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Read The One Thing. Pick a path. Start there. At 35, its not too late but, what's your play? Do you have a wife and kids? Real estate, IT, handy, etc is all over the place. Take aim and run with it. If IT is your preference, go there. Look into coding boot camp. In all likelihood, you will take a hit now but, You have many years to work. Keep your expenses down. A few friends are free. One makes 30k but he can live anywhere in the world for next to nothing. Get a job. Side hustle after.

+1 David Deida is incredible. I am focusing 110℅ of my efforts and faculties towards purpose in 2020. I am learning that, even as a minimalist and any niche that provides resources will sufficiently free me. Tripping out is huge for me. Its ego decimated. Its gratitude and terrifying but necessary. Its freeing. I am searching ATM. I had a trip once again and I was viewing this world again through child-like eyes. I was curious and in awe watching a lightning strike. Another time, I came in contact with what Carl Jung calls the shadow. Six hours there in shadow work got dark. It was a reunion of death and a lot of stuff that was repressed came up. I remember putting on a yogi meditation track. The sun was so bright I could feel the heat. I also ran into a ex which wasn't helping my setting. I am at that place where I will lean past and into my edge. Its terrifying but the alternative is mediocrity. It is freeing. When I get to where I am going, i am coming back for The others.

Agreed. Pickup, travel, read, write, vblog.

I brought up red pill and I was accused of not liking woman but, last weekend says otherwise ?! Great book list. David Deida is a book every man should read especially in the soy boy limp wrist era. Its profound. I've read it many times and I take new insights every time. Ecky is superb fabulous too. I don't necessarily agree about intimidating rich people. Cobra Tate is not intimidated. He's a natty. PhD is great but most guys can't execute it. As someone said, Todd V is sick. He is less enthusiastic and lively then say rsd Julien blanc but again, most guys can't approach never mind emulate him. Its enough to just approach and learn. There's a entire reddit sub with guys pirating everything but don't approach. Forget discussing pulling. There's torrent downloads for everything but no execution. I am either on or stone cold. I spent one night swinging at air before going home to fap. The following night, I was the Tasmanian devil in the bar. Ended back at a girls place getting bobs on her balcony. Woke up to her text wishing I got home safe. I needed some electrolytes LULz!

He seems like a nice guy. I like Marshall Meditation Method. No clue about his actual game and results. I like Sasha too. They are all in the same space. I found Owen Cook helpful. He is not the ideal character one would associate game with due to aesthetics. And yet, here we are. Mystery too though I never like routines. Julien blanc was the best I ever met. He is retired and married now but, polarizing and obnoxious.

I love stats if its not already apparent. I use to think monogamy is the norm. I don't think so anymore. I think its ideal for children but more kids are tossed in daycare these days and we're seeing a lot of children with cognitive development issues and autism. i chatted up a really cute girl recently. She wasn't married ?. I checked for a ring. We got talking about dating, marriage, and she made excellent points. She was saying that its harder now because of apps and Netflix & chill. Whereas long term commitment was more common once upon a time, debauchery and degenerate society is normalized.

Take pieces from diff sources. Think for yourself. For me, I started out in a interesting place. I don't know how else to put it. There's a lot of loss. I have seen darkness. I am not shocked when I see chaos. There's nothing but an alternative thereafter. There's a push from self actualization that helps transcend the darkness. I have lost so many loved ones from family and friends. I ask, what's the alternative? The process has transcended my dating life, social circle, poverty, fitness, and lifestyle. Its always a struggle. Its never easy. PURPOSE is the driving force. I can't take possessions or resources with me. I have learned that value of life experience and leaving no stone unturned. We're all afraid. There's death looming at every corner. We're burdened by loss or risk of failure. I keep asking, what's the alternative? I know my true north. I am searching for something. What would make this life worth the price of admission? Bruce Lee once said, immortality is in living a life worth remembering. Start here!

You can transcend culture. You are a drop in the ocean. You can't overwrite millions spent to indoctrinated girls with spending peak fertility chasing Chad and degrees in sock puppet therapy and major in left handed puppetry. There's a push on being woke, SJWs, ruining awesome movies like Star Wars and others. Generation of soy boys and low testosterone. Society is degenerate . The culture is cucked. Enjoy the decline. Find your peace. Live your Id. You can transcend Being. You can update your values. You won't transcend culture. You can still be that drop in the bucket.

There's a difference between knowledge and wisdom. I can read every book but if I don't live it, its a waste.

I met a cute yogi. She was dainty and petite. Very feminine. She loved crystals. I got told about one in San Fran.

I've always found hookups more valuable then not. Hookups are too common. A series of hookups is more often likely to lead to a LTR then not. Just wait is the worst popularized advice given in mainstream culture.

I can forgive for my own sake, spirit, and longevity of being. Its insanity to keep up the charade. Its over. Specifically, The actions speak tons of the lack in loyalty. Its one of the reason why the concept of unconditional love is rubbish. Its always based on a prerequisite. Not cuckoldry. There's a huge push today on cucking poly, and all sorts of ridiculousness. Unconditional love to a pet or a baby. Sure.

It keeps society orderly. Paint a cute pic of happily ever after. Dupe schmuck into delusional forever. In a era that exercised traditionalism, valued family unity, and one family income, things while not perfect still had longevity. There's a simple answer. Follow the trail of money. I can date or have a LTR without signing any government contract. Even the concept of marriage is ridiculous when everything falls on the top end. Its one day rather than later on. After say 25 years... Celebrate. Its not the norm because nothing is built to last today.

Owen Cook, David Deida, ToddV, Julien Blanc.

I don't think focusing on a career is the be end all anymore then I do think its its ideal for women. The college student debt bubble is mostly women. A estimated trillion is women and the political talking point is there because of it. Otherwise it will be a non-issue. Being resourceful man us a attractive quality. Depth is important. You can leave and she can follow or you can move on.

You stalked him. Wtf? That's weird. Why would he argue with female logic when he can lie and plsy video games? Stalking and lying sounds like a keeper LTR. You both should get married, have lots of kids, and luve happily ever after.

Its cucked in the modern era. I've seen it but few and far between. Infatuation is more common and short lived. A classic example is marriage. 50% of marriage ends in divorce. 80% of divorce initiated by women lol. If you are following the beaten path, the following is ludicrous given i don't need to do any of that for love but its a business. The tactic is shame to "man up" and to "do the right thing." The biggest problem is that, people are lazy, and basic. They want a simple solution. Get married. Have kids. Take a circular piece of rare metal on a woman's finger and be complete. Its not like nobody ever cheats and divorce rape is a possibility. In rare incidents, i think it exists but it is a outlier. Not the norm. Furthermore, its more often cucked.

Its not exactly pc but, either she's dtf or next! It sounds savage. Ruthless even but, what's the alternative? Be a beta male provider? Be her orbiter? Follow the beaten path as cucked hubby after she pisses away her youth as Chad and Tyrones booty call? Tell her what you are doing. Where and when. Tell her to COME WITH. She either comes or doesn't but you proceed based on her compliance or lack thereof. There's no ambivalence. If she cannot make it, its still on her to get at you. Being "hot" doesn't make her special. Do you know how many girls were hot but aren't due to shitty lifestyle, drugs, booze, smoking, fast food, high body count etc. The rules don't change. There's always hotter and younger (legal obviously). Play your hand.

You are meant to feel disgust for cuckoldry. There's a degenerate society pushing said filth. You pick the wrong girls the way young girls spend their SMV jumping off the D for every sociopath they think is pretty. It doesn't end well. To keep picking the same type has me wonder if you like cuckoldry or you have low self esteem. Learn to be single. Learn game. Approach lots. Hookup. Have a harem. Let them compete for your affections. After seeing lots, pick from abundance not cuck.

Its a high like a drug or hitting the casino. When you "almost win, " your hind brain registers the data as I nearly won. Its farther from the truth. There's nothing in between. You either win or you lose. If I was ridiculously good looking, rich, had a huge horn, sports cars, social status, will I date more or less? There's people beat with the ugly stick. There's winners and losers in the genetic lottery. It would seek, The better looking people find love and the hungry don't get fed.

Its more common. I had my junk grabbed a bunch of times more recently. Three girls in open public at the bar went down my pants lol. Its sheer debauchery and degenerate society. Enjoy the decline. If it was a obese girl, someone old or a guy, I'd flip. A girl, I'd tell off. If a dude tried to grab it, I'd swing LULz.

You're sad getting laid? Bicurious maybe?! There's only one side effect from pickup. Its seeing female nature. That being, women can be as every bit as good or evil as the next man. Karla homolka killed and raped her sister, threw her husband under the bus for being disgusting fuck, and she's free terrorizing the neighborhood. I humped one girl. The next week, I got head from a diff girl who later ghosted. I was in the back of her throat, happy ending and she ghosted. Its hilarious. I got banned on another forum for giving receipts ?! How do you face reality? The alternative is delusional! Cynicism in the form of the havenots. There's no or little play beforehand. Its the hungry don't get fed. Learn game and its open season. Its seeing where I was, what I was pursuing, and the actuality of it all. You have a world view. You live according to the status quo. You then see the 80/20 pareto principle. 80℅ of women sleeping with top 20℅ of men. You see the divorce stat. You can play homemaker after the carousel ? or not. Its not personal in any event. If you read the Game, a lot were sorting out similar stuff. After seeing the world as such, You are forced to update beliefs. We're the lost boy generation. TV is bashing toxic masculinity. I've been using gillette blades since puberty and masculinity was attacked. Male academics have declined the past fifty years. There's no reform. Manufacturing has been obliterated. Men are unplugging. Ironic, there's nothing more painful.

Its what's so alarming about the push for socialism or Communism. I like Russell Brand. He's funny but he pushes COMMUNISM. I enjoy the law of state transference.

Porn is cuck. I think its better to fap from imagination or give a facial or money shot. Porn is cuckoldry. It sucks because its what we are subjected to asva young horny male. Its addicting. Avoiding porn is a plan.

Well, if a girls involved, I would align it with self actualization. Preferably of the college early twenties demographic. In the porn industry, they refer to the money shot. There's nothing like it. And no substitute for that next level desire.