John Paul

@Spence94 i don't think that you ignore it and keep grinding... there is a "balance". too much ignoring and grinding could end up in a collapse i think. I don't know brother.... I am going through emotional turmoil right now, i don't have an answer. 1. honor pain 2. don't accept "defeat" as a concept, just make mistakes (not bad) and re-strategizing/reflecting 3. self-care 4. THEN grind and ignore.... in no order really but

@Preety_India it sounds like you are projecting "passive aggressive" on many men. I saw you posted that passive aggressive men are always approaching you. maybe this is your problem, and no one else's

@Preety_India define ego wars

@Preety_India you just got reported for trolling

If there's a crackdown i think it should start with a brutal and swift crackdown on toxic political orange (obviously i'm biased and emotional) the title of post is wrong, my bad

@Preety_India aren't you demonizing me? and talking down to me? and calling my post stupid? what's the difference between my ego game and some stage orange political guy's ego game spreading misinformation or encouraging others to potentially seek out misinformation online that could end up being very damaging to the person if they are another naive SD Orange or under???

@Carl-Richard dang, good question... (studying spiral dynamics) Avoiding demonizing annnnnd i'm stumped, but only because i'm being a hypocrite I want to say that people promoting orange POVs in politics are dangerous... but i guess they are just pushing a POV. I do the same thing in the relationships forum so. I just get triggered when it's like that vibe of: *orange being demonized by green* oh poor orange... wtf. and the no free speech/censorship type bullshit that's definitely propaganda. like this should be a propaganda free forum dontcha think??? And because I'm not at stage yellow politics I'm sure i'm missing the value of stage orange politics... i don't know, i'll shut up, i'm sure there's some value but it just seems totally toxic and counter-productive or should i say counter-progressive from my POV (GREEN politics, I'd like to think GREEN-yellow but probably delusional)

showing up and doing it is the only way. but he didn't mention that shit comes up that you have to confront, work around, look at, feel, integrate etc.

@Husseinisdoingfine distinction between integrating stage orange while being open to accepting blue and green versus promoting stage orange

update: i returned to the green group today, the mankind project. it's a healthy green.... healthy green (no dogma) is great fallback when emotionally unstable, i take it back

@Yarco hm good point... i guess the distinction i would make is toxic "victimized majority" type of orange... @BlueOak only if you have a developed self-reflection. @Phil King yes this is true. i am talking orange propaganda and the rhetoric that goes with it. @Carl-Richard mmhm. I'm not trying to put myself above. if i get banned for this shit i get banned. i'm curious about the "enforcement" to come and how he's actually gonna distinguish what's okay or not i mean.... @itachi uchiha of course but like i said.. he's saying like "this isn't for everyone.." like we got open conspiracy theory posting going on idk when he or what he setting boundaries on so i'm getting the conversation rolling @Focus Shift true but we should clearly define the boundaries of what is healthy and not healthy and then start clearing the rubbish. this would be healthy stage orange. @puporing i feel betrayed lol if you want my stage green perspective, you laughing at me hurts. i'm not a SD orange dips hit (i know you didn't say i was)

@itachi uchiha yes, good point. it's not beneficial to blindly believe information you gather on the internet....... (conspiracy theories)

@Raptorsin7 well i'm asking questions and you're neither asking or answering so i guess you're right. good luck to you on your journey !!!!! (not passive-aggressive this time)

@Yarco have you every imagined what it would be like to be gay?

@Raptorsin7 lol. how does "seeking to discover truth about conspiracy theories" help progress society, any individual's self-actulization/sprituality or anything? I'm not trying to shit on your post man, i'm sorry. but there's a leo video on conspiracy theory and everything... this is a trap bro, get out of there

@hoodrow trillson yeah. i feel like dealing with people is just about as dumb as choosing what foods to eat/being healthy-not that being healthy is that easy but ya know, it's stupid survival shit and it's kind of a bummer when you watch all of the movies about love and deep brotherhood etc. i intuit but am not fully subconsciously convinced that that's the complete opposite of real life.

@Raptorsin7 let you know that one of the guys commenting on this post was spreading a conspiracy theory that was started by hitler to be anti-jewish. the rothschild banking conspiracy theory. it is not okay. it is absolutely not okay. @itachi uchiha hiding that post. bro that's not okay

aha. am i tickling the pain that your ego is hiding by "discovering the truth" of conspiracy theories instead of your own bullshit?

Can cold approach training supplement the benefits of doing public speaking, sales, all other people skill development? @Leo Gura

you are right. and don't think that stage green people are too stupid to know this. stage green people are smart... yet in practice fucking stupid. think of it more like this: america is mostly christian, yet they are running the show, putting prayer on football tv etc. many stage blue-orange people have no problem with this even if they aren't spiritual about their religion and yet are anti-muslim or spread anti-muslim rhetoric blah blah. it's stage green trying to expand the perspective of lower stages in a dumb way (maybe, idk, a lot green bandwagoning too, all kinds of reasons)

@Someone here it's because muslim's in america are at just about the same advancement as christians in america. and the more petty, simple-minded folks on the left (stage green) make it a point to stick up for all of the little guys in America. Muslims are a huge minority, the little guys. so stage green people in america specifically want them to feel welcome whereas stage blue people "want them out" type of thing and stage orange will just make some immature joke about how they are a terrorist or just as bad as stage blue christians therefore they deserve no mercy when in face if no one stood up for them they may end up being victimized by hate more so than they are (who knows) there's a reason for everything from the other perspective

@Raptorsin7 how could a conspiracy theory being true or not relate directly back to you and your life?

ya very good point. i haven't realized this, i've just seen it. still think these turn out to be irrelevant to success with people don't see the relevancy

great job. start a computer journal and recount all of your experiences to yourself, do it all the time, write how you feel

what was in particular about sorting through your feelings and improving your life that made you curious about conspiracies? or is it your mind distracting you to avoid your own emotional pain