy from the uk. He fought in ww2 and the battle of Britain. He had a lot of awards medals for his services.

Imho and extensive experience in pickup, nobody is waiting. I note conservatism is on the rise. Promiscuity is still in the norm. Many happily married couples i know hooked up SNL. It was hilarious. Intended ONS and it evolved. They got foid, hung out, and one thing led to another. Its hilarious to consider mainstream consciousness and reality. It doesn't align. I am busying myself in activities including Leo's purpose course. It is keeping me out of trouble. I have been working on the projects and plans I have for myself. By default, unless it's something legit or a quick Netflix and chill, I am not exactly interested. I saw the video about girl says she wants a kiwi but picks bananas. Reference for choosing Chad's and Tyrone for a booty call in youth. Its comical but she makes a point. Good is boring.

I have no clue what the hell you are talking about. I did however smash a girl in my dream. Gross because I was asleep and likely air humping lulz. The weird part is that, i was a kid, shortly after puberty, and i met her irl. She was cuter in person but neither one of us could make eye contact. It was serious animal pounding one another into oblivion. I woke up sore. Anyways, i am fascinated by hemi-sync and AP. Curious if that's relevant. I'm unsure. To answer the question, she was pretty happy in the dream. Me too. She was red face irl when I saw her though. It was hilarious. Before pickup and becoming a goon hah.

You just kind of got to take a step back. The same synergy that set things in motion can come undone just as easily. Food for thought. I went out with a girl. She randomly started smoking pot in between Netflix (&chill lulz). I asked her what was up. She said she was anxious. I just put my arm around her, asked why, and next thing you know, I am breaking her headboard lulz. I never saw her again. Life! Enjoy the ride. Sometimes, people hold on too long. I use to do that. Now, I just let things burn off. A lot of times, LTR can be a dumpster fire. People keep throwing crap on the fire to keep it going rather than moving forward. May its time to move on or maybe not. Only you can be the judge.

Today, I kept it simple. I was compelled to start the next video but I was really keen on the last one. The mention of the warrior Lifestyle and the impermanence of this fleeting life along with all we do or create has me thinking. I read the Bhagavad Gita before. I will read it again. It is profound. Promotes duty and unattachment. Living at my edge, giving my gifts, and leaving no stone unturned is the Path. Easier said than done. I still "sin." i miss the mark. My ego is out of control lately. I got another strike from Dij lol. I think she's still mad with me. Ughhh! I met a couple more girls. I am bombarded with distractions. I made new friends. I have a new path and it feels great. A reminder from Leo's last video was about the journey. Not the destination. I need to enjoy the process. I have always been in a hurry to get somewhere. Then, i just want to go home. Whats home symbolic for? Safety. Rest. Renewed.

Sorry, let me better explain. I am being cryptic to not breach content lol. I am referring to the intro and the story, your story you shared. Your thoughts and experiences along the way. When did it become all the more clear? I have read Mastery, your book recommendation, and Robert Green. One of my favourite is David Deida. They all say that same message about purpose, life path and hero's journey. It still doesn't seem to be any easier. Money is huge. I wish i could be like my two monk friends. For starters, keep my ego in check lulz and swear away worldly possessions. Life dedicated to Being, God, whatever. And yet I have no idea how people fo it. Swear away women, sex, and all else. I find this unreal. Did you pursue the passion or were you focused on the path and money. I can't imagine how to dismiss the importance of money. Everyone i know who downplayed the importance of money has none. No shocking. I am learning about minimalist lifestyle. I read about the new Japanese minimalism book and some podcasts. I have gotten expenses down. Bare bones. I am also a bachelor. I could not do it if married with kids. It's a different ball game. Any further advice on the clarity is appreciated @Leo Gura

I enjoy David Deida.

I liked the rant about "the warrior," the emphasis on loss, impermanence, futility, and even meaninglessness. The fact that nothing lasts, it sort of provokes nihilism. The fact that, you cannot take anything with you when going to the next place, why bother? Rhetorical question but, the point still stands. The emphasis on pursuing anything in the world is pointless given the fact that its all impermanent. And yet, I ask the question, what's the alternative? I am going through the course. There's several points where I was drawn up and in far deeper. I am going through it at a snails pace but I am consistent. I have found myself spinning my wheels at several times and stages in my life. Listening to the intro, it would seem that is the way of things. I have begun with child-like curiosity. The process is started and it feels like it can't be undone. I can spin my wheels more or i can give it my undivided attention. At this stage of my life, above all else, I have prioritized purpose. I am living at my edge and leaning just beyond. Unfortunately, I know a lot of sacrifice is to follow up but what I will become after is not the same. @Leo Gura I am unsure of what to do or what I will create but, I am hoping that this abstract puzzle will come together more gradually as i finish the course. When did the process start to make sense? The idea of being a employee and make other people rich seems ridiculous. I have my own dreams.

Bullying isn't like that. Its hanging you upside by your underwear or giving you a swirly aka flushing your head down a toilet. Being passive aggressive is not a solution. If someone is doing the following, beat their ass. If you cannot do so physically, get to a gym, and learn mma. Use a weapon. Do whatever it takes. Being a soy boy is likely provoking the bully lol.

Hitting works well. If its a group of people, a barstool will work. WWF style chair shot. Obviously, its to avoid but if I am confronted, I will take no liberties. I wont hesitate. Learn mma. It instills confidence. Furthermore, people thonk twice when you won't hesitate to smash someone.

The lights off part seems weird. No condom seems to be a accidentally on purpose pregnancy awaiting. The marathon sex is stupid. I try to bust assp and evacuate but it is not a gf.

That's called castration or chemical castration. That's inhuman. Just dont do gay stuff. Problem solved lol.

I agree with you to be with someone who is really into you and your into. Marriage is cucked now. It fails because "people" have incentives for divorce. For example, Jeff Bozo of amazon is divorced. The richest woman is rich via divorce. Let that digest. I agree about "not know enough" but in a degenerate society and cucked culture, its unreal a person is asking the question. As in, searching for a answer vs digesting the cucked crap society keeps pushing. @vampiria why get married? Why follow the beaten path? Its egomania to assume one's above the fallout of divorce and the shit show. Heavy barrier to entry and more on the exit. Count me out lol. I am content for dating unexclusively. Netflix is near free. Coffee is cheap. I saw a funny bit on jre from a female comedians saying she doesn't want sex after having dinner. Why do guys do this lol

https://www.youtube.com/user/Sashathepua/videos?disable_polymer=1 Someone in the chat during the podcast asked about actualized org and Leo Gura. When asked about what level Leo was at, he said,

Its just lame how its celebrated in culture along with "proud single mom," promiscuity, poly, and a number of crap. How about a proud married stay at home mom lol. There's a message that I can get behind. Society is degenerate. I am currently reading Aaron Clarey Enjoy the decline. God bless Cappie.

Its savage. There's aspects of men and women that are Unflattering. Furthermore, if you arr approaching, seeing girls, you begin to see patterns. Recognise patterns ghosting, i was busy etc. You begin to put the puzzle together. There's nothing more savage and open market then dating. The stats are pretty apparent for promiscuity and poly. Virtually all data guarantees divorce. A woman's free to do whatever. Cam vid, poly, promiscuity, single mom, and or traditional family. The same can be said of guys assuming nobody is being physically hurt. A funny thing to point out that push for betas and soyboys yet, the greatest selling book to women is fifty shades lulz. Its pretty tellinh. If you're able to go down the rabbit hole. Meditate. You'll need it. Yiu will see some shit. In the last few years, I have had a ridiculous amounts of invitations from married women. You cannot help but view things differently. Enjoy the ride.