Meetjoeblack

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  1. Read David Deida Way of the superior man. YouTube rsd Tyler David D. He breaks it down in 15min. It's not doing it justice but it wets your whistle. I read the Sedona Method. It said, "you feel a emotion. You aren't that emotion." paraphrased but...! So, feel whatev it is. Breathe deep. Note, it's there but it subsides. The frequency is a little better.
  2. Freedom from outcome + intent. RSD popularized it. I think Tyler took it from the bhagavad Gita. "unattached to the fruits of your labor." As in, everything is God's/Being /source /whatever! You have a duty to action. The outcome is not ours. I had the best pickup more recently. It is never perfect. And yet it is. Frame, no reason why you're not more than enough. She was smitten. I love it ❤! Nobody is cut from a different cloth. Yes some are more lucky than others in the genetic lottery lulz. Play the hand you are dealt. Get better. Not bitter. - JB In the most difficult and shitty logistics, I think gun to the head like in fight club. Could I do it then? If I can't, what if I could bring back dead family members? Morbid. I know but, whatever it takes to get leverage. In the worst of times, you won't or can't do it for you. You don't hesitate if for a loved one or family. You only get this one life. Live it.
  3. He can't. It got axed. @Arcangel, someone posted Alex Grace vid and a mod gave ban for talking evo psych. I am disputing it with Leo. SRS
  4. Could be testosterone. Could be sleep. Any number of things. I picked up a college girl around your age. Her complaint is guys her age Don't approach, aren't sexual, lack ambition, etc. I am noticing a growing amount of young men disinterested in sex and finding God or chasing spirituality.
  5. A fear men have is getting cut off from the wife. Later to find out more about past indiscretions. I don't think marriage or monogamy is natural. Furthermore, the economic fallout is not for me. If I have a partner who is not sexual, I am out. I think I associate sex and love. As in, that genuine desire from a woman. Not only is it a huge deal to me but what better way! Not that it's the only way. Just a huge deal.
  6. I like trip. I wish I saw Infield. I always enjoy rsd and Infield as it puts frauds. Justin Wayne for example. He seems like a good guy. It's super pc which is annoying but he doesn't want demonetization. Curious about his programs. I am coming from RSD. I saw Julien and he's a a maniac. I never saw better game. He then had a media scandal lulz. Married now but to a girl who stuck with during the scandal. Stunner too. ? Big up's @julien!
  7. I love James Marshall. Him and his pal Sasha. I don't resonate with all tln. I clicked a vblog and it was sex toys and weird stuff. I was pissed. I did MMM (Marshall meditation method). It's excellent. I don't know about pickup. I'm more about rsd, mystery, ToddV.
  8. Statement of intent > asking. No simping. Play to win. What do you want? Put it out there. Let things pan out as they may. I don't text or call to chat. I'm pragmatic. If she's not coming, cool. Some other girl is. #next! You don't have to be malicious about it but you must be ruthless with your time. No time vampires. The same for bad friends or negative people. Don't overthink. If I text, no response or one word answer, I delete the contact and I go do more cold approach.
  9. I did pickup during ban camp. I had what I would describe as the best pickup ever. Absolutely epic. I am currently reading "turning pro." I read war of art before. Resistance is a bitch. The resistance to approaching is ridiculous after you do it. It is why 3sec rule is gold standard.
  10. Most guys don't approach. The ones who do clean up better obviously than the ones who don't. As a teen boy, a senior playboy took me out. Gave me a pep talk. He said, if he walked in to a bar, and asked who wants to have sex, he would get less opportunities then a woman even if far less attractive. Women are more picky then men. I now approach all, minimize time between interacting, and I have fun.
