John Paul

as long as you don't get fired don't shame yourself too hard bro..it's just another greedy corporation (just one perspective)

Because people ridicule each other's bodies just to fuck with each other as kids and compare each other/them-self to the perfect screen people who get all kinds of praise and yada yada........dumb shit.

Are you sensing that you are avoiding?

Leo, you faka. The amount of advanced guidance that I've received from people I've met in my life isn't zero but it is laughable compared to the way you've improved my ability to think. I can't give you the most credit, I'll give that to myself but..... I love you(?) I don't know if you'll accept that but. Thanks bro. @Leo Gura

@Preety_India ya.... if only knowing all of the answers could help me cope with my self-created sense of "lack of support" and unwillingness to forgive.

exercise, eat vegetable, don't take caffeine/drugs too late-go to sleep, learn yoga breathing, jack-off if you feel like it, go in your car and sing songs, and ya do your spiritual stuff too. sounds like you got it....

Resentment, ignorance/lack of experience, fear/insecurity, level of health and consciousness itself, disorganization and chaos/lack of foundation and balance in lifestyle/natural backsliding to center of gravity, comfort/attachment

I found a finance guy on youtube last night. His name is Graham Stephan. He seems legit.

@MovForward if that's the reason you should go join a boxing club. tough hand not gonna protect your face

get out of there. now. don't even think about it. never speak to her again. mean it.

@puporing thanks. probably not, i don't own any properties, but good idea I'm in hawaii

@Julian gabriel don't give up logic or think it's bad, that's called being fucking stupid. logic is limited that's all. combine your emotions with logic. put your emotion into your body and voice. become shameless think about how you feel and why, write it down. become in touch with yourself.

@PepperBlossoms don't waste time trying to help people with their mindsets. changing people is a waste of your life. religious people don't know this cause they're stupid. don't suppress yourself it's a waste of life. unless the value they add to your life is great or you want something out of them, then pretend you are interested in order to get what you want from them. if they are like family to you then be cool with them but don't give any energy to religious conversations, try to keep avoiding the topic and don't make it obvious, OR the most genuine action would be to set a boundary "i'm not interested in your religious beliefs, I'm interested in you. if you aren't willing to not push your religion on me i need space/find new friends etc."

@PurpleTree you have to cease caring about girls and begin caring about women

another one from coach corey wayne lol "when you stop caring, results come" seems like you could boil it all down to this huh? girls like guys who just don't care...(?) @Leo Gura and i want to add, can i just be my nasty toxic self and girls will like it? have any of you seen or just been rude to girls and they like it? like I'm over "learning" game right like....just fuck em right?

Paradox: in order to have compassion for others you need to have compassion for your self. And if your self doesn’t have compassion for others, well… that’s where someone is at I guess lol

whatever feeling you have channel that into your voice. say whatever you want and feel no shame. eliminate shame from your emotional body and psyche, sad is better than shame, anything is better than shame especially with women. you can even talk bad about yourself and do it shamelessly that's what the not bragging advice from Leo is. it's being shameless bro. if you say "i'm a lazy fucker" in a happy, edgy tone, she'll want your dick. if you're all bashful "duuuuh i'm lazzzzyyyy i shouldn't be" you suck. you gotta become shameless then it doesn't matter at all what you say as long as you don't say anything too outrageous for the setting. like you have to figure that part out for yourself but it's okay because if you accidentally say something innappropriate in a grocery store and get rejected in an embarrassing way that will just make you both more knowledgable and shameless in the future.

@hamedsf get money, fuck hoes hahahahah i'm just kidding

Porn = reward with no work sex = possible rewards if you even get it with lots of work before during and after if you're a decent human your problem is that you are lazy fucks in life and projecting that porn is bad. man the fuck up. it's okay to use porn to hack your sex life if you don't have time etc. porn is just like tv though, you're just being lazy about your sexual needs or karma whatever the fuck you wanna call it

I would pick quit if i were between the two because you aren't even going to use the degree and you only have a limited amount of years before your body will give out. sounds like a sweet deal either way. you quit and live a more passionate life instantly or you stick it out for only one year and you have a master's degree lol.

LOL why do you want tough hands!?! i thought this before too for myself, i'm just wondering

@Gabith fill your time with things you'd rather do instead and don't feel guilty bro, feeling guilty is dumb, there's no need for you to be punished you are a beautiful being. if porn makes you insecure then that's something else besides guilty, maybe you wish you had more dates or a committed relationship and porn is too cold and empty and it's not real sex lol maybe you should try to talk to girls like in leo's get laid videos. If you have this "i'm addicted syndrome" with other habits then maybe check for like religious trauma or verbal abuse or something, i got some of that from my dad, always thinking i'm doing the wrong thing. you got it bro, figure it out, it's just a screen it's not "bad". if anything denying yourself like those no-fap guys or normie christians would say fuck that, you deserve to NUT bro!!!!! be happy

Productivity is relative to what you want i think. Do I need time to relax throughout the day, take breaks, or how does that work? I don't think so unless you are subconsciously chasing some sort of success and trying to rush the process. in this case you are what George Leonard calls "the obsessive", someone who can't bare the experience of your progress plateauing which he says is a unavoidable and very commonly overlooked part of the process of mastery. I would also add that if you are doing the things where you are saying to yourself you are removing all bad habits and pleasure chasing and doing blah blah blah meditation...for what?? find something that brings you joy or what is the fucking point bro? Be happy. chasing pleasure is not happy but neither is denying life being lived. try learning an art form or making new friends/lovers. Can anyone tell me a schedule that one typically has if you can? Wake up and move, exercise and then practice yoga breathing, stretches, and meditation. Wash up your body and clean something if there's something to be cleaned. Dress up and eat breakfast. After this It would depend on what your life purpose is. Maybe since you are so super serious you should buy the life purpose course. It is EPIC. the values portion of the course has changed me, i will never be the same, i didn't even properly finish the course (I will do the whole thing again soon) and I am super motivated. How does discipline work while gaining a healthy amount of pleasure or motivation? Don't chase pleasure. Change your relationship to "pleasure" or "excitement" consider that you are telling yourself a story underneath your conscious thoughts that these things are good. Maybe they are not good. maybe they are not bad either. Maybe you should decide what it is that you value. Let's say joy or connection or self-expression or health or focus itself and focus on that instead. I don't know if this is an answer to this question or not Is there a need to have pleasure or is it pleasurable to feel pain throughout the drudgery of the process? (no pain, no gain?) I don't know bro, I'm too busy backsliding to tell you. I know that if you push too hard and fast you might start to slip, i know i fucking do. One little step at a time. if you are really going to become a master that means you have years.....your rushing itself is a newbie move i think... CREATE A VISION FOR YOUR LIFE. IT'S PROBABLY NOT YOU SITTING ON A FUCKING CUSHION.

So weird. I was just thinking this the other night Like I have this strong desire for true self-expression and to feel and KNOW I've been understood accurately...i didn't even dive into what it means for me either. i just wrote down something like I just wrote here.@Julian gabriel Maybe it's artistic desire. Or maybe it's for intimacy. I don't know if we can have intimacy with others, seems like everything in life is all about me. what do you think?

@Yarco you got the study or something you can link and does it say what the healthiest weight and muscle/fat that there is for humans?