Cinderella

"Collect moments, not things" "The most certain way to suceed is always to try just one more time" "Forget all the reasons it won't work and believe the one reason that it will"

"Titanium" by David Guetta & Sia gives me sooo much strength when I feel depressed. "You shoot me down, but I won't fall. I am TITANIUM!" ???

Let her go...honestly I don't believe in love at first sight, there is just what you call obsession. real love needs time to develop and goes much deeper if you know someone really well. To me it sounds like you're "in love" with the imagination you have of that girl and you project your dream of a good relationship on that person. but do you really know her so well if you didn't even talk to her much? I have been through feelings like this several times, especially when I was younger. They always ended up in a bad way for me. The good relationships I had so far always resulted from friendships where I first got to know the person and then fell in love (and not in an imagination of them).

Thanks a lot everyone. I will take my time to take the final decision and I told him again to rethink, too. The thing is that I know he is not very happy in Australia anyway, just earning good money there that he needs to support his own parents. But I know that I have to put myself first. I love Australia but I love Germany more as it's my home. So I will find out if there is any chance left for us to be together or if I let it go. I'm still young (25). I won't let another year pass but no need to hurry now.

Travel! I had 10000€ when I was 22 and spent it all on a backpacking year. It was the best thing I could ever do! I will still remember this time when Im 80 years. Experiences and development are made outside in the world.

Hi, I have been in a long distance relationship for three years now with my partner living in Australia while I live in Germany. He used to say he will move here and started learning German but in the last months he changed and finally told me that he is too afraid moving here and thinks he won't be happy here. So now I'm in the position to decide: moving to Australia, breaking up or waste more time waiting for him...I'm really home-bound and cannot imagine leaving my family and friends here for good. When I lived in Australia before for 9 months, I was really homesick, so decided to go back and studied again. My studies will be finished soon and I may have the chance to get a dream job here. He is really special to me. I think he is my soul mate but does it mean I have to give up my current life for him? I'm so afraid whatever decision I take, I will regret in a few months or years. Anyone has made any experience like this and can give some advice? Thanks!