  11. So, back from ban camp. I inboxed Leo on a particular mods abuse of power and virtue signaling. Moving on, I finished levels of energy. It was excellent. It referenced the Sedona method which I started reading. It coincides with the purpose course nicely. A insight included, "you are having a feeling. You aren't that feeling." useful tip during pickup with the most ridiculous of logistics. I am looking forward to seeing her again ?! I just got through the consciousness vblog and the one on self limiting beliefs. I had this ridiculous idea pop into my head. Imagine, gun to the head like fight club. Could I do XYZ? Start a business? Make a million? Travel the world? Approach "that girl?" create passive streams of income? Multiple streams of income? I like manga. I came across this episode of dbz. Vegeta seeks power and a new technique. Instead, he's told they can only teach "spirit control!" ? I've been doing a lot of pranic breathing techniques. I started the wim Hoff techniques too. I am consistently meditating too. My energy is excellent. Moreover, my awareness has skyrocked. I am being precognitive. I am noticing it in game, in the workplace, purpose, and lifestyle. I am beginning to think about doing a fast. More accurately, intermittent fasting, and gaining more muscle before cutting as I enter into the spring.
  12. The problem imho is click bait, victim culture, junk science and the promotion for women to sleep around when the data virtually guarantee divorce among other things. Source my Molyneux truth on sex series, gene warfare, rk selection. The elephant in the room is the men can slip into her DMs. Temporarily offer her fun. Cobra Tate wheeling Peterson daughter who left her husband more recently. In her defence, she never dated before and now her health is better, she's lookin to date up (as is her right). The counter balance is that, a guy like Cobra Tate has a harem. Wont marry her. She is young but you aren't forever. Its a dangerous thing. Men use to mate guard. Its degenerate now. Nobody does. Its strange times. Even before the science and data, men have known high body count and divorce + infidelity go hand in hand. People can rage all they want. The data speaks for itself. The same is with divorce and gender. While the options for dating is numerous, the fallout is pretty apparent. IMHO its savage on both ends.
  13. Dating apps are cucked.
  14. read way of the superior man by David Deida. there's a time reap and a time to sow. it sounds like you are in a period of contemplation. So be it. enjoy. in time, it will come when you must sow. for now, stay aware. pay attention. keep focused. Come clarity. let it. When the time is right, you will know what to do. Until then, do your best and keep up with your spiritual work.
  15. I am doing Leo's purpose course now. I read levels of energy and power vs force. I am currently reading the Tibetan yoga of dream and sleep. There's a segment where it coincides with Leo's Course. it's the journey. not the destination. 24 is young. enjoy. The book warned "trying" & "working hard" is counter productive. it is spinning your wheels. aim for flow state. the time will come one way or another. let it. enjoy the process. learn more and get process oriented. it is never done. we're shedding layers of karma (for better or worse). ~Paradox, humor, change! ~Sox If it's going to be a journey, prepare and plan for the best journey ever!
  16. how old are you? if early or mid twenties, I will do college but community college. Be warned, you can't declare bankruptcy on student loans. if older, say in a career already, I'd do a coding boot camp. for now, play with apps and self learn to code to make sure 1. you can code 2. it's not a dread I took coding in hs. it is a pain.hence why it pays.
  17. why dive deep into spirituality for a year only to lie about employment? Always live your truth.
  18. Please. more of this. op, you did your part. let it die. drop it. Suggest she show you to her hot young friends. there's her being unavailable making you want her but, a far better play is pursuing her friends. likely, single and no fallout. no stone in turned ftw!
  19. I could be in church, monastery, shopping center or wherever. A girl always stands out. I always approach. it's not always smooth or pretty. it's not like the coffee shop scene in MJB but no regrets. I am on a lifeline from perma ban camp. You're killing me bud.i will be cryptic lulz. I don't believe in monogamy though, I think it's better for kids and society. I approached a girl at the beach last summer. I pulled her out of the water and 30feet to my towel. I took her number. I later ran into her with her bf. she was looking for Plan B. likely checking options. Her ltr isn't a concern for me. It never took and I never cared to follow up. If she said I have a man,there's a beach full of hot young girls in bikinis. I wasn't losing sleep. it was sly because she never said anything. I just tell girls to come over. I don't ask for ltr status. it's not my business. I am out for me. It's different if I saw a wedding ring and children. That's weird. I have my limits. Funny story. My wing once texted me back asking "which is the wedding finger." ??? the presupposition is marriage matters to him. he was interested and wanting to check first. I died laughing. I knew what was up. sweet kid. It's all projection and conjecture. You don't know till you get her to come over. the fallout is, you can't trust a cheat. My play? Tell her to introduce you to her hit younger friends (or next set). I am not the water boy. not waiting for her ltr to fail and pick up the pieces. She's got friends. act as such.
  20. it doesn't matter where you get inspired from. It just matters you find it. you digg deep especially when you have nothing more to give. I am not Jordan. Yes, it's a commercial. it is super inspiring to hear that from the GOAT. He failed over and over again. That's why he succeeds. As in, MJ isn't above the process. There's books like Outliers or Talent is overrated. We can dismiss Jon Jones or MJ and Gretzky as talented but it removes countless hours input on their greatness. There's a theory about being world class and requiring 10,000 hours. No. I won't Play sports like MJ. The point is, how much time are you putting into social skills? Approaching? education? Reading? Meditation? Purpose? I read a book a week. usually more. I meditate everyday. I am rewiring my thinking patterns. My sense of self value and self-concept isn't altered by rejection. I am still the same man with or without the girl. it's arbitrary. I wasn't supposed to evolve. I spent years at it. Like in Fight Club, Gun to the head, could I approach? What if I could bring back family and friends that passed away? When I couldn't do it for myself, I got leverage in other ways. I can't bring family or friends back. I figured I would die alone. If no matter what, I can't change fate, what do I have to lose? Things slowly started to change. You have nothing to lose . everything to gain.
  21. lmfao it's part of the process. learn game. start small. say hi.= win do a 30 day challenge. stack to get #. stack to pull. scaffolding like Lego. chalk everything to win. aim for the winner effect. read the book. Get Ws.
  22. one of my favorite athletes is Mad a Mario. Super Mario Balotelli. He's a black pro soccer player. He does crazy stuff. He's a orphan abandoned. a rich Italian family raised him. he has had flashes of brilliance. Sadly he never become world class. he didn't do the work. youtube muscle flex.
  23. @Chumbimba are you a virgin? what level of experience if any do you have in women? it sounds like a lot of approach anxiety. likely, past traumas. bad experiences and rejections. You likely are high in neurotism on the big five personality traits. Do meditation. do the panic breathing techniques from TM. do the work. Peterson breaks down the genius of pickup and exposure. If it's important enough,you will do the work. Therest billions of men on the planet. the amount of men who approach is probably less than 1%. Far less are any good after approaching. I'm hit or miss. it's either on or not. the consensus is 1/3,1/3, & 1/3. as in rejection, fence sitting, and attraction. of the 33.33333% of "success," you still sift through nonsense to get her out. a miniscule amount of time, you pull a tiny percentage of the girls. The conversion rate sucks. again, what's the alternative? if you approach nonstop, you will get past approach anxiety and you will pull. Do the work.
  24. much of my experience is like that. I see a significant amount of delusion from mainstream media and the norm. I can't be bothered to bump stats as I have in the past. if anything, there's something more telling in the movies in most recent years. the greatest selling piece of female literature is fifty shades. it is telling given the sales of the book and what men are told. it's all really fascinating to me.
  25. Too much this! Its similar to keyboard jockeys (KJs) and theory. Its rampid in the threads particular from people who don't approach. Its ridiculous. Every answer comes infield. You can pirate and torrent like guys on reddit and never approach. Your game won't improve. My actual post is somewhere in thread's but I am a lifeline from perma ban warning so I will be cryptic. I went to a posh club. I was rampaging through the club like Hank Scorpio with a flamethrower. Do your hank Scorpio impersonation. Think volume. Approach all. minimize time between sets. check rsd Tyler 6 steps. I did anywhere between 30-100 approaches. I ended up going to a girls condo SNL. it's a cra cra amount of output. lots of flakes, shenanigans, craziness, and drama. Take a pragmatic approach. I am no model. I am not 6foot. I am not rich. I am not a pornstar. I don't have permission to do any of the following. I am a random man who went through hell fire and came out the other end. You transcend who and what you are WHEN.. Until then, it's just a thought. youtube rsd motivation. check archives. watch truth on success series. live it up. I love pickup. 100% of guys never will do it. the percentage of the population won't do it. they will moralize but they don't pull. they don't approach. they got a opinion like! cool story bro. it just means, more for me! the output is unreal. as in, the conversion rate to output ratio.