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So, I got infraction from 2mods for the same thing. I meant everything. Its funny with censorship and attempts at suppression of speaking truth. It is on par with click bait, identity politics, victim culture, and fake news. The art of real talk is dead. The culture is cucked and degenerate. More importantly, I kept going on the purpose course. New insights hit me the other night. I started reading the Tibetan yogas of dream and sleep. There's a preface about trying hard and getting in your own way. Leo had w similar message from a variety of his content. The insights I got recently was to not be at war with my path. To enjoy the ride. Its the journey not the destination. I am putting a lots of work in my purpose and I'm spinning my wheels by being try-hard in achieving. I am learning to enjoy the process and have faith. I started reading levels of energy by F. E. Dodson. Its in sync with the path I am on. I am putting things together. Its much like a abstract puzzle. I also saw the new Leo Gura vblog. I didn't fully get it though. I also tripped on psilicybin. I laughed my ass off. Everything was just funny. I meditated during this trip. It felt like that plant medicine was hugging me during my meditation. I love psychedelics. Its not always smooth sailing but I always get what I need. Not necessarily what I want. A heroic dose is next up.

Pattern recognition is huge. Pay close attention.

Shift to no porn. Just fap to thoughts or money shot with randoms. I use to think porn was epic. As I mature lol ? I am reconsidering. I don't want censorship but I want autonomy from it. As in, I can but I choose not to. There's nothing like infinite access and its that way as a young boy from puberty on. Its sedating. Pickup requirements are approaching field tested and force output. Chat up girls. Pull. Get options. Have choice.

She sounds like a birch but you're being a chump. Hypergamy doesn't give a fuck. There's a billion guys slipping into her DMs willing to step up. Get a grip. Get a life. Hold it together. Go meditate. Go lift. Go to the monastery. Go travel. Being a wimpy bitch is what society pushes. Be a dud. Be vulnerable. Act like a sissy because women want a sissy. There's nothing further from the truth. Hypergamy doesn't give a fuck if you are a good man, father or you have depression. Hypergamy doesn't care. Create space for you. Go no contact (n/c). No text, social media, or anything. Be a better you for you. There's other girls. You mistake love only cause you have her. If you we're Dicaprio on yacht with trains of models, love is not on your mind. Get your shit handled. Learn pickup. If balding shave head. Get jacked. If short correct posture. Read Joe navaro. Chat other girls. Nobody care's about your hair or height. You arent that important. Neither am I. You had sex with her. Chalk it up as a win. Move on. Find hotter, younger, and overall better for you. More importantly, get healthier. Eat healthy. Diet. Do cardio. Lift weights. Get exercises. Chat girls. Pull. Suddenly, you are having too much sex and options to be depressed.

I don't. I avoid like the plague. If its coworkers, minimize all engagement. In the predicament find a good living arrangements. If its common occurrence you could be unintentionally provoking things. I don't get hit or choked. I study bjj so I will strangle a fool for trying. My point is it is not common nor the norm for the behavior. There's certain people who you don't provoke. May is around the corner. Enjoy it while you can. Work awaits.

The whole consent thing is common sense. Jordan Peterson clinical psychologist pointed out the element of stupid simping consent. In mid pump stopping to get more consent. Its retarded. There's a bunch of semi nude and or full nude provocative consent vids. This is how fucking stupid people are today. I have no clue about the stages you speak of. I read power vs force by DRH. Its got a spectrum. I cannot say how high or where pickup would fall. Probably +500. Higher than people moralizing and virtue signaling. Shits creepy. Doesn't pull. Has opinion lol. A classical example of creepy is the thread white knightin promoting how much they love woman. Who are you trying to convince? LULz! Has a sock puppet with a woman's name on it. #gross Spider senses are tingling when I hear that virtue signaling and white knight dumb.

Food for thought. Pickup since its inception say from y2k on has done and proven more then 100+ years of sociology. Everybody has their little opinion but it amounts to dog shit if not field tested. Proven. Its a meme. Pic or did not happen. Receipts Separate fraudin and the KJs. I got some good one's LULz! Like that old saying, all is fair in love and war. Its complaints from the losers. First or last. There's nothing more challenging, frustrating, inconsistent, and yet free flowing then cold approach pickup. Its like a psychedelic trip. You never know what you are in for. Its just going to be a wild ride. I love it!

I am guessing that you don't do pickup. She's either DTF or not. No. Stop fuck off works. What' doesn't work is 30yrs later making up accusations like the kavanagh court case. Magical location. Nobody can verify the lie. Its garbage. Its blatant sexist to imply or insinuate a woman's not competent, intelligent enough or capable of giving consent. Its garbage and absolute nonsense. The most ridiculous is the comedian getting head and the girl makes up accusations after. Gives head then metoos him. Disgusting! There's a reason to sift through crazy. There's nothing acceptable about rapey. There's nothing acceptable about false accusations. When caught lying, jail time should follow like the two black football athletes who devil triangles a girl who makes up accusations. Is in jail as she should be ruining lives. Its terrifying. Any SJW or prevalence to victim culture is avoided like the plague.

+1 I know. Its ga. Moralize about pickup lol. Be like a sugar baby narrating about virtue lulz. If the topic is pickup and people want to moralize, they aren't doing it right. Its comical when the amount of bottle rats guys must sift through. Man bad for wanting sex. Girl moral for shaking guys down for free drinks. You wut mate? Lol I am transparent about sexy times. I don't talk trp lol. Hell I am mostly esculating or opening more sets. I seriously don't fuck with stupid. If anything weird, combative, sjw, green hair or something like, i will gladly exit. I don't need accusations domestic or other. I don't have any time or patience for it. The point i made about a girl sleeping with Jon Jones and thinks she knows how to fight comes to mind. It's ridiculous. Moreover, the woke, pc culture, social justice nonsense, white Knight dumb, and all the above is a classic one way ticket to LJBFs followed by pornhub. Even more gross is the ones moralising are usually the biggest Creeps and dirt bags. Wasn't Canadas president caught doing black face lol. These people are what jesus called out for being hypocrites. Pc culture in public. Black face when the cameras aren't rolling or trips to epsteins island. These are the evil people.

I enjoyed rsd julien. Lulz i. Never seen anything more savage and polarising. I hate hip hop clubs. I like edm. I rolled up on mixed sets, merged, sets where guy was with a girl. Guys assume she's got a bf. I never do that. I just let things play. I don't see fights with edm music the way I do in hip hop clubs. Stage green game sounds like hipster stuff like natural lifestyle lol I don't much have the patience to see where someone is at. Push/pull and repeat. Lots of volume. More not less sets than decide who i am going with. I am also not interested in having a chat. Relate man to woman from go. If not down, that's fine but there's no ambiguity. Genuine desire or roll out.

Just another brick in the wall. More to come. Good luck. Develop staying power. Meditation on it.

There's elements of truth but 9/10 businesses fail. Food for thought. Nobody cares. Its all about execution. Dude, I have gone full blown minimalist. I still have a bed, tv, etc. I am just keeping my expenses low. Its unreal how little I require. If I was married with kids and a wife, it wouldn't be possible. At least not to be this low in expenses.

More are doing it these days. Its like, why be a corporate shill and slab to get other people rich. Good on you.

Op, i am going through atm. The trick isn't to spam through it. I can finish it off tonight but then what? You need to download it to your consciousness and live it. There's guys on the reddit sub for pickup. Many spam through pickup programs and never approach. Its futile. You gotta live it. Let stuff land.

My friends who work in a similar field have a target. 1. Move up 2. Lateral move over 3. Pull the chute out to a better gig If there's no specific point of progression, move on. Never quit. Get a role that's better and move on. How's pickup going? Who you listen to? Its getting lame now. I am doing Leo's course on purpose. Its crazy but it all coincides. If you haven't already, read David Deida way of the superior man. Focus on your purpose and brand of 'me!'

Look at the library. Read The new Japanese minimalism. I found it online and bought it. I am not exactly on that level. The pics where you see possession after possession. The shift to minimalist is vast and often enlightening. I have ways to go. I can get by on very little. I am doing Leo's purpose course. I have accounted for the costs and time by estimating i will likely do a 100x what I paid for it. If you can afford it, do it. If you take a gap year, TRAVEL. See the world. Don't travel posh. Do it cheap and from a minimalist perspective. Cheap hostels. Interact. Learn game and pickup. Develop social skills. Whats your plan for education? Imo study STEM or trades. Anything you can learn from the library don't do. If you can attend a community college and stay close to home you will be better off. Check salary for the position in your potential field. I saw a source that over a trillion of the student loan debt is women and sadly, the choice is not stem nor anything that pays. You can't declare bankruptcy on student debt. Its blood money. Don't do it. Apply for grants and scholarships.

Any ideas on how you will 1. Monopolise it? 2. How you will market it? 3. Scale it up? Its annoying but money is do damn important. I cannot take it with me when I go to the next place but, it frees up time to do what you love. 4. What has happened sense you first wrote that? 5. Where do you go from here?

I got through more content today. Leo's message reminded me of a similar message about the importance of pulling weeds. Its got me doing a time audit for my life. I have realized that I have some work to do. I was also thinking about ways to repay the work forward. I will do Coaching and other stuff once I have set my purpose off in motion. I will do more programs to keep upgrading myself. I would like to do Ecky retreat one day but its extremely expensive for someone who pushes non-attachments lol. Such is life. I want to do a TM live event. I am looking forward to a breakthrough very soon.

Without any goal, its rudderless.

Lmfao +1 Nobody who pulls talks like Op. Its creepy. I can only imagine the skeleton in the closet lol. There's nothing creepier then male feminists. WAR JP

Greatest book everyman nust read in his life. Top #3 if not 1. I'll reread it a few times a year. Owen Cook put me onto Deida and Ecky. I have not looked back. Check his content. Deida is a wizard. It conveniently coincides with the purpose course by Leo lol @Serotoninluv was the complaint about closing for Leo? lol. I don't get it lololol

+1 One of my friends is a good looking fella from the Greek Islands. He is a painfully shy guy but mentioned a book that helped. I have not looked back. Its funny how, he always had beautiful dates just no funnel or means to meet. He set me up on a double. The girl was absolutely stunning. I love that guy. The sort of friend I'd throw down for. My buddy can squeek through the approach and girls are just into him. He is a good friend and a awesome guy. Its hilarious too because most girls will never think about pickup. He's good looking.

Do you pull? Serious question lol.

Its why every dating coach ever has always said its a numbers game. To field test everything. Its simply Pragmatism at work to invest based on genuine desire and nothing butt. Its funny reading some comments because its like people are speaking another language. In a way, its very much so like a language barrier. The best example i heard was, sleeping with Jon Jones or Deontay Wilder + thinking you know how to fight now. The POV is comical at best. Being approached and approaching is not the same. The everything is equal crap is brain rot as reflected in the pof study for female mate choice linked above. Not reality. 80% seems to be a common theme. I was prowling through the bar one night. I lost count of the approaches before sexy time. For all the demonising of men and wanting sex, the volume of women met who were trying to leech free drinks, bottle service, and status is ridiculous. On both occasions, both are being selfish. The difference between the two is at least one is blatant obvious about sexy time versus pretending to like men for bottle service, free drinks, and vip or something status related. Again, its hilarious seeing the POV. The amount of volume that this lifestyle requires is outrage but again, i ask, what's the alternative? I have shifted gears with the purpose course. Allocate time to more worthy causes but the analytics following pickup and before is night and day. More importantly, seeing that a botched approach and rejection is not a death sentence IS a monumental moment for every man especially in a rra that simps and panders. Men have no rite of passage anymore. I am so sick of the participation trophy and ribbon nonsense. Its first loser. Handling the Ls and rejection is of the utmost importance. Its more annoying hearing the pity party afterwards. Similar to the comment about sex with jon Jones and thinking you can fight comes to mind when hearing people rant against pickup but don't approach. Guy or girl, its annoying. @Leo Gurai agree with you that its orange. That there's higher plains of consciousness. Again without the male rite of passage and era of participation trophies or ribbons, I think cold approach and psychedelics are a must. You get banged up in both of them but something is gained thereafter (hopefully).

Good game is subtle. You wouldn't know its happening. If it didn't work, it would not annoy you this much. You would assume it is silliness and not even be bothered by it. The annoying thing about modern era dating is the plausible deniability and not keeping it real. Its a classic example of the pareto distribution. There's a difference in Drake or dicaprios Dating life versus Tom Arnold lol. As for conscious dating, you have no clue how many guys are terrified in approaching. A miniscule amount will. Usually more (not less) alpha. Usually, better not worst experience. Even the few people who approach, even far less are any good at it. Guys will never get the life of a girl anymore than girls get what it's like being a guy. For all equality jargon, the status quo is still expected men approach.