Richard Alpert

Life for most people is tolerating life most of the time. Look at peoples faces you seen on the streets Chasing happiness is also a trap. Speaking from experience here. Think this: If you dont need anything from anybody or you dont compare yorself to other people. Can you be totally miserable? Can you forget the pick up stuff for a while and make your goal having a normal conversation with a women, where you dont want anything from her. I think guys are way too rushy to try making things move forward. When you start to know the other person, then move forward and if the chemistry is there it will happen naturally, you don´t need to force anything. Are your parents happy people and do they have good relationship? Mine do not, that´s why i made a decision little while ago im not going to talk them that often. I still love them. If you start to become more mindfull you will start to realize some patterns in human behaviour. These are all learned things and i believe they can be unlearned althought it´s hard and takes a LOT of work. You probably have friends who are not benefiting you at moving forward. I used to watch a lot of pua also, had bad friend/family relationships and was needy and disfunctional as fuck with women. Baby steps, step by step, keep working. Like, if you get 1-2% better every year with yourself, think how much that is in 10-20 years? Your outside relationships are a manifestation of your inner relationship.

I guess you have to believe in higher power, call it whatever the name is. You can take it as there is something more powerful than your egoic desires. Dont have to go religious.

Try to get your diet and nofap on order. Dont visit online dating sites, porn site or any of that stuff. I was pretty much of porn, but i still visited dating sites which triggered jerking off from time to time. I have to admit a year back i thought nofap is bullshit, but it´s not. If i would have to give to advices to 20 year olds, it would be clean diet and nofap. If you are going to fap for some reason, dont use images or anything.

Don´t believe your mind. What can you lose by asking him out? Nothing. I was just on a date with maybe the hottest customer i have had in 6 years. I didn´t expect her to accept the date, but i asked and received

To hard kill: Let´s say you start getting laid here and there with a few girls? That will make you little happier right? WRONG. I will feel probably more miserably, because you got what you wanted and nothing changed. In what martial art you got a black belt? Just curious, because i have done them a little bit myself.

Arnold is a one fucking wierd dude

He is not enlightened. he has said that he had 1 amazing mdma experience and some shifts in meditations but nothing lasting. He is deeply involved with academics and intellect, that wont probably help.

The 10000 hour rule is not bullshit. It´s based on research. for someone it might be 30000 hours and someone who has a lot of talent 4000 hours.

you can do anything

you go deeper into prison by trying to escape. i might want to accept and surrender or something..

wrong. you can escape by excersising or reading book too much etc. addiction can be anything if used as an escape. meditation is also an addiction if it starts to influence your daily life negatively, which is not many times the case. spirituality is one of the most common escapes.

years between 20-30 are not easy at all, for many reasons. millions and millions of the people in youre age group are in the same situation as you. sit down and relax. I would recommend you to do this program: https://www.selfauthoring.com/purchase.html It is actually very good and cheap.

You are just becoming intelligent. You have realized no money or women or job will make you fullfilled. There must be something you have enjoyed doing in youre life? What did you do when you were a kid? And try to not piss yourself off. Life is a silly game, but why not play it before going to graveyard.

bananas, coconut flakes, strawberries, blueberries, mct oil, spinach, vegan rise protein (chocolate) blend it up. simple and easy

there is part 2 also.

no, it´s a concept. it exist as a concept.

wtf is a mind? it doesnt exist. No one has ever seen one and no on ehas been able to point out where it is.. Brain on the other hand is an organ which weighs what it weighs. people should forget words: mind, ego, spirituality, non-dual. Most people are trapped in these which leads to confusion. Wipe out the whole language.

good stuff

Recently just bumped into this guy. he´s hilarious.

Leoshanti

Leo should chance his name to Leoguru. Then he would be a brother of Sadguru.

sure. but no one else will. I dont see how anybody could help you or know better what you should do. Personally, i think you´re idea is great. keep going.

Self sabotage is a funny thing. You know what you would like to do and still try to talk you´re way out of it. Im a master of self sabotage myself. Most people are. Nobody gives a fuck anyway what you will do so do what you want to do.

I had my first satori experience on a super hangover walk. This is not a joke.

that was a quick "grounding